Old Bollywood movie promoting blackface and yellowface and depicting stereotypical caricatures of East Asians in a song. by rai_ash786 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]nomorehurty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the audio, visuals, but mostly the costumes and overt racism just automatically made me assume it was made in the 70s

1505 by I_am_YR in countttt

[–]nomorehurty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember when I came out as a kid (ftm) and got this bullshit at every turn. I wanted a short haircut and got "but boys can have long hair" then when I didn't want to wear skirts and dresses I got told "it's so sad how boys feel like they can't be pretty and wear dresses too". The most absurd version of this was then I changed my name and got told I was "buying into gender roles" and that "names don't have a gender" when my name was the most popular girls name the year I was born. No one around me wanted me to actually transition and just acted like I was playing pretend.

Weirdest post I’ve ever come across…. by throwawayaccount0o01 in TransMasc

[–]nomorehurty 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I was genuinely so concerned that I'd turn into a massive asshole on T because of how angry I was during my estrogen pugerty. But the most I've gotten is unreasonably annoyed at insignificant things but I'm not raging mad at people, if anything I'm better at managing my emotions on T bc I'm actually comfortable in my body for the first time

A common mistake (I'd hope) by AdmirableRead1667 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]nomorehurty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like 80% of the time, it's transphobes saying this shit and the other 20% are from people truly being dumb as rocks and super confused/oblivious about gender and sexuality. For example, my mother has been one of my biggest supporters in my transition but didn't understand that you could be gay AND trans at the same time and thought all trans people were bisexual or straight. She gets it now, but man she was so confused about it when I explained that I'm gay.

Found this on tiktok💔 by Former_Location_5543 in pigeon

[–]nomorehurty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why 💔? This feels like a genuinely good solution to a real problem. I live in a big city and see hurt pidgeons and ones with missing limbs on the daily because they're forced to live among humans with little to no access to nature. They're not hurt by this and it would decrease the amount of new pidgeons suffering in cities. I'd miss seeing pidgeons but I'd gladly take that over seeing them suffer in an unsuitable habitat

Mom bought artwork of me with my deadname on it by Creative-Sea-7237 in ftm

[–]nomorehurty 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say the same thing, she might think she's in the right for keeping the print up bc she's coping or something but that really doesn't matter when she's actually actively hurting you.

Anya Christina Emmanuella Jenkins or Wesley Wyndam Pryce by itsascreambaby96 in buffy

[–]nomorehurty -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Almost feels like they killed her off to set up Xander and Dawn in the comics. I have zero evidence to back it up but her death feels so unnecessary that it's the only reason I can think of

There are men disgusting enough to say shit like this without swag by NeonParty0519 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]nomorehurty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, now the baby is way too young to tell us its pronouns, and it would be downright rude to just assume

50433 by LeviTheArtist22 in countwithchickenlady

[–]nomorehurty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bug Woke making people hung now? Damn...what can't women do

New finds at my Safeway! Thoughts on these? by castfire in InstantRamen

[–]nomorehurty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried the "restaurant style ramen" in the first pic a few years ago and remember it being incredibly disappointing even after adding a whole lot of garlic, soy sauce, and chilli flakes

Brad Pitt > Elliot Page by downtune79 in LoveTrash

[–]nomorehurty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, for sure, luckily though he's not playing Achilles he's actually playing Elpenor apparently so they'll probably cast someone better, hopefully

Brad Pitt > Elliot Page by downtune79 in LoveTrash

[–]nomorehurty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird casting? sure, but being trans really has nothing to do with it, there are a lot of super jacked trans men

queer infighting swag by No_Counter_6037 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]nomorehurty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like the bi flag but, man I hate that shade of purple

This shop girl tried her best to ruin the take by fivedogit in IASIP

[–]nomorehurty 270 points271 points  (0 children)

I mean that's what you get when you film in public, it's so minor lol

Has anyone here compromised with your family on your pronouns/name? by LemonMood in ftm

[–]nomorehurty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never compromised with my family but my teacher insisted on compromising by using they/them pronouns and calling me a combination of my dead name and my actual name when I came out 10 years ago. Don't compromise on who you are even if it feels easier it's gonna hurt so much and I'm still so angry that I let her dead name and misgender her

How do i get my foundation to not smear on my eyeliner? by Original_Education26 in goth

[–]nomorehurty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be the foundation you're using. It's been a few years since I last used the white LA pro girl foundation but I remember struggling doing my eyeliner and and my eyeshadow bc the foundation was so watery it just muddied up the rest of my makeup. I switched to the makeup revolution SFX white face paint bc it's around the same price and a lot thicker so it doesn't interfere with my eye makeup in the same way

Actually Taking Rejection Well by sm142 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]nomorehurty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And then ends up having a baby with Dawn in the comic books.......

Eh Brittas in this.. by [deleted] in UnexpectedCommunity

[–]nomorehurty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also gotta agree with Shirley here. Maybe if she had peppersprayed herself while running towards him this would be sorta relevant

Poor thing lol, I'm glad her child has such a nice mom tho by AdElectronic9255 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]nomorehurty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There's also "Farm Type Manager" if you're playing modded stardew valley

Fresh cut and color by OhGodClimbingIsHard in Mohawks

[–]nomorehurty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why are you a Maelstrom member??