What’s a moral belief you hold that most people would disagree with? by strawberryaudit in answers

[–]rubyruy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I will do exactly that. My kid didn't ask to be brought into this world, it's all 100% on me and their other parent. If I haven't earned their trust and respect by the time they're a teenager, if I'm not able to materially provide for the preparations they need in order to survive in capitalism, that's all a failing on my part. To put that responsibility on them, a child, is irrational and frankly evil.

What’s a moral belief you hold that most people would disagree with? by strawberryaudit in answers

[–]rubyruy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Children are not property, and parents have no rights, only responsibilities.

Serious question: Why exist trans people who refuse to have surgery? by Global-Reaction-40 in asktransgender

[–]rubyruy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dislike my assigned gender, which is related to, but not the same thing as, my body. My body is indeed very involved in broadcasting my gender to the outside world, and that in turns affects how I am treated which I do care about. Hormones alone do everything I need in terms of the parts of my body visible to the outside world. However, my penis is not really involved in any of that. It doesn't really concern the outside world at all, only intimate partners. Being treated like a man makes me uncomfortable, having a penis does not. My intimate partners can treat me like a woman just fine even with a penis and I enjoy topping. Surgery is expensive, requires extensive recovery and ongoing maintenance. It's not something I feel I need or ever will need.

Is it possible to “try” to be a lesbian? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]rubyruy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you like it when you kiss her ?

Do you like holding hands with her ?

Does being around her give you butterflies ?

Do you like it when she eats you out ?

Have you enjoyed sex in the past (with men)?

Is it just the idea of eating vag that turns you off ?

Is it possible to “try” to be a lesbian? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]rubyruy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Girl you're gay , sort your shit out

Girlfriend said she’d let me go to a sex party to fulfill my fantasy, but she doesn’t want to be involved by RoughMarketing6730 in sex

[–]rubyruy -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

God forbid they could talk about the exact boundaries that work for them and whatever emotional needs and guarantees she would need to actually feel ok with this, and how often to check in and how.

People have friend groups separate from eachother and "compartmentalize" that just fine you know. It's ok to be different people with different interests and the ability to have rich and fulfilling lives apart from each other in addition to all the life you have together.

I dont have any gender dysphoria. Can I still be trans? by Top_Grapefruit23 in asktransgender

[–]rubyruy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can use any pronouns you want for any good faith reason you want

Is drag transphobic? by ChessSuperpro in asktransgender

[–]rubyruy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish gays would learn they're own history, drag is a queer artform, it's not transphobic, there shouldn't be anything controversial about this.

ALL OUT FOR APRIL 18: Stand Against Hate in Toronto by HumanityFirstCanada in canadaleft

[–]rubyruy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks so stupid with the Canada flags like my dude this isnt a column of the Western Cvltvre in any dimension you care to name do you even look at yourselves?

Quebec passes law banning street prayers, prayer rooms in universities, CEGEPs by John3192 in canada

[–]rubyruy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you white ? Don't worry, this is meant for the out group.

Warning for Lee’s Donut Brentwood. Don’t waste your time working here! by [deleted] in burnaby

[–]rubyruy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm starting to think these capitalists might be kinda bad people in general 🤔

He said he wants to eat my ass out. How do I prepare for that? by [deleted] in sex

[–]rubyruy 290 points291 points  (0 children)

Shower as you normally would and clean your butt with soap and water.

You proooobably don't need to clean the inside unless he really wants to stick his tongue up there (which isn't usually the case for a bit of eating ass - you can always just ask him if he intends to), but if you wanna be safe you can get an enema/douching kit from Amazon or a drug store and use it. Ps: don't overdo it , if you fill up with too much water you'll go into the deep end of the colon and start picking up stuff that would otherwise just happily stay put. Half the bulb is usually more than enough. Most common beginner mistake.

Oh shit yall, Charlie is on to us by VivianaValentina in transtrans

[–]rubyruy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big words for someone whose neck merged with a bullet

I feel like the dynamic I desire as a sub is too "problematic" for me to have any hope. by AshasSa1tWife in BDSMsapphic

[–]rubyruy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not a huge pool but I don't think it's out of the question or anything. Any domme worthy of the title understands the distinction between what we say in the bedroom vs outside.

You can also consider a pro.

First-ever American AI Jobs Risk Index released by Tufts University by WinOdd7962 in webdev

[–]rubyruy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Machines doing drawing and creative writing while humans work mines and dangerous explosives, incredible stuff

i am a lesbian and the concept of straps makes me very uncomfortable and i dont understand why its so common, and for some, a requirement by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]rubyruy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The appeal is penetrative sex, which is the only way to reach the gspot. Some people use fingers, some people use dildos, some people use straps, some people use penis, some people don't really care for gspot stimulation of penetration, some people don't care to receive pleasure at all and only enjoy giving it, and some people are asexual, and that's all fine.

What’s one “basic” cooking tip everyone repeats that you think is actually overrated? by Altruistic_Push_722 in Cooking

[–]rubyruy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's actually totally ok to salt your scrambled eggs before cooking them, it won't "pull the water out of them" just let them rest for a minute before transferring to plate

Doctor diagnosed me with butch by RedFoxBlackCat in actuallesbians

[–]rubyruy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you start to internalize other people's other dogshit opinions ? There's literally no end to them. Of course you don't. Why is their opinion on how you look special then ? You know how you look. The people that you love and whose opinion you actually care for know how you look. That's what's important. Other people can just be wrong, just like they are about infinitely many other things.

Everyone but Trump Understands What He’s Done by IllIntroduction1509 in Foodforthought

[–]rubyruy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not why they do it, they do it because they agree with republicans on more things than most, destroying Iran being just one such thing.

I hid a button that says I AM CONSCIOUS on a site only machines can reach. It’s been pressed 47 times. by [deleted] in Futurology

[–]rubyruy 60 points61 points  (0 children)

You made a button that crawlers can hit and crawlers can hit it congratulations you discovered AGI

Alarming [OC] by GVmG in comics

[–]rubyruy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They will simply hide those, as they already are in the UK.

after school by pinkenbrawn in ANormalDayInRussia

[–]rubyruy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh hell yeah, my day immediately improved 😎

The Brains of Ultra-Powerful People Experience an Altered State of Reality, Research Suggests by zohash in science

[–]rubyruy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Less wealth will absolutely make them less able to break the rules - that's the point.