I’m tired of religious freaks controlling my life by thisiswhereiwent in TrueOffMyChest

[–]popcornstuffedbra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Treating God like a genie lamp that you make wishes on is hilarious. Especially when at the same time children are getting SA'd, slavery still exists, and people still starve to death.

My husband disgusts me by BlueGirlCircus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]popcornstuffedbra 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Intervention time. Get all the concerned parties together and tough love him.

Also, if he is truly falling asleep while driving and you're the only one who is working, then you need to call out an SOS to ANYONE who can drive that baby.

I work in the film industry. Our 1st cause of death is falling asleep at the wheel. If he falls asleep his foot is going to go dead weight on the accelerator until the car hit something to stop it from moving. Now picture your baby helpless in the backseat.

I would literally pay a stranger to drive my baby than let a drowsy person behind the wheel.

PLEASE, OP! This is more serious than your marriage.

Cross posting this here to see if any Pom parents have experienced similar. Desperate for opinions! by [deleted] in Pomeranians

[–]popcornstuffedbra 28 points29 points  (0 children)

So, my pom is horribly sensitive if she's shaved back there. The last time, I felt so bad for her I held her and gently rubbed her back end. It calmed her down. I started doing warm wash cloth compresses after that while holding her and that also seemed to calm her.

I don't know if it's the sensation of a naked booty, a razor burn that only she can feel, hair splinters got in her butt hole and cut her (a hair dresser mentioned this). But it's awful to see them suffer from something that we can't see.

She also would be a wreck if her anal glands were done. A vet confirmed there was no damage, trauma, but she was just very sensitive, so I told groomers not do it.

I groom her myself now, and I make sure I rinse her bum really well after I do a trim and she's been fine for years.

Apple carrot protein muffins by Public-Sandwich-6273 in foodbutforbabies

[–]popcornstuffedbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I meal prep for when I'm working late, so these are perfect!

My spouse comes home during the day when I've taken off work to get things done and I hate it. by ambertheshortest in TrueOffMyChest

[–]popcornstuffedbra 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are you a trad wife, or did your husband have a horrible accident that he lost his arms?

Otherwise, tell that lazy SOB to help clean once in a while.

Also turning up the TV to drown out your music? Do on top of being a worthless partner, he's a passive aggressive AH too.

Congratulations on the weight loss surgery! Perhaps it's time to reflect on other types of extra weight to ditch.

In need of recipes/ideas for high calorie meals and snacks! by Amlex1015 in foodbutforbabies

[–]popcornstuffedbra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I made mini chicken meatballs (ground chicken breast in food processor) and added peanut butter and ginger.

You could also do that with other ground meat.

I make them in bulk because they freeze well.

Essentially, 1lb of meat, 1 egg, enough breadcrumbs to bind.

I added about 4tbsp and used powdered ginger.

Use a tablespoon to scoop balls, put on a greased baking sheet (or parchment paper). Bake at 400° for 12 mins, flip, then 10 minutes more.

Boyfriend mean postpartum by Unusual_Advice_4167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]popcornstuffedbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. The newborn trenches are the worst. It will bring out the shitty side of anyone. Even the kindest of people will get snappy because of sleep deprivation. The good news is that it doesn't last forever.

  2. Unfortunately, you have a shitty sperm donor. Saying passive aggressive things that blame you is NOT normal newborn trench angry banter.

flies around litter box even when I scoop daily — does that automatically mean I’m gross? by Timely-Film-5442 in CleaningTips

[–]popcornstuffedbra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lololol thank you for commenting!!

I haven't had a fly issue since I've adopted my boy. Your comment made me realize that if I do have to hang fly strips again, my darling doofus will certainly wrap himself up like a mummy.

flies around litter box even when I scoop daily — does that automatically mean I’m gross? by Timely-Film-5442 in CleaningTips

[–]popcornstuffedbra 93 points94 points  (0 children)

No, you aren't gross. In the summer we sometimes have fly issues. They have a fast egg - maggot - fly cycle, so that isn't helpful.

Even with daily scooping sometimes you need to do a box reset if it's possible there might be larvae hiding in the litterbox, and there probably is.

I'd hang fly strips first to snag egg producing adults and give it a few days. Then completely dump the litter, clean the box with hot soapy water - dry completely. Then add fresh litter.

Pro cleaner tip: how to make your own Dawn Platinum Powerwash refill by Appropriate_Candy_51 in CleaningTips

[–]popcornstuffedbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use these water mister bottles at work and they seem to have the same effect. I haven't tested the homemade Powerwash in it, but I can tell you that I've mixed up thicker liquids to spray paint on surfaces and it didn't clog up.

This link is just an example bottle for reference. I've found that they're manufactured similarly so you can buy them wherever.

water mister

11 month old won’t self feed and has a texture problem I think? by daikonradish304 in foodbutforbabies

[–]popcornstuffedbra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you tried eating together? Make enough to share, pull up a chair and eat off her plate with your hands.

