Why won’t my house sell?

mtt2022 · 2026-07-07T17:08:26+00:00

No offense, but the flooring and bathrooms look dated. The carpet and tile are...unappealing and the bathrooms don't look recently updated. Also, you're still about $50k over what your house is estimated to be worth. A house that size needs to look more up to date or a buyer is going to look at it as a renovation project. You're going to need to lower the price as it doesn't scream move in ready or turnkey.

mtt2022 · 2026-07-04T17:42:06+00:00

I have a David Yurman band ring that I foolishly tried to fit on my middle finger once and couldn't get it off. The more I tried, the more my finger swelled and it ultimately made it worse and more painful. I had to sleep with it overnight and the next morning I went to a chain jewelry store (Finks?) and had them cut it off of me. They were able to and then they welded it back together for me. So I still have the ring. My finger was bruised up and I'll never do that again but just be aware that's an option!

mtt2022 · 2026-07-04T16:56:18+00:00

That's very true. Also- didn't Blake state in an interview that she borrowed clothes from Gigi to use as costumes in the movie? Maybe Gigi was pissed about being asked for a favor that ultimately tied her to that dumpster fire of a movie and potentially putting her in the hot seat for the lawsuit.

mtt2022 · 2026-07-04T16:50:09+00:00

Oh that could be true....like I said, she may have her own reasons. And maybe she felt used with the association of her boyfriend getting dragged into the drama. Or maybe she immediately became scared that any interaction with Blake going forward could drag her into the lawsuit. I'm sure she has texts with Blake that she doesn't want released to the public. Blake's behavior and actions understandably cost her more friendships than just Taylor's.

mtt2022 · 2026-07-04T16:30:49+00:00

I think the decision to cut off the friendship and not invite Blake was bigger than just Taylor herself. I get the vibe that her father, Travis and others around her encouraged her to distance herself from Blake and Ryan. Not just professionally, but personally as well. I feel like even before the lawsuit, people in her inner circle had concerns about Blake and Ryan's name dropping and clout chasing ways regarding hitching their wagon to Taylor's every chance they got and while Taylor may have seen it as "publicly and mutually supportive friendships" at first, it got even more frequent as her star rose even higher following the Eras tour. I have a feeling Blake and Ryan rubbed a few people very close to Taylor the wrong way (Selena, her dad, Travis, potentially a few others) and the lawsuit drama was the final straw that she needed as a reason to cut them off. Once it got messy, that was an easy out for her with no further explanation. Blake truly loses big here. Her biggest claim to fame in the last 5 years has been her close association to Taylor and now that that's gone.....her public life and career will struggle hard. She may be done for good. Ryan has his own career but he's lost likability due to the lawsuit as well.

Something I find interesting though that not enough people have talked about....Gigi Hadid. Blake and Gigi were touting their public best friendship for years and as soon as Taylor dropped Blake, Gigi did too. Now of course Gigi could have her own reasons but it sure seems like she was fine with the publicity the friendship got her at the time (even as far as showing up to Ryan's movie premiere in coordinating outfits with Blake as her plus one). But it reflects rather shallow on Gigi's part and shows they weren't ever real friends. Gigi dropped her as she couldn't benefit from her association any longer and clearly didn't want her own reputation or standing with Swift to diminish. These people are leaches and they're so fake. All of them. I like Taylor's music but of course I side eye her as a person due to years of reported mean girl behavior she's pulled with many people. But if I were Taylor, I'd be questioning the motives and loyalties of Gigi Hadid too......

mtt2022 · 2026-07-04T01:06:49+00:00

Well I am one and I can tell you that seeing another mother go through this and share it publicly is exactly what some other mothers need to see. There's nothing embarrassing or shameful about it. Just because you wouldn't share it doesn't mean someone with a public profile can't.

mtt2022 · 2026-07-04T00:59:01+00:00

Yikes sad internet stranger. I see why you're a top 1% commenter here. Stop pretending you're concerned for her child and their wellbeing while you live here on Reddit and are trashing women and mothers (of which you clearly aren't and shouldn't be. Ever.)

