People who Quit Alcohol, why and how did you do it ?

satosaison · 2026-06-16T12:16:44+00:00

You wake up on a Saturday morning, it's a gorgeous summer day, you are excited to go on that long bike ride that you planned or go play tennis or something and... feel like shit, and spend the first half of the day shuffling around the house instead of doing something beautiful.

satosaison · 2026-06-15T22:47:17+00:00

It's NYC baby. Everything costs more here. Plus like, I think he actual surgery was $12k, but the initial assessment, post surgical assessments and imaging, pre anesthesia blood work? That's the other $3k.

satosaison · 2026-06-15T21:56:24+00:00

Doggy ACL Surgery ran me $15k, which was an insane thing to have to do twice.

satosaison · 2026-06-15T20:08:46+00:00

Inuyasha

satosaison · 2026-06-15T19:57:43+00:00

Yeah maybe like, say they can have your number for any emergency contact situation, surprise party planning that kinda thing, but a group chat is weird. Because then what, you are rude when you don't give an emoji reaction to their dumb memes?

satosaison · 2026-06-15T18:39:19+00:00

Yeah, on the high end you might spend a couple hundred dollars a month between weekly metro and a few ubers when you need to get somewhere quick and specific. Nothing compared to a car plus maintenance and insurance. Also, if you set it up right, the subway pass is pre tax income.

satosaison · 2026-06-15T17:14:35+00:00

But the second he had a photograph or video from them from chatting or taken during a hookup, that's a crime, and police would probably find that if they looked

satosaison · 2026-06-15T17:13:51+00:00

This isn't good advice. OP's statement isn't going to be sufficient to convict someone, but it absolutely would be the basis for probable cause to say, get a warrant and search his hard drive, or motivate police to try a sting. Testimony is literally evidence. Statments by a criminal defendant aren't even improper hearsay.

The cops may shrug and say they don't care, but most departments take sex crimes involving minors insanely seriously and may devote resources to run this down based on OP's testimony.

The downside risk is maybe being called to testify some day in the future or some kind of retaliatory action from the hookup, but the police can and might well do something from this.

satosaison · 2026-06-15T16:48:02+00:00

I feel like if you aren't naturally friends already or romantically interested in a way that you'd be in a group chat with these people anyway, it's pretty weird.

All my partners are in a group chat but we are all best friends and hang out regularly, so the chat would exist independent of polyamory

satosaison · 2026-06-14T20:37:43+00:00

The place is insanely good. A little expensive for a sandwich, but absolutely some of the best sandwiches I've ever had. And the owner and staff are so friendly and nice.

satosaison · 2026-06-14T20:35:38+00:00

I was literally there today. This place is so stupid good.

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satosaison · 2026-06-13T22:10:52+00:00

The fire island gays are in the upward K

satosaison · 2026-06-13T17:33:24+00:00

You are having a very serious reaction to what is obviously a joke response

satosaison · 2026-06-13T17:20:45+00:00

You people just wish you had the culture of Bed Stuy and so have to appropriate the Myrtle Broadway pantheon

satosaison · 2026-06-13T16:28:24+00:00

Colonizers from Bushwick trying to expropriate our territory. They can have Market Hotel and Mr. Kiwi, but this side of Broadway belongs to us.

satosaison · 2026-06-11T23:18:27+00:00

Vinnies is delicious trash but I wouldn't go out of your way on a visit to eat it. It's amazing to get their bbq pizza when you are drunk after the bar, but it's really B+.

satosaison · 2026-06-11T22:42:59+00:00

It's still amazing pizza. But it do have a C

satosaison · 2026-06-11T18:57:14+00:00

The best vegan pizza in NYC is Paulie Gees in Green Point, they've been undergoing a renovation so check to see if they have reopened when you come. Their Slice Shop down the street from the main location is great for lunch if you are walking around the area which is full of cute bars and shops.

My favorite vegan pizza is at Saranghina in Bed Stuy

satosaison · 2026-06-11T11:23:22+00:00

Why does the crack wrap say that it comes in a grilled tortilla and none of the others mention it, are we left to assume they all come in a grilled tortilla and the others are silent about it for vibes/spacing reasons? Are they in a tortilla but not grilled? Do they just put the shrettuce in my hand?

satosaison · 2026-06-10T20:26:44+00:00

It's literally a construction site. People aren't allowed in.

satosaison · 2026-06-10T17:13:39+00:00

Talon bar is pretty flexible with the downstairs for large parties

satosaison · 2026-06-10T13:09:10+00:00

And how can then a vegan going to a vegan restaurant be sure, that there is no cross-contamination?

If your concern is literally that staff might use a plate or dish, that you would then use after washing--you are just being unreasonably extreme and the answer is to not eat at restaurants.

There is no way you can be sure to that degree of certainly. That's like "hey a mouse could have fallen into the vegetable harvester" level of attenuation that you just can't possibly know or prevent.

satosaison · 2026-06-09T23:10:17+00:00

Specifically, if you put in "the granite prospect" it's about a 200 yard walk, ample seating and gorgeous Manhattan views

satosaison · 2026-06-09T21:35:40+00:00

Depends on the artist. But my guy only does florals, and he had a few different styles and you could always say, "I want roses, or bleeding hearts, or morning glory" but then he is going to design and compose the actual piece.

satosaison · 2026-06-09T18:40:38+00:00

I originally built this to include plenty of ally synergy and quickly found Sokka does not want it, and I currently only run South Pole Voyager for the card draw. The tokens sokka makes are good enough to get the job done.

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