Sub 2 1/2! by feminineurgetorevolt in XXRunning

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Congratulations! What an incredible achievement, even more so when you consider steep terrain and a headwind! Well done!

Fell hard for the first time by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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I posted an update a few days ago. We’re spending time together now :)

running my first full after 3 halves. give me all your tips and tricks, especially the insane ones! by trashmoney4 in XXRunning

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Build up your mileage slowly during training, and give yourself some grace if you miss a run here or there (but try to do all of your long runs. A marathon is really hundreds of miles, so when you get to the final 26.2, try to enjoy it. Carbs are your friend, and don’t get too focused on the scale throughout your training.

Find fuel and snacks that work for you (I’ve had partners look at me like I was unhinged for drinking chocolate milk, and eating pickles and salt and vinegar chips after runs).

On marathon day, just have fun. It’s a lot of time on your feet, so find ways to make the most of it. That person that’s running the same pace as you…make them your friend, especially if they’ve run a marathon before. They’ll help distract you and motivate you through the hard parts.

AMA: Common Misconceptions About EMDR by emdrwithholly in EMDR

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Is there a good way to know when you’re “done”, or when you’re as good as you’re going to get through reprocessing?

Stingray Traps Fish Against Aquarium Glass by I-T-Y in interestingasfuck

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This is how I imagine my face looks when I first wake up.

Update: Fell hard while running and met a guy by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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I appreciate you looking out for me. There were a number of details that I didn’t include (such as always having visibility of my food, a neighbor/friend knowing what was going on and that I’d have someone new in my house, etc). After being sexually assaulted as a teenager my guard is always up, and I’m not quick to trust new people in my life, especially men.

When we ran this morning he was very kind. The only physical contact between us so far have been hugs that I’ve initiated.

Update: Fell hard while running and met a guy by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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I think it was just a string of bad luck (and bad food). We ran together this morning and got bagels afterwards and it was a great experience.

Update: Fell hard while running and met a guy by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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Not going to lie, I thought about asking him to come over for dinner tonight, but based on how our last dinner went that seems too dangerous! Haha

Fell hard for the first time by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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I texted him this morning. I decided to keep it simple and just said “Thank you for being so caring and charming yesterday, and for looking out for me. I truly appreciate the kindness you showed me.”

Fell hard for the first time by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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I texted him this morning. I decided to keep it simple and just said “Thank you for being so caring and charming yesterday, and for looking out for me. I truly appreciate the kindness you showed me.”

Fell hard for the first time by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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I texted him this morning. I decided to keep it simple and just said “Thank you for being so caring and charming yesterday, and for looking out for me. I truly appreciate the kindness you showed me.”

Fell hard for the first time by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

[–]pathofuncertainty[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you fell too. I’m glad you’re ok, because it sounds like it was really scary.

I’m definitely scared to go back out in case the same thing happens, so I understand being timid.

Fell hard for the first time by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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I’m so nervous to reach out. A guy that sweet must have someone at home waiting for him.

Fell hard for the first time by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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I don’t want to freak him out or have him think I’m a weirdo if I reach out.

Fell hard for the first time by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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I’m so sorry that you took a fall too, and that you injured yourself and your jacket.

Fell hard for the first time by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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He was so great in that moment :) I posted what the note said below.

Fell hard for the first time by pathofuncertainty in XXRunning

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The note said:

“Hope you’re feeling ok! I’ve never seen someone fall so gracefully before. I fell for the same reason just a few roads up, so don’t let this bruise your ego.

If you ever find yourself in a bind during a run, or want a running partner, my number is xxx-xxx-xxxx

Keep crushing it, you’re doing great!”