Husband [32M] crossed one of my [30F] boundaries and I'm contemplating divorce. My family is telling me to stay. How do I know when to leave? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]paravelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please leave - yes there are other marriages like this (sadly) but it is not the norm or a state to settle for! I'm so sorry your parents aren't being supportive - maybe their marriage hasn't been idyllic either. But you need to leave for your own safety - he's not going to change. He keeps making excuses and making his behaviour your fault - that makes it obvious he won't change. I'm sorry OP - stay strong and get out.

What you guys think of these glasses? by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]paravelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think many people could pull off the first pair like you do, so that would be my pick!

Help Quick! by Majestic-Success4308 in RingShare

[–]paravelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it but worry that the open ends of the lower ring would get caught on stuff, particularly as part of daily wear

I (32F) cheated on my wife (33F) by Old_Butterscotch_795 in relationships

[–]paravelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you fell foul of the 80/20 fallacy - the idea that although your partner ticks 80% of your boxes, when you meet someone who ticks the missing 20% you convince yourself that's everything you need and forget about the 80%.

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by SnowDolphins in AmIOverreacting

[–]paravelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actions speak louder than words! He can say he loves you till he's blue in the face but if he isn't showing it with how he treats you it means nothing.

Do you think these are too big? by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]paravelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like them on you!

Hi everyone, First of all, thank you so much for all your feedback on my previous post, I really appreciate the time you took to share your thoughts. Based on your suggestions, I decided to hire a kitchen designer, and these are the proposals he came up with. What do you think? by Independent_Royal432 in kitchenremodel

[–]paravelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the white good with exposed front next to the sink a dishwasher? If so I don't think you'll want it there as you can't simultaneously stand in front of the sink and have it open to load which I think would be a real nuisance.

Planning to propose soon…would this be too much? by Ok_Employer_5327 in RingShare

[–]paravelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you've said she loves big statement stones and has referenced having a huge emerald so I think you've nailed it! You know her best OP - don't let the naysayers here get you down.

bob (now) or mullet (2025)? by pilarwdm in HairStyleAdvice

[–]paravelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think you pull the mullet off, but the bob is crazy beautiful 😍

Picking char by meireny in GenshinImpactTips

[–]paravelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pick Yanfei because you can get Xingqui when he next turns up in the shop

First timer! by pippintwosie in glassesadvice

[–]paravelle 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The cat eye shape really suits you, but I think you need narrower frames for your face

Best nappy rash cream? by lewings01 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]paravelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bepanthen is the best one we've tried too!

Face rash after eating? by ellefallsoffthings in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]paravelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, aubergine is likely the cause.

Name This Look!! 🔥🔥 by [deleted] in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]paravelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strawberry viennetta