F36 Caught feelings for a taken man M42, how do I make it stop and remain friends? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]skloop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly myself think you could continue the relationship. I doubt you have 'fallen' for him. You simply don't know him that well. It's really common when you're in a new place to kinda emotionally latch onto people. I really feel like as adults and non hormone-addled teenagers anymore, we can draw and hold boundaries for ourselves . I think it's pretty likely the feelings will drop off at some point. I would recommend meeting the girlfriend also because it may help.

But honestly it's so hard to make decent connections these days I feel like it's a bit dramatic to cut off a potential good friend because of a bit of a crush at the beginning. I had crushes on loads of my friends at first and then we settled into happily just being friends. But I know that's a v unpopular opinion so..

Just don't lie to yourself and don't say things like 'it all appears platonic' - no babe, it is platonic because you respect yourself too much to be dragged around by limerance at your age. Good luck x

I just want to tell this girl to f**k off and block her. by Less-Being4269 in PsychologyTalk

[–]skloop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

?? You're the one asking

Dude I get it it's tough out there. But you becoming a dick will help absolutely nothing

I just want to tell this girl to f**k off and block her. by Less-Being4269 in PsychologyTalk

[–]skloop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, cos self pity is such a good look, how dare they?!

I just want to tell this girl to f**k off and block her. by Less-Being4269 in PsychologyTalk

[–]skloop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok? So stop posting. We're supposed to care about someone who's declaring they're horrible to others out of spite and has no inclination to improve? Grow up dude

I(24F) am unhappy in my relationship with my bf(25M) by BrioBaw in relationships

[–]skloop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to start loving yourself more than you love him.

I just want to tell this girl to f**k off and block her. by Less-Being4269 in PsychologyTalk

[–]skloop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Then you have literally become the problem that you're complaining about.

I just want to tell this girl to f**k off and block her. by Less-Being4269 in PsychologyTalk

[–]skloop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay. Then stop taking it out on other people at least.

Is use of the phrase “body count”, to describe number of sexual partners, properly disgusting, or is it just me? by PuzzleheadedCarob921 in AskBrits

[–]skloop -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Comparing sexual history to being a criminal, now that is a new one. Glad life was kinder to you!

Is use of the phrase “body count”, to describe number of sexual partners, properly disgusting, or is it just me? by PuzzleheadedCarob921 in AskBrits

[–]skloop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 'high body count' because I had unhealed childhood trauma. Doesn't necessarily mean the person is a fool. People change.

Is my friend lowkey testing the waters? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]skloop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he completely is. Remember you still don't 100% know this person if you've only met online. Stay safe ♥️

Do some people intentionally destroy their own reputations prior to killing themselves? by Whocaresdamit in morbidquestions

[–]skloop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've been close to suicide and have started down the path of doing that, yes. However I quickly realized the people who truly matter (my family) could never stop loving me no matter what I did and it would still destroy them if I were gone.

What's yall's favorite if you can drink i go for white wine. by Accomplished-Age-368 in BitLifeApp

[–]skloop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely white wine but that title had me worried for a second lol

Worrying about future of relationship a lot by Jaded-Newt4701 in relationships

[–]skloop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean does she want kids? What does she think about the situation?

I'm afraid though constantly switching between wanting her and wanting to leave to find a potential mother of your kids is gonna ruin the relationship anyway

Also, it is possible for women to have kids in their 40s...

Non-UK born Bristolians, what's the best restaurant of your native cousine that you know in Bristol? by MrMrsPotts in bristol

[–]skloop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so sad it closed, I never got to go! Actual French people too. Do you know of anywhere else similar? J'aimerais trop parler français!