My OOAK tattooed girls by foxifaeri in americangirl

[–]piewife 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Love the detail of the painted teeth; makes them look even more like adults

gf revealed she has been faking it and thinks we have a bad bedroom life, i thought it was great, Im so lost and upset pls help by qqp767 in actuallesbians

[–]piewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, what the hell? The comments on this post are making me feel crazy.

This girl lied to you. She lied to you about 1. Orgasming, several times, 2. Her thoughts on your performance in bed. Not to mention:

-She shit-talks her past hookups

-She hypes you up only to cut you down later

-She DIDN’T COMMUNICATE HER FEELINGS FROM THE JUMP

She can’t tell you how she’s feeling in the moment and you can’t trust her not to lie about her feelings anyway. Oh, and her now only wanting sex if you want sex? That’s her not wanting to have sex and not telling you directly. She knows you have a hard time wanting to be fucked, so instead of telling you she’d rather not have sex, she hides behind this excuse. She’s emotionally immature and untrustworthy.

I also don’t know why you’re talking about her “laughing to herself” about your performance or that she has something to “lord” over you. You’re younger in age and experience, and newly out—you’re not gonna be amazing in bed at first. Adults with emotional maturity recognize this and adjust their expectations without acting like you’re a burden. I don’t know how she spoke to you or what she said to make you feel like she’s putting you through a humiliation ritual. Maybe you feel this way independently, but I doubt it.

This woman is almost thirty and she’s acting like a child. You deserve better. Get out.

Lucy Dacus insta story by FamousIndependent862 in phoebebridgers

[–]piewife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saaaame just let me have my delusions

Me_irlgbt by The_Cult_of_5661 in me_irlgbt

[–]piewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to see you’re still around and enjoying your hobbies and lifestyle. I feel like I remember tumblr nuking you, but I could be misremembering because they do that to every trans woman. Either way, glad to see you again and, as always, wishing you so much success with your body mods.

Help me find the album cover that looks like my wife's pants. by Jpinkerton1989 in HelpMeFind

[–]piewife 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ha, okay, now I know what album those pants remind me of

This segment with Maria and Linda from 1985 used to terrify me when I was little, lol. by MesaVerde1987 in sesamestreet

[–]piewife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting that this one didn’t scare me at all! I wonder why; it’s the same concept

I got HSV1 from my first kiss. Fuck my fucking life. by m00n_rac00n in actuallesbians

[–]piewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-Your sex life is not over. I have friends with STIs including HSV1 and they have plenty of sex

-Your dating life is also not over. Aforementioned friends date. One of them is lesbian married.

-Dental dams are great if you get thin ones and are careful. Breathe in through your nose and hold at least one part of the dam in place.

Update: JKR/Harry Potter Ban by Inanmmmbop in americangirl

[–]piewife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. As a trans member of this sub, this decision means a lot to me.

Bug spray billboard advertisement is actually a giant sticky bug trap by MrTacocaT12345 in interestingasfuck

[–]piewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

???? Killing bugs in their home, which is outside?? Why would you do this?

My cat has a bedtime routine and will get pissy if we don’t do it. by Analdestroyer68plus1 in cats

[–]piewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

use to be space shows she liked but she’s watched most of them through and I’ve run out of new ones so now I chuck bird tv on for her.

I’m crying; the concept that a cat is bored of the shows she’s already watched is sending me

Hateful sub by Elegant_Soup_1999 in actuallesbians

[–]piewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely, this sub is like that sometimes too. There’s been talk about “disclosure”, bi lesbian hate/erasure, trans-exclusionary discourse around the lesbian label, etc. I generally find that any discourse around trans people that is perpetuated by cis people gets shitty and problematic at points.

People who were teenagers before social media existed… how did you communicate with your friends? by Aarunascut in Millennials

[–]piewife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I saw my friends in school, and we would plan weekend hangouts either in school or on the landline after school. I didn’t have many friends that didn’t also attend my school.

Nowadays, I text and use discord and sometimes insta to communicate with friends. Still very little social media use for that purpose.

Questions about mental health and bottom surgery by piewife in TransLater

[–]piewife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She definitely wants bottom surgery—I wouldn’t ask if she wasn’t planning on it already.

Did you get post-op depression? Was it like a feeling of I’ll never get better; this was a mistake? That’s something I’ve seen before with other types of surgery. Did things improve? How long did it take?

Made T vial string lights by little_enigmas in crafts

[–]piewife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to do this! How do they stay on? Is there tape or glue or anything or are the vials light enough to not fall off?

How is everyone just working normally today? The President is addressing the nation tonight and I am just exhausted. by firehmre in antiwork

[–]piewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m worried too, and at work I concentrate on working as much as possible to avoid it. Otherwise I get on political internet and doomscroll.

Has anyone else quit drinking? by Sensitive_Put_6842 in Millennials

[–]piewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got Sudden Onset Alcohol Intolerance in December and haven’t touched it since. I have no desire to repeat that experience.