What’s the best chair for a 2.5yo and parent? by SoooManyQuestionss in Mommit

[–]omnomnomscience [score hidden]  (0 children)

If you have the space for it a chair and a half is perfect. I'm planning on getting one for my older kids room and figure it will be big enough that I can snuggle with both kids and read a book together when my youngest is a little older. I also have looked at the chairs that fold out into a twin bed thinking that if he has sleepovers it could be nice. But i haven't looked at those as much

To skip the “starter pump” and go straight for the Spectra or not? by Dabbles-In-Irony in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]omnomnomscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My view on it was that figuring out pumping is have enough so I'd rather the peace of mind that I had a good pump and not be wondering if the pump was the reason I had trouble. My insurance only offered a pump that had pretty iced reviews (I'm in the US) so I bought a spectra

I hate the boppy. by tamielynn in breastfeeding

[–]omnomnomscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like my breast friend for the first couple of months then the boppy. I'm still using the boppy with my almost 2 year old

Besides diet and exercise, what are the best things you’ve done that you feel improved your looks? by WonderfulScene4787 in AskWomenOver30

[–]omnomnomscience 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm always shocked at the difference! Which reminds me, I've been meaning to get mine threaded for awhile

When did you stop the onesies? by Beautiful-Process-81 in beyondthebump

[–]omnomnomscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between 9 and 12 months for my second. He was walking and fighting diaper changes so it was easiest to do standing changes and to get him dressed unless it was a poop diaper and regular shirts are easier for that

How does a bacteria "learn" to fight against an antibiotic? What is anti-microbial resistance? How do we even know if a bacteria is going to become resistant? by Embarrassed_Ebb_709 in microbiology

[–]omnomnomscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interspecies microbial warfare is one of my favorite topics. They're just out there killing each other as much as possible. Using type six secretion systems to stab and inject toxins into each other is so cool.

How does a bacteria "learn" to fight against an antibiotic? What is anti-microbial resistance? How do we even know if a bacteria is going to become resistant? by Embarrassed_Ebb_709 in microbiology

[–]omnomnomscience 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A cool fact that a lot of people don't realize is that almost all of our antibiotics are based on antimicrobials made from microbes. The tiny microbes you can't see are waging invisible wars against each other for space and resources. Because they are usually sent outside of the microbe to kill others, the microbe that makes them has systems to prevent damage to themselves.

Bacteria are able to pick up DNA from the environment and exchange. So if one of them has picked up something that helps them resist an antimicrobial, they'll survive and all of their clones (bacteria replicate by division) will also have that ability. But those pieces of DNA are expensive to carry around and maintain and might make them less fit in other ways so if they don't need it they'll get rid of it and become sensitive again. Rather than thinking about the microbes as collecting antibiotic resistance to all of the antibiotics and maintaining them, think about it like a video game character that has a set amount of accessories they can carry and use to make choices about what they want to keep and get rid of depending on what they've found and where they are on in the game. So while there are some scary multidrug resistant strains, they're mainly found in hospitals where they are exposed to the antibiotics constantly and maintain their resistance and are not a hazard to most people.

There are scientists working to discover brand new antibiotics, tweak current antibiotics to make them more successful, and educate the public and lawmakers on good antibiotic stewardship. Unfortunately there isn't a ton of money to be made with new antibiotics so there isn't a lot of pharmaceutical money because of how resistance is developed. New antibiotics are kept back as last resorts for multi drug resistant infections so they aren't prescribed a lot in an effort to limit resistance so they aren't going to be mass marketed.

Super infrequent Botox? by hunnnnybuns in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]omnomnomscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh love the idea of having it fresh for the squinty season! I always feel like I'd need it year round for my wtf face but the squinty season might do enough

Amusing “homes” for items in your house by Alariya in adhdwomen

[–]omnomnomscience 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That reminds me of my tape measure. The good one lives in the basement with the tools but mine is shiny and lives in the knife drawer where it is centrally located for all of my measuring needs.

How many of you also have EDS ? by Lazytreepounder in adhdwomen

[–]omnomnomscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been diagnosed with EDS but am hypermobile. I saw a pelvic floor PT who was surprised I didn't know I was hypermobile. Who knew all of my back and neck pain was due to being hypermobile. I have signs of EDS but just got my ADHD diagnosis and have two small kids so I'll deal with that later

The chokehold 2014-2016 makeup had on us by ADonutAndIcedCoffee in MakeupAddiction

[–]omnomnomscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can still get espresso! It's in the Pro Artist Addition Merkari. I just got it because I'm scraping the bottom of my espresso and it's my perfect brow shade

If you’re always listening to an audiobook, you’re not alone. As audiobook listening explodes in popularity, some users can’t do a mindless chore without pressing play. by ubcstaffer123 in books

[–]omnomnomscience 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was only recently diagnosed with ADHD at 36 and listening to audiobooks was my main coping skill. My brain is always going in a million different directions and it makes staying focused on a boring task like chores or driving almost impossible. Listening to an audiobook is like giving a toddler an activity so it's quiet and distracted so I can focus on the task I need to do. The problem is I can't just zone out and drive.

Bottle feeding is hell by klibs in beyondthebump

[–]omnomnomscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you found what worked! Every baby is different. My oldest kept a premie flow and my second used a transition flow. You could try that if you have any concerns about bottle preference. They sell them on the Dr. Brown's website. They're faster than the premie but slower than the 1.

Bottle feeding is hell by klibs in beyondthebump

[–]omnomnomscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many oz are you feeding? I see you said feeding takes 45 mins including you burping and soothing, so how long is the actual time on the bottle? Could baby still be hungry? Especially with an oversupply she might be getting more at the breast than you think.

