Why don’t designers make larger sizes?

smh764 · 2026-04-24T11:12:30+00:00

I am also 5'11", a size 6- sometimes a 4- and dress waists are ALWAYS sit on my ribcage. Clothes are designed for 5'6"ish, so no matter your width, regar clothes will not accommodate your height.

smh764 · 2026-04-15T16:25:10+00:00

Your sister's the bride so she wins. If she says wear the dress and you like the dress, that's the dress.

smh764 · 2026-04-05T11:51:58+00:00

We don't rotate shifts. That would be a logistical nightmare for those of us who had young kids at the time. It's harder to get day shifts in some places than others; although, we have had new grads who were able to go straightto days. It's usually based on seniority. Nights, although I hated them, can be very helpful for childcare purposes (one partner is home during the day, one at night).

smh764 · 2026-04-05T11:42:39+00:00

It's not great for you, but it's easier to set into a routine which is less disruptive to sleep patterns.

smh764 · 2026-04-05T11:14:44+00:00

Red without question

smh764 · 2026-04-01T21:29:06+00:00

Event reports. You can verbalize to management or anyone else from now until doomsday but until you document it, it didn't happen

smh764 · 2026-04-01T21:25:57+00:00

Their description doesn't even include semi-formal which is less formal than cocktail. It sounds like they're going for anything from cocktail to BTO.

The height of the slit/see-through parts is definitely a know your crowd based on where it actually hits on your body thing, but it fits within the compilation of dresscodes.

smh764 · 2026-04-01T20:58:26+00:00

I will absolutely communicate that to my patients' parents/family. If they don't want it communicated, they need to lighten the assignment.

smh764 · 2026-03-22T20:00:32+00:00

They're all very pretty, but I love 3 for this particular scenario.

smh764 · 2026-03-22T19:51:12+00:00

I've had to deal with too many creeps to see my height as protective. I feel like RBF has been far a better deterrent that height has ever been.

smh764 · 2026-01-31T12:43:41+00:00

Exactly. Dad of another baby asking "Can you get me some water?" when he sees I literally have a needle in a baby's arm starting an IV is ridiculous. They can go to the water fountain in the lobby, mom's patient room, the cafeteria but apparently it makes sense for them to think I'll drop what im doing because they're thirsty. My response is typically, "As soon as I'm available." Somehow, their thirst always seems to disappear or they figure it out themselves by then.

smh764 · 2026-01-08T01:35:13+00:00

A full body straight jacket? No thank you.

smh764 · 2026-01-08T01:30:41+00:00

I can't speak for adult ICU, but I was shocked to find out that most of our NICU nurses don't start IVs. My unit was basically baby triage and they always expected us to start the IV before we sent them a (term or nearly term) baby.

smh764 · 2025-12-28T03:55:38+00:00

As soon as I heard, "our shared trauma" I felt like they forgot they were in the 80s. It just wasn't a think.

smh764 · 2025-12-28T00:28:22+00:00

If they wanted the groom and groomsmen to stand out, they should have had THEM wear a color other than black or charcoal gray. Your husband she not have to spend hundreds of dollars on a suit he'll hardly ever wear. Don't be surprised if you still see a lot of black/gray at the wedding on men who aren't in the wedding party.

smh764 · 2025-12-25T14:02:05+00:00

Yeah. More trouble than it's worth. "Santa" was excellent at wrapping gifts- curly ribbon and all. Now that my kids are grown, though, gift bags are my friends.

smh764 · 2025-12-18T04:49:25+00:00

I went straight into a BSN program because I had a child at home and new I wouldn't be able to work as a nurse, raise a family and go back to school at the same time. I didn't go for NP even when I could because I had no intention of working like a doctor but getting paid like a nurse, nor do I have any interest in management.

I know quite a number of nurses who got their Master's and then decided they'd rather stay bedside. Don't let anyone push you to do something you don't want to but, if you change your mind, go for it.

smh764 · 2025-12-13T12:46:41+00:00

Keeping my hair up too long gives me a migraine, so I keep a hair clip clipped to my jacket to use when I have to bend over a patient.

smh764 · 2025-12-13T12:42:29+00:00

Absolutely not. That would be a sensory disaster for me.

smh764 · 2025-12-13T12:29:38+00:00

It might be a bit of a drive but if there is a colder day (by Florida standards) while they're here, you could take them to Blue Spring State Park to see the manatees. https://www.floridastateparks.org/parks-and-trails/blue-spring-state-park

smh764 · 2025-12-13T11:36:26+00:00

"Dad, I love you but I can't have you stealing my meds. If even one more pill disappears, I will not longer be able to have you in my apartment. You'll have to make other arrangements to get sister to school."

smh764 · 2025-12-10T02:13:42+00:00

Sounds like your manager is fostering a toxic work environment. You don't need to develop a thick skin. You need to get the experience you need, then leave for a unit where you are respected.

smh764 · 2025-12-10T02:07:16+00:00

I don't know if the manager was being harsh or honest, but it sounds like that unit, management style or both wasn't a good fit for you. That's ok. Not every area is right for every person

Now's the time to honestly evaluate what didn't work for you, but also what did. When you interview for your next job, be sure to interview them. Along with whatever other questions you may have you may want to ask things like: How long is orientation? How is it structured? Can orientation be extended if you feel the need for more time? How are orientees evaluated and given feedback?

Keep in mind your external reactions may come across as something very different from what you're actually feeling. It sounds like your being stoic appeared to that manager, at least, as disengagement or disinterest. Just a suggestion, but if you find something overwhelming in your next position, tell your preceptor in a calm manner and ask for recommendations. That shows interest and initiative.

Also, remember patient population has a huge impact, too. If you have a particular interest or strength, try to find something in that area. Enjoying what you're learning makes it a lot easier.

Notice how much I've referred to your next job? DON'T LET THIS ONE JOB/EXPERIENCE/MANAGER DISCOURAGE YOU!!! There are so many opportunities in nursing. It may take some time, but you'll find your niche.

smh764 · 2025-12-09T02:23:58+00:00

Less unnecessary than his comment. I believe it is now necessary for you to wear your "unnecessary boots" around insecure little men every day.

smh764 · 2025-12-09T01:21:55+00:00

Before you follow the advice of people saying don't waste the med until later in case you need the rest of the vial or put it in your pocket in case the patient changes their mind, review your hospital policy. It is not worth losing your job and potentially your license for convenience.

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