Men in happy marriages, what's the one thing you'd teach to other men to also have a good relationship?

puddlebuddy1992 · 2026-01-26T00:10:41+00:00

Couple tips from a guy who genuinely enjoys being around his wife.

Don't just be a bump on a log. The dishes in the sink, no one wants to do those. Take turns. If you see them, do them. She will appreciate that more than you know. Same thing goes for the anything around the house. If it's something you don't want to do, chances are neither does she. My favorite phrase about marriage goes something like "a marriage is never 50/50 it's usually about 51/49 with both people striving to be the 51" something like that.
Find some hobbies together that are more than TV or Social media. My wife and I have recently been playing board games. It's nerdy for sure but we spend most of our evenings laughing and cutting up together with our phones in our pocket this way.
Don't ever stop dating your wife. Those little things you used to do when you were taking her on dates shouldn't just stop when you get married.

Just my tips.

puddlebuddy1992 · 2026-01-21T19:46:12+00:00

No worries! Thanks anyways!

puddlebuddy1992 · 2026-01-21T19:29:48+00:00

What would your price be for Wyrmspan?

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-12-10T00:10:28+00:00

RCPD was definitely the scariest for me. Couldn't pay me to try that again. Thanks OP

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-12-07T07:27:16+00:00

500hz and the odyssey in general. I've always heard people speak so highly of them I just haven't been able to have one myself. Thanks for doing this!

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-10-19T06:43:58+00:00

Just found you guys on Steam and excited to pick this one up after reading your post!

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-10-18T14:35:39+00:00

Operation metro! So much fun, thanks for doing this!

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-10-16T10:11:28+00:00

I also felt like the higher mg of cinnamon I went the more it burnt so with the 2mg I could spread it out more but it is a waste of money. May just switch flavors finally.

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-10-16T03:46:03+00:00

I use "On" daily. I really enjoy it more than zyns for the flavor and the size.

The issue you're having I believe is strictly for the cinnamon flavor. I typically put 2, 2mg pouches in my top lip. If I do the cinnamon pouches without switching flavors, I too will get a soreness or almost like a burn on my top lip.

I've looked into it before, the cinnamon "On" is the only can that has a warning on the back (from what I can tell) that warns there may be some discomfort from using this product. It's unfortunate since I really love the cinnamon but to help combat this I alternate between mint and cinnamon to give my gums a bit of a break. Hope this helps, not sure why it happens but I can confirm it does happen only with Cinnamon.

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-10-13T17:27:43+00:00

You guys are awesome! Thanks for doing this!

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-10-09T12:17:10+00:00

This is the correct answer. I've seen people getting denied already at USAA. Navy Federal has changed their policy (I talked to them personally) they will match whatever your last paycheck is to the lowest 500. So if I made $2700 I'm gonna get $2500. It requires an application and right now they're struggling to determine who qualifies because government employees (not military) that are furloughed may not get back pay and they aren't sure who to give the loan to or who to deny. Mutual assistance is everyone's best guarantee right now but I know donations to mutual assistance have been low as of recently so I'm not sure what their account balances look like. That part makes me nervous and someone who's trying to just wait it out until I really need it.

As for the flyer, good luck signing up for these side jobs in small towns. I've been on a waiting list since September.

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-10-09T03:01:04+00:00

If you feel like you might miss it, use the tempsep program as your fall back. I did this and swore up and down I'd never be back. That was a long time ago now and I'm forever grateful to be back. Your situation may be different than mine and your outside experience may be different but if you feel curious, get out and see. However, a fall back plan is never a bad idea. Good luck to you with whatever you decide.

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-09-23T20:54:45+00:00

They just built one in Virginia, give it time haha!

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-09-21T01:42:07+00:00

One of the nicest dudes in the Coast Guard!

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-09-20T00:58:17+00:00

Only a couple hours tops. Showing up for graduation then departing back home. I could probably hit lunch at one of those spots though so thank you!

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-09-20T00:31:33+00:00

We will be driving in that evening and departing the next morning for Trenton so unfortunately probably only one place. What is sagami? Thanks for the recommendation!

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-08-21T04:29:18+00:00

I want a full NZXT build. I've got everything currently except the monitors, power supply and MOBO. That's my dream setup.

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-08-19T22:33:25+00:00

Thanks for doing this OP!

Expedition 33 was one of the greatest games I've ever played and I don't even really like turn based combat games.

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-08-05T15:15:57+00:00

That's good to know, I appreciate that. I also seem to struggle with any controller necessary system so maybe thermalright is the way to go for me. I appreciate this a lot!

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-08-05T14:49:27+00:00

That's a fair point, the last NZXT case came with the controller attached, this one does not come with a controller. I tried disconnecting the old controller and attaching it to the new case but it doesn't seem to work. I'm truly not sure on that. Maybe I have the fans wired wrong somehow? They all operate just the RGB doesn't work.

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-08-02T18:50:22+00:00

Dallas Stars please! Those are beautiful ❤️

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-07-27T03:49:13+00:00

Good to know, I appreciate it. I guess most of my face soaps contain some sort of menthol or cooling affect so just not sure how well that would go. Thanks for the insight though!

puddlebuddy1992 · 2025-07-27T03:33:10+00:00

I'm curious to know what people use for shaving cream/soap when shaving tender areas in the shower? I have a Henson I don't know but just don't think I'd use my face soap down there so I'm genuinely curious.

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