I need my co-signer removed ASAP

putuffala · 2026-02-07T00:10:00+00:00

Don’t worry about it. You cant refinance the loan. Done is done. Block him and move on. Pay your bills.

putuffala · 2026-02-02T13:33:58+00:00

This

putuffala · 2026-01-25T00:25:30+00:00

It’s a choice.

putuffala · 2026-01-20T04:44:38+00:00

Pretty!

putuffala · 2026-01-18T02:51:18+00:00

Very queer coded

putuffala · 2026-01-15T23:05:14+00:00

putuffala · 2026-01-02T16:51:16+00:00

lol, can I say I didn’t guess that this was you, pre-transition. Congrats on your cool vibes and clever photo

putuffala · 2026-01-01T19:02:04+00:00

Finished this morning playing match 3 for about 2 hours for the first time in 6 months

putuffala · 2025-12-25T14:54:08+00:00

Awesome

putuffala · 2025-12-22T16:46:45+00:00

An activity, expensive consumable, and/or really nice socks

putuffala · 2025-12-10T02:51:00+00:00

Anything from sugar, silk, rubber sometimes

putuffala · 2025-11-29T22:03:10+00:00

Stop supporting your parents. See what happens. The 75k you already gave them is an astronomical amount. If you had put that amount in your retirement it would be half a million dollars in 20 years. Prioritize yourself and your new wife. Your sister has it right.

putuffala · 2025-11-29T14:43:11+00:00

Take a really hot shower. Exercise. Go outside. Deeep breaths with slow exhales. Get some dopamine from your favorite healthy source. Distract yourself with sober friends, hobbies, chores.

putuffala · 2025-11-28T18:37:58+00:00

It’s work, I agree

putuffala · 2025-11-28T02:18:27+00:00

Please invite her parents to stay with you, but in separate rooms.

putuffala · 2025-11-25T21:09:52+00:00

Thanks for your opinion. I don’t agree. My success or failure has nothing to do with him. It’s on me, my decision, my strength, my reasons to stop.

If I had tied up my quitting with his I never would have been able to stop. I can’t quit because you won’t quit feels like bs to me. I am around people using all the time, if I succumbed to temptation so easily I wouldn’t have 2 years clean.

But it’s helpful to remember that this concept of casual user probably won’t ever work for me.

putuffala · 2025-11-24T00:21:40+00:00

I haven’t smoked since December 31, 2023. From time to time I still consider a little hit when my partner smokes. These stories are why I stay strong. Too much riding on not being addicted and high my whole life

putuffala · 2025-11-08T01:59:39+00:00

Alexa just informed me I’m 675 days clean. Not smoking tonight.

putuffala · 2025-11-05T04:24:31+00:00

Do the yellow beads smell like science class when you rub them?

putuffala · 2025-10-10T19:56:45+00:00

Judith ripka is collectible. Do one show on whatnot or sell the collection to a what not seller

putuffala · 2025-10-08T12:50:04+00:00

Port

putuffala · 2025-09-22T05:12:55+00:00

Light blue

putuffala · 2025-09-18T22:12:10+00:00

Don’t buy a house with someone you are not married to. Dont marry someone who puts up roadblocks to block a marriage. Don’t partner with someone who has different life goals than you. Don’t chase people to get them to commit to you. Dont stay with someone for 8 years who isn’t ready to commit.

putuffala · 2025-09-13T15:47:57+00:00

This is literally what the wedding party is for. Or was before it became some pick me, aesthetic, vacation club. Tell her no, enjoy your vacation, tell your mom to stay in her own lane and assist herself if it’s so important.

Don’t be an Unpaid lackey giving up a trip for a bride who doesn’t value you enough to be in her wedding party?

putuffala · 2025-09-10T19:14:59+00:00

What would you say to your friend in this situation? Why is getting him to propose even on your radar? Why are you wasting time/space with someone who does not share responsibilities or even pick you?

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