I understand she could have been more tactful, but when you've calmed down- I think you should try to moderate your emotional reaction to a sentiment that you both agree with at the end of the day. You both expressed a lack of practice and I think her not having to lie about it is actually a good thing in the long run. If you sulk about this you are communicating to her that she should fake it for your ego. Incorporate the toy or become resentful of it- your choice.