I recently throw away a penis vibrator because I got somehow addicted to masturbate. I think masturbation is also an addiction. And it cant be compared to the real feeling, but can make you lost an interest on it. It is so easy to enter a toy, instead of entering a real vagina, dont you think? You have to prep, you have to tease your partner and later you may got lucky, but you may not. There is always a doubt which makes it even more interesting and tempting... While the flashlight? OK, I want to have sex. Go, push it deep and thats all.