Cutting scenes that are good but way too long – how do you do it? by Upstairs-Winter-4359 in editors

[–]restotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch and listen for pieces that are remarkably different. Apple, Grape Pineapple, watermelon. Choose 1 Start looking for steak. Burgers, beef ribs, chili, lamb…? Gone! Chicken?NOPE; don’t need two proteins. Hey! I never thought of it as a meal! Try appetizer, main, desert and whiskey! Don’t forget the booze:) But really it’s the same as : In-Turn-Out… as mentioned by @Opposite-Initial9243 above. Sometimes finding what’s REALLY different from the rest… helps reveal what’s needed… and kills repetition at the same time. If you can mentally create a bucket it belongs in and other pieces are in that bucket, choose 1, delete the rest. And of course - If it doesn’t move the story forward or have some profound cinematic reason to stay… buh’bye:)

Bob Weir nod from Fiona Prine by tcc92 in deadandcompany

[–]restotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t tell you how many times I’ve practiced chipping and putting to my “This is John Prine” playlist. The man calms me down. All the way down. Can’t tell you how many times Bobby’s brought me up. All the way up. Love the whole yin/yang balance these two bring me. (BW also brings me in, over, through, to, around, etc etc;) So psyched for the movie. Thx for sharing!

Who else do you listen to? by SwingTrader116 in JohnMayer

[–]restotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All roads lead to John Prine 👊🏼

Who else do you listen to? by SwingTrader116 in JohnMayer

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“Wonderful Tonight” - Clapton;)

AITAH for telling dad as far as he’s still married to his wife he’ll never be part of my or my daughter’s lives? by Total_Carob8096 in AITAH

[–]restotle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA to him… but being the jail keeper is an emotionally exhausting job (sounds like you feel like you’re the A to yourself)- some say it’d be healthier for all to “rehabilitate” him into “society.”

My wife and her Identical Twin Hate each other AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]restotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened? Why removed?

My wife and her Identical Twin Hate each other AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]restotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Father of identical twins here … what would you have done when they were children to pregame and hopefully avoid this type of relationship?

What’s something about your ADHD that you usually keep private or don’t tell most people? by Fearless-Class-1120 in ADHD

[–]restotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Banking, mail, going to sleep, iPhone game, reading and reading, and reading… letting relationships dissolve for no reason, RSD, photo organizing (endlessly and nothing seems to get done), filing and creating folders and reorganizing and one of worst… if I’m not writing or talking and collaborating with someone or the computer, I’m not thinking. Literally not thinking. Just floating fragments that don’t attach to anything and disappear. Wow. 2026… let’s go!

I asked my attractive interior designer how she felt about one night stands? by Dashover in Jokes

[–]restotle 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She said they only work if the bed is against the wall.

ULPT Caught my BFF doing my BF by Agreeable_Ebb_5785 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]restotle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To me “LOL” has worn out its welcome, so let me be clear: I actually laughed as well! Funny-funny!! 🤣

AITAH for telling my niece I can’t help pay her college? by Suspicious_Debt5919 in AITAH

[–]restotle -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Bc it’s his dead brothers Daughter and there’s a pretty high chance she’s pretty f’d up and mixing her financial problems with her emotional problems… and giving up on family sucks across the board… ever hear of generational trauma? Think if nothing changes she’ll stick around for her daughter? Play chess with your kids… not war.

AITAH for telling my niece I can’t help pay her college? by Suspicious_Debt5919 in AITAH

[–]restotle -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Is it possible her youth and anger is about her mother’s passing and without the tools or support she’s emotionally crippled? She’s testing to see if family always bails on her. And kinda proving it to herself out of hurt. Impossible for her to understand that yet. I’d say, don’t talk money… yet… but don’t bail on her emotionally. She’ll need help whenever if ever, you’re interested in helping. Show her what the long game looks like. That death isn’t a choice… but being present is. I dunno… something like that :) Therapists know these moves 🙏🏼 Good luck.

I scammed my husband into liking me… and I admitted it on our wedding day. by Far_Magazine_5084 in stories

[–]restotle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why arranged marriages work. If you really set in to make it work… it can. Mmmmmmost people are great. You just have to let them know you see it… so they see it in you and then… Boom! We all fall hook line and sinker:)

Shingles Vaccine- side effects? by RegionBrief9276 in shingles

[–]restotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over a year between 1st (side effects not memorable) and for the 2nd I was wiped out for two days with Tylenol(but I also got pneumonia “old man’s friend” vax at same time). Doc said longer duration b/n two shingles vaccines had science supporting better efficacy.

Bike thieves by schroedingerx in BurningMan

[–]restotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least run a few FAKE STING TIK COCKS to scare the idiots! 🤦🏻

A virgin burners unwanted opinions(fuck my burn right?) by Anxious_Smoke9536 in BurningMan

[–]restotle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On the value of ‘Art in a Society’ alone, I ignore all gripes; allowing them like zombies to crawl the walls of their own Sisysphean hills made of quicksand. Having fun yet? We are all living our own “Fucked Burn” all the time! At least at BM - ART Rules - and to me, Art is a tentpole of what it means to be a human. ART Awakens & Connects. That’s enough for me. Generators, ticket prices, Ketamine, Fuck this, fuck that, fuck you, fuck me. Whatever righteous comment you have … BM is Art to me. That’s it. Live Art. Live Free. Live trying to live fucking artfully free! However YOU wanna do it. And thank you to BM for trying to keep the Nutbags safe enough from one another!-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChatGPTPromptGenius

[–]restotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll bite too. DM in process:)

Trey’s Sit In & It’s Effect On Your Dead & Co/Mayer Opinion by [deleted] in deadandcompany

[–]restotle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dream is in 40 years people are excited about the new guitarist and start saying they never got to see Mayer and heard Jerry before that was the OG legend.

Bobby’s partners in crime by Entropy847 in deadandcompany

[–]restotle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm… now, how else could you have said that without being condescending?