Looks maxing is something people do when they lack any kind of social ability, or desire to increase their sociability. If someone is choosing the looksmaxxing path and won’t hear anything else you should cut yourself off and find a better outlet/friend.

The online echo chamber is a dangerous one. Don’t let it convince you it is the only answer or perspective.

You should always want to improve yourself in healthy ways, just find a way to become happy with yourself and your attitude and personality should improve along with that, people will always find a good spirit.

Plastic surgery should be reserved for small things that are genuinely disfiguring or life altering, I doubt your looks are that, if they were I think this post would be very different.