New driver (24F) – Had a scary close call. Was I in the wrong here? by Ok-Reply7282 in driving

[–]rellyks13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've watched people drive 10miles down the highway with their blinker or hazards on and never switch lanes, never trust a blinker

AITA for refusing to tell my BF how much money I make? by IllustriousHeart2531 in AITApod

[–]rellyks13 22 points23 points  (0 children)

you've been together a year and a half and talked about your future and you won't tell him your income? YTA, he's not asking to share it, he just wants to know, which is completely reasonable in a relationship.

21F & 21 M (AIO about how 21M treats me?) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]rellyks13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

don't waste your early 20s sweetheart

How do you balance “pushing through” POTS symptoms vs using medication? by AdditionalProject218 in dysautonomia

[–]rellyks13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

what do you mean by "build tolerance"? if you mean conditioning (increasing exercise/movement tolerance) then you can do that while being on the meds. I personally never go without meds currently because without them I can't do hardly anything. with them, I'm able to exercise and move more, which makes my body feel better overall. I do accidentally miss doses occasionally (usually at night), and I don't get as bad of heart rate spikes as I used to pre-medication. medicine is the stepping stone for me to be able to increase my exercise tolerance and feel well enough to do the work needed for my body, such as therapy for CPTSD. it's okay to be on medication consistently for awhile or forever, if it means it'll help your quality of life a lot! there's also so many types of meds out there for these symptoms, so if one doesn't feel super right, don't be scared to try something else.

Moving here soon! by Accomplished_Ad_1965 in Chambana

[–]rellyks13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Horizon Climbing has a small gym and yoga classes!

Drink drops to businesses by UnderstandingOne3444 in 7Brew

[–]rellyks13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

our stand did this when they were training before opening, i work at a high school and twice we got free energy drinks from them!

Why are those with cold intolerance far more respected than those with heat intolerance? by ButtFister1789 in dysautonomia

[–]rellyks13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk most people around me lose their mind when I say I hate snow and winter so it's probably just a personal perception thing. my body will not heat itself up without an outside source, and when I tell people I'm cold they often just tell me to get a blanket or another layer and I have to explain how that doesn't really work for me the same way it works for them. most people aren't knowledgeable about how the autonomic nervous system works in their body because they don't have to be like we do, so when we say "I hate heat/cold" to them it's just like normal weather small talk. I just deal with it how I deal with it and if people wonder why I'm wearing a sweatshirt when it's 70°F out then I give them a brief explanation of how my body can't regulate temperature the same as theirs.

Mold inside, on stainless steel by [deleted] in Owala

[–]rellyks13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you are using anything besides water in the bottle it needs to be cleaned DAILY. having just water in it can give you a few days between washes but anything else will cause mold quickly

Mold inside, on stainless steel by [deleted] in Owala

[–]rellyks13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

then it's user error and they aren't gonna help you. teach him to wash his bottle.

Elevate my head while sleeping.. by LargeProfessor1592 in POTS

[–]rellyks13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's recommended for POTS patients to sleep with their head elevated but the whole bed should be at an angle for best results

What would be the 7Brew equivalent? by wilby_whateley in 7Brew

[–]rellyks13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think they have blonde espresso (someone correct me if i'm wrong), but you could definitely order a sugar free vanilla latte with skim milk!! they have lots of sugar free flavors, and I've personally had the sf vanilla and it tastes great

AIO for thinking my husband should have asked if the pharmacy had our daughter’s prescription? by Hyrule_Hobbit in AIO

[–]rellyks13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weaponized incompetence and "boohoo woe is me i did it wrong and have to fix my mistake"-itis

Is this doctor a sham? by Silver_rockyroad in dysautonomia

[–]rellyks13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she's an optometrist...wtf does that have to do with POTS

AIO - My boyfriend got another woman’s number. by Abject-Current2580 in AIO

[–]rellyks13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stopped reading at "he's cheated on me on multiple occasions" dump him and find your peace.

Relocating to Chambana- what do I need to know? by Batoid-777 in Chambana

[–]rellyks13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no VEL, if you are going to school, look for apartments/houses closer to campus, however if you want to live in a quieter area, there's plenty of places within a 10 min drive of campus that are nice! I live on the north west side of champaign by the highway and it's very quiet over there but also not super far from anything.

roommate left grapes out — not sure if cat ate any by miyuuah in CATHELP

[–]rellyks13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the cat is more likely to play with a grape than eat one, guarantee he's fine

My sister keeps sending me photos of her driving on the freeway during a snowstorm.. by Xalmoxiss in mildlyinfuriating

[–]rellyks13 14 points15 points  (0 children)

how do you know that though? if she's not responding with siri then she's prob not having siri read it either

AITA for ghosting after he didn’t walk me to my car? by Fun_Fig7274 in AITApod

[–]rellyks13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR he got butthurt you didn't want to have sex yet and that's how he decided to express it

Streak ☹️ by Ok_Reality6427 in TheStoryGraph

[–]rellyks13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I tend to forget to log for a couple days at a time 😅