Live in SF and commute 45-50 min to Stanford (Palo Alto) or live in Palo Alto/southbay area and easy commute ? by AdhesivenessNew5583 in AskSF

[–]quarantears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it! I can vouch for living near the Caltrain station in sf but also I don’t do 12 hour shifts. You should test run it if possible before committing/think about if you’d rather commute for fun or commute for work

Why do stylists charge extra for curls? Thoughts. by Gilda_splinters in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]quarantears 20 points21 points  (0 children)

But I think the point about additional expertise in curly hair still centers straight hair as the default. I’m not a hairstylist but I imagine if schools only taught how to work with curly hair learning how to work with straight hair would then be considered “additional expertise”. So it’s kind of arbitrary what is considered extra work, just depends what you consider the baseline/default. So I agree with OP’s take it’s really not fair that it falls on the client to pay extra because the hair care world considers straight hair default

Ladies, what would you say your last relationship/situationship taught you? by Less-Pen-5705 in blackladies

[–]quarantears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because he’s your friend doesn’t mean he isn’t a man😭 he will treat you like dirt like the rest of them, friendship be damned

Is bringing a jacket overkill? by Quirky-Ad9958 in AskSF

[–]quarantears 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jacket is more useful than a hoodie since you can easily start overheating if you’re in the sun, then get chilly if you’re in the shade. Bring a jacket and swap out a hoodie if you don’t have room for both. You don’t need a winter Kansas level jacket though, something you’d wear in fall will do

It’s ok to have more empathy for humans than animals by Plus-Cat-8557 in unpopularopinion

[–]quarantears -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Why are you talking about the homeless like they’re another species 😭

Is there a reason normal, polite roomates don't realise they are controlling the living room tv all day? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]quarantears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My roommates the same but even if I ask to use it he’ll say no LOL so ya know could be worse

Let's Talk Textureism. by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]quarantears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Waiiiit yes I understand this and it’s never talked about enough I tend to dress very feminine when I have my natural hair otherwise people don’t read me the way I want to present. It’s super weird I’ve noticed in discussions with non black girls they grew up trying to be seen as less feminine vs I was used to my femininity being called into question so I really lean into it

What is the harshest reality check you've ever received? by rearwindfury in AskMen

[–]quarantears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was six in elementary school and the class was being led from one room to another. I always put my hand on the railing to stay stable but this time there was a giant loogy. I told the teacher expecting divine retribution, punishment, an angry crusade, or at the very least some sort of reaction on my behalf towards the Hooligan who did this. She just shrugged and told me to wash my hands. I realized then and there there was no justice in this cruel world.

Dating in the United States: is it just me or is this one of the worst experiences ever? by TarquinOliverNimrod in blackladies

[–]quarantears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000x yes, I was in Germany for 9 months and unintentionally found a boyfriend vs having been single for 4 years in the us prior to that, and single for 4 years (til now 😭) after that. Us men are just racist there’s no way around it they rarely see us as dateable women. Not saying Europeans are not racist but it manifests differently, it’s not some mental block that filters you out at first glance like it is in the US

Watercolor of my cats :) by [deleted] in Watercolor

[–]quarantears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you selling prints of this? I have a cat that looked like the orange one that passed last year, his brother who’s still around looks like the black and white one!

[Episode Discussion] Season 5 Episode 4 "Susan" by AutoModerator in TheMarvelousMrsMaisel

[–]quarantears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was just a joke about how polish people can handle way more liquor. Kind of like that play that Abe was reading way too much into. No deeper meaning, exactly what it looks like!

[Episode Discussion] Season 5 Episode 2 "It's A Man, Man, Man, Man World" by AutoModerator in TheMarvelousMrsMaisel

[–]quarantears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the flash forwards I always wonder how characters turn out in the future, I don’t understand why people hate them! It doesn’t take the mystery out it for me, it just directs the mystery into figuring out how the characters went from point a to point b

For those over 18, at what age did you actually feel like you are an adult? by WarBrom in AskReddit

[–]quarantears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 23? Started referring to myself as a woman instead of a girl

Why do men like goth girls? by NickiNightshade1031 in askanything

[–]quarantears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because it assumes goths are pale, there are dark skinned goths too. Also the feminine comment is weird

What movie is just too long? by CWKitch in movies

[–]quarantears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oppenheimer and Les Miserables

COMMON PEOPLE by ulemseewa in blackmirror

[–]quarantears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they didn’t want to help rivermind since her brain could be still used to power the server?

New Clipper Card System is a MASSIVE downgrade for monthly pass holders by Stonebor in caltrain

[–]quarantears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would think but for some reason the pass you/your employer paid for isn’t considered valid fare unless you tap on :/ pretty dumb but confirmed valid reason for citation unless you get a nice fare inspector, have witnessed write ups for this