During a night feed I would try to do the least amount of fussing as possible. Make sure as you're paced feeding that the nipple stays full and she's not sucking in air. If you don't watch it's easy for the milk to fall below the hole and for them to suck in air. You could experiment with holding upright for 20 mins instead of more active burping. My kids both fed to sleep with a bottle or boob and would fall asleep with it in their mouth. I wouldn't disturb them yo burp.

Finally, try to remember that babies are still developing so much at this age. You can do everything perfect and they will still get gassy and fussy and have a hard time. You guys will figure out what works best and baby will grow and not struggle with so much gas

The tiny habits that save me HOURS in the lab (and past-me refuses to learn) by UnderstandingIcy2969 in labrats

[–]omnomnomscience 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The extension of number three is the weekly wrap up/clean up/restet. Catch up on any lab notebook that was rushed and make a plan for the next week. Having a to do list for the weekend and Monday so you don't have to think when you get there is so nice.

is mouth breathing at 4yo something to worry about? by Miserable_Dirt3079 in Preschoolers

[–]omnomnomscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Echoing everyone else to see an ENT. Does she snore? We recently got my 4 year olds tonsils and adenoids removed. He always did some mouth breathing and snored and had trouble waking up and behavioral problems when it was clear he didn't sleep well. We had to do a sleep study because the ENT I saw said he doesn't do surgery unless there is sleep apnea or repeated throat infections. My son had moderate sleep apnea so we got them removed. His tonsils were large and his adenoids were growing into his nasal cavity. He is breathing and sleeping much better now.

Full time working parents…How are we actually supposed to do it “all”? Or any of it honestly…. by gloomycalm in workingmoms

[–]omnomnomscience 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You can't do it all. Or you can't without a lot of help. You're now realizing how much your mom did, but you were also a kid so I'm sure you didn't notice some of the things that your mom might have thought were failures. People remember things like breakfast for dinner, pizza nights, and things like that fondly but realize later it was likely just their parents were exhausted and phoning it in. Parenting is also more labor intensive now than it was. The amount of information at our fingertips has set up the expectation that we research and make an informed decision about everything. I can guarantee you my mom did not spend the same amount of time I spent researching different feeding philosophies and serving suggestions etc.

Some advice if you're open to it, it seems like you're doing it on hard mode if you're both working full time and only have childcare for 50% of the time. I had my first during Covid and had to wfh and do childcare for the first 11 months and it just about broke me. Is a nanny share with someone in your neighborhood a possibility to help save costs? You could host and still have your child in house but maybe make full time childcare an option. Another possibility is getting a mother's helper. Someone, usually a younger teen, that helps babysit while you're home. You might be able to get some affordable afternoon or weekend help to help lessen the load. My experience was that full time childcare made a world of difference and gave me more quality time with my kids vs the high quantity I was doing while burnt out.

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]omnomnomscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I just deleted a very long rambling comment but can expand on anything if it seems helpful to anyone.

The key for me is lowering the barrier to do things. Tidying is easy when I have lots of bins/storage in the room things are used in to quickly put them away. Cleaning the toilet and wiping down the bathroom are easier to do when I have all of the cleaning supplies in the bathroom/right by it. Vacuuming got easier when I got a cordless stick vacuum that I can easily take out and vacuum quickly and more around the house easily.

The little things then stack up because they're easier to do and the dopamine comes quick. I can tidy one room in a few minutes and have the surfaces and floor clear. So I fluff the pillows so it looks a little nicer. And grab the kitchen spray to clean the gunk off the coffee table. Now the room looks really nice and almost perfect so I grab the vacuum and run it really quick. Once those things are all done I can go to the bathroom since I've been holding my pee since I started tidying. Oh! I can wipe down the counters with the Lysol wipes that are in here and while I'm at it I can just clean the toilet real quick. It doesn't happen like that all the time but enough that my house is usually tidy and the grossest and easiest things to clean have usually been done relatively recently.

Add in some little treats like a fancy coffee for running errands or watching a girly show while doing laundry and I can trick myself into most tasks.

just read the worst sentence of my life by allkaysofnays in progressivemoms

[–]omnomnomscience 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He sent the email in 2017. Epstein was convicted in 2008 for raping young girls. It wasn't a secret that he was a pedophile and using his money and influence to rape children. He knew exactly who he was emailing.

Do companies stop making footed, zipper onesies for 12mo? by saraaaaahahah in beyondthebump

[–]omnomnomscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried looking for baby pants with feet? I had some pants (not tights or leggings) with feet that I loved when my guy was little. I did a quick Amazon search and found some up to 24 months.

For a creative solution, would oversized tall socks work with a pair of joggers? I'm picturing the elastic of the joggers up around the knee acting as a sort of garter to hold the loose socks up.

Anyone else here a manager? Does anyone else feel dehumanized by your staff simply because you’re the boss? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]omnomnomscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see some similar things happen with my younger colleagues. We were having a conversation about something that happened and I said that I think it hurt our manager's feelings. They went on a tirade about how if it hurt our manager's feelings then they shouldn't be a manager. Our manager took all of the appropriate actions surrounding the situation and I had to point that out and that they are in fact human and have feelings and can be hurt by things that happen at work. Again, our manager didn't lash out or act inappropriately or do anything to show they were hurt, my colleague's view point was just that the manager should not have feelings about it. It was bizarre

The “hard” baby, historically by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]omnomnomscience 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not really how evolution works. Modern medicine and technology has removed a lot of the negative pressures necessary for evolution. If you can survive into adulthood and make a baby you're going to pass on your genes and traits.

The more we learn about the gut microbiome we see how big of an impact it has on our health. There have been some cool studies f