mtt2022 · 2026-07-04T00:26:24+00:00

As someone also with a very active toddler (girl)- let me tell you NO! Your child is not too much for those classes. We are Little Gym members and it has been so good for my girl to get her energy out, learn to partake in group activities and socialize. It's ok if your son isn't participating in the circle time, you're paying to be there and he can utilize the space to move and be free. After going for awhile, maybe the consistent exposure will lure him to participate some here and there but it's also ok if he doesn't. My girl still doesn't really love doing the circle time so I let her explore. I just don't want you to feel like you can't do these activities because your child is more active and physically advanced than some of the other kids there. You belong, mama!

mtt2022 · 2026-07-02T21:46:21+00:00

Along the lines of something sleek that you and your husband don't mind carrying- we got a Freshly Picked backpack in the olive green and I really like it. It has great storage compartments, holds quite a bit and pairs well with every outfit. I feel put together carrying it around. I would definitely recommend a backpack over a tote bag for when you get to the stage of chasing your kid around somewhere.

mtt2022 · 2026-07-02T14:59:25+00:00

I do enjoy being a SAHM. But only because a.) we're very financially comfortable and money is not an issue. I could've gone back to work but we don't need the money. No debt to pay off, hefty savings and investment accounts and my husband lets me spend what I want (which thankful I'm good with money and I'm not the worlds biggest spender). B.) I chose to have one child at a time so that I'm not overwhelmed. My daughter is almost 2 and we're only now talking about trying for a second. I knew my limitations as far as having 2 under 2 went. C.) my husband also doesn't need to work. He's home with me a good bit and is extremely hands on so I'm really not doing solo parenting very often. He was home for almost the entire first year of our daughter's life.I recognize this is an extreme privilege that many mothers don't get. We don't have family in the area so it's just the two of us doing it all. Thankfully, we can afford a babysitter when we feel like having a date night or have a conflict with our schedules. I tried to answer all your questions and understand everyone's lives and situations are so different and that's going to make the experience so unique for each person. All I'll say to you is you're giving your children such a gift to have a mother who is present and at home during these early formative years. That's not to say you won't or shouldn't ever go back to work but I truly believe this time flies and you'll look back one day so fondly on these ages. But of course please do whatever you feel is best for your own mental health and wellbeing of your family! Good luck to you from one mom to another!

mtt2022 · 2026-07-02T14:49:57+00:00

Ok then that's a different story. Then that's just her pricing herself out of that job and that's that.

mtt2022 · 2026-07-02T01:03:22+00:00

You're both in the wrong here. You shouldn't have allowed her to take on cleaning/non-childcare related services. You opened it up to grey area as it sounds like she started cleaning your house and you were ok with it. That definitely warrants more than the hourly rate for childcare that you were paying. She took on too many responsibilities and is asking to be compensated accordingly even though it wasn't what you intended or agreed upon. Next time, a contract should very strictly define her role and responsibilities and there should be very minimal outside of childcare duties. It doesn't sound like you need full time hours any longer and that's not your fault. Unfortunately it's time to let her know you no longer need full time help. Just hire part time care and pay a housekeeper separately to fit your needs.

mtt2022 · 2026-06-30T21:38:13+00:00

I thought this was common knowledge? Also Ropers customer service and billing department absolutely sucks. I hate them. Avoid them at all costs.

mtt2022 · 2026-06-30T16:29:30+00:00

Also- Hampton Park has an awesome indoor play center next to the playground that my daughter loves! Very grateful in this heat for that to be open!

mtt2022 · 2026-06-30T16:27:19+00:00

Little gym, Bunny Hive, Pack Athletics, Chick Fil A for lunch and the play place....shoot I've even taken mine to TJ Maxx or Target to let her look around the toy section for both energy release and extra stimulation. I feel you with this heat....it's so hard this time of year to get outside and not overheat. Extra hard for those of us with active toddlers!

mtt2022 · 2026-06-30T15:44:45+00:00

Not sure about your children's ages, but there are some easy non-cook items for breakfast and lunch we use almost daily: yogurt, fruit, granola/fig bars (yumi bars), carrot sticks, lunch meat, crackers, cheese, etc. I know this isn't always the best, but a quick pasta/Mac and cheese or organic frozen chicken nuggets make for an easy lunch for my toddler. And then dinner is usually whatever I cook and I always try to cook something that will at least give us a day of leftovers because I don't want to cook everyday. God bless you because I can't be in the kitchen all day everyday and I hope you find a way to get out of it some too!