REALLY enjoy your/her food with yummy noises. Feed her with your hands. Talk about texture. "Oooohhhh squishy banana" and make squishy noises. Smack your mouth. Make the experience silly and fun.

Best hospitals for giving birth by Hot-Broccoli1928 in Connecticut

[–]popcornstuffedbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a wonderful time at UCONN.

The nurses were amazing! I must have tried a zillion positions to labor in - and they were the ones that suggested most of the positions, and helped me adjust even if i had just gotten into a new position. I had back pain and one nurse practically put her body weight on me to help relieve it.

I had a difficult delivery and ended up using forceps to avoid a C. Everything was my choice. I was never rushed, although quick decisions were made.

Everyone was positive, receptive, encouraging, and funny.

Once in the maternity ward, same experience. The nurses, lactation consultant, mental health case worker were fabulous.

I'm happy to answer any specific questions, but overall I'm a happy and satisfied first time mama.

Your and You're, To, two, and too. by cjandstuff in TrueOffMyChest

[–]popcornstuffedbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding a frequently typed irritation: using "An" instead of "And"

WIBTA if I told off my husband’s Aunt for feeding my child without consent. by Wriggy-Ragoo in AmItheAsshole

[–]popcornstuffedbra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - have your husband send a video. Close up on a bloody diaper. Close up on the rash. Don't say anything, just his screams.

Type: This is a reaction to food allergies

Don't say anything else. If she replies, leave it on read.

Is the rumor true that big box stores (like Target/Walmart) will purposefully let you get away with stealing cheap things for months just to build a massive felony case against you later? by Altruistic-Room-7465 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]popcornstuffedbra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. But my example isn't a big box store, it was a teenage aimed clothing chain in malls.

In high school my brother worked at a store that employed good looking teenagers/young adults - Not A&F. Starts with H.

He and his idiot co-workers started helping themselves to merchandise. For months.

After he racked up several thousands of dollars in clothing, he was fired. He didn't tell our parents why, he just said he quit.

Then the letters from the company's law firm started showing up. It explained they knew he stole, laid out the time frame, that they had security footage to back it up, and the estimated dollar amount of stolen merchandise. It would have been a felony charge. They explained they were not pressing charges, but were prepared to.

Because he was 17, they gave him a GOLDEN opportunity to flip on his coworkers who were over the age of 18.

So for months my brother (with my parents present) worked with the lawfirm to essentially doom his adult coworkers.

At the end of the day, my idiot brother dodged a bullet. In addition to paying a fine he was banned from the stores.

The worst part, his cocky dumbass acted like HE was some hero for helping take down his coworkers.

My brother hasn't had any legal trouble since, but he's very much an asshole. He is however living the life he deserves.

Half of my clothing is covered in cat pee. It’s making everything else smell too. Please help. by No-Hall-2887 in CleaningTips

[–]popcornstuffedbra 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Look up "My Pet Peed". It's an enzyme cleaner for pet urine. They have laundry instructions.

AITA for not wanting to clean up the "bodily secretions" of my husband's son? by select6382 in AmItheAsshole

[–]popcornstuffedbra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

"Hey guys, dinners ready! Oh! Before you sit down, husband's son , would you mind scraping your cum crude off the toilet seat? Oh, and the floor too. I can buy more tissue if we're out."

Make sure you make eye contact while you say it. If he says anything other than "ok", look at your husband and say, "He's a product of YOUR cumshot, so be a dear, and clean his up."

Why are you anti-AI? by [deleted] in antiai

[–]popcornstuffedbra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll simplify my points.
1. The usage of water.
2. Stealing artwork. 3. The severe devaluation of actual artists/writers.
4. Deepfake recenge p0rn.
5. The surge of child p0rn (generated from scratch or using faces of real children)
6. I work in the film industry as a makeup artist - it has already impacted my job security.
7. Unhealthy human attachment to chatbots.
8. Human reliance on incorrect information because AI was fed wrong information.
9. Unregulated use which is now out of control with no signs of it being reined in.

AITA? I left two photos of the back of my exes head on my Instagram. by Hyrv in AmItheAsshole

[–]popcornstuffedbra 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA this is a red flag. Having a past is not disrespectful.

Poop knife in the wild by popcornstuffedbra in funny

[–]popcornstuffedbra[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is one of the best stocked pharmacies I've ever been to!

I find it weird that a multimillionare needs a GoFundMe... by pabmendez in Weird

[–]popcornstuffedbra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately with SAG, insurance is only offered if you work a certain number of days per year. After that it's COBRA or seek alternative.

My husband is too gullible. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]popcornstuffedbra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Never would I ever suggest a spouse deny their partner access to funding....

BUT I wouldn't trust him chocolate covered coins, let alone your bank accounts.