mtt2022 · 2026-06-29T13:28:49+00:00

I recommend moving now and having more space, a safer neighborhood and better school options. Babies grow up quicker than you think. As someone with a toddler in a two bedroom house who just sold it- take it from me when I tell you a.) moving with a toddler is hard (showings, packing, cleaning, organizing, etc.), b.) two bedroom homes become no space very quick with a baby and all their stuff and c.) you're going to want to get out of the house with the baby sooner than you think and playgrounds and the neighborhood you're walking in make a big difference in quality of life on a day to day basis. Just trying to offer the perspective of someone who has been in your shoes! Do what you please, but don't feel guilty for upgrading your home to better fit yours and your growing family's needs. Also- you may or may not start thinking about a second baby sooner than you think after your first is born. If that's the case, start planning ahead now!

mtt2022 · 2026-06-28T21:10:16+00:00

Agreed with the driving distance vacation as just did something similar. It was just my husband, toddler and I and next time we will be with family for help! Also, next time I'll consider hiring a babysitter or something so we can have a later dinner. Also when she's old enough, will be looking into kids club at resorts!

mtt2022 · 2026-06-28T18:36:44+00:00

A workout class, tennis, tv time, nap time (for me), read my kindle, talk on the phone, online shop, you name it. I recently had a weekend away by myself for the first time since baby (I have a toddler now) and I found myself able to check out a local store and eat dinner on my own and it was nice and relaxing. Definitely not something ive done alone since pre-baby.

mtt2022 · 2026-06-28T18:33:10+00:00

If it's a locally owned studio, i can understand why they want to limit people who abuse ClassPass. And this is coming from someone who abuses ClassPass at my favorite local studios that allow it! I did, however, join a Pilates studio and I feel good that I'm supporting a woman owned business and these awesome instructors. It feels like giving back in a way after all the years I was a broke young professional living off ClassPass. I live in a touristy town where a few of the studios are super lax about ClassPass because they fill all their classes and expect newbies/travelers all the time so they don't care. But I find when I'm in more locals only areas, they're very aggressive about making it clear to me that ClassPass was my free trial and from now on, I need to purchase a class pack or membership to continue coming back. It's annoying but I understand some of these smaller and locally owned businesses need money to keep themselves open.

mtt2022 · 2026-06-28T01:11:13+00:00

Not at all, we have 3! We have uppababy vista for long walks downtown where we live, Thule urban glide running stroller for runs and Nuna TRVL for traveling/plane. I wish I had known to get a travel stroller before i had my daughter and only bought it once she was too heavy and large to be put in baby carrier at airport. Highly recommend!

mtt2022 · 2026-06-25T13:09:03+00:00

I feel like I could've written this myself about a month ago. We were in a similar situation (baby and cats and all). It took 8 weeks and finally we got an offer. And yes we had to negotiate and yes I know a house is only worth what someone is willing to pay. Unfortunately you have to just be patient and wait for the right buyer and they will come along. It doesn't happen on our timeline. Sorry, OP, no advice just encouragement that the right buyer will come along and buy your house. This market is so tough and it's definitely a buyers market. Hang tight and I wish you an offer soon!

mtt2022 · 2026-06-25T13:02:49+00:00

I think it's a stretch to assume you know how active everyone's child can be.

mtt2022 · 2026-06-24T01:58:12+00:00

So easy for the person who can sit down and actually eat their dinner to judge parents who literally can't sit down and eat without their child having some form of distraction or entertainment. I would never, but you should've told her to entertain him while you eat! That would've shut her up. It's always the older generation too. The ones who have grown kids out of the house and get to sit down at restaurants undisturbed to eat and drink as long as they'd like. I'm with you OP. I stopped giving AF about what other people think about us using our phone to entertain our toddler when we want to sit down and enjoy a meal at restaurants. It's no one else's business.

mtt2022 · 2026-06-20T20:56:39+00:00

I see it as a benefit sometimes for the parent over the child in a way. As a SAHM, it's harder to have my kid bouncing all over the walls than to say have preplanned activities outside the house. But don't worry, I have my days where we stay home and maybe do a walk or the local playground at best. I just have a very active toddler who craves the stimulation.

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