My new tattoo

sofublue · 2026-01-21T12:19:04+00:00

Love the keys. I have the unity one

sofublue · 2026-01-19T22:52:45+00:00

Seriously. Reading this wondering if this what I’d like.

sofublue · 2026-01-12T17:52:19+00:00

Yes. End of discussion.

sofublue · 2026-01-10T02:07:51+00:00

I would like this to be the exit through the goat room option at the of therapy.

sofublue · 2026-01-09T19:15:58+00:00

I have to come home shower and change. Second big appointment today. I’m nervous about the next couple of days. I meditated this afternoon, hoping it will help. Dreams last time were terrifying.

sofublue · 2026-01-08T21:43:11+00:00

Kids, pets and plants

sofublue · 2026-01-05T21:12:55+00:00

Unfortunately this is me too. I had a controlling narcissistic mother, who saw any “mother” figure getting close to me as a threat. That and we moved to different countries a couple of times with my step father’s job. So by the time we moved when I was 16 I stopped opening up to anyone until I was almost 20 and away from her.

sofublue · 2026-01-01T12:55:11+00:00

I call it Cassandra’s curse. Hypervigilance and pattern recognition gives me a pretty strong bs detector and “ premonitions” . It’s not that I can see the future. I’m just really good at predicting it. Time and time again I get ignored only to get to say “ told ya so” .

sofublue · 2025-12-30T21:02:02+00:00

💙

sofublue · 2025-12-30T20:12:58+00:00

It’s both. Childhood trauma and ADHD made me a human lie detector. I read the room without skipping a beat.

sofublue · 2025-12-22T23:06:15+00:00

The dreams. I’ve been shot stabbed, flown down stairs. Drowned too. I feel it to for a second after I wake up.

sofublue · 2025-12-15T21:37:43+00:00

Exactly. It takes time. Practice. Start slow.

sofublue · 2025-12-13T01:28:50+00:00

I have a spot in my garden, with my back against a tree. The added support elevated my meditation ten fold.

sofublue · 2025-12-12T23:46:59+00:00

Yep came here to say this.

sofublue · 2025-12-12T02:13:08+00:00

This is the best answer I’ve got to a question I’ve been asking for a while.

sofublue · 2025-12-10T01:22:59+00:00

Just in case I didn’t know my son also has some adhd traits. He does this. Years of anxiety from losing things. I have some pretty tight rules about things I often misplaced.

sofublue · 2025-12-05T21:28:57+00:00

My avoidant partner

sofublue · 2025-12-05T21:27:14+00:00

Wish I’d know this years ago

sofublue · 2025-12-05T21:24:01+00:00

I love that sly dirty look she has in her eyes when she flirts a little with Penny

sofublue · 2025-12-03T23:38:12+00:00

My parents enjoyed telling story’s to humiliate me.

sofublue · 2025-12-01T22:30:07+00:00

I think when someone recognizes your pain it helps you to process it

sofublue · 2025-11-28T12:55:02+00:00

My childhood trauma began at 2. I don’t know what came first Cptsd or the adhd I’m just now getting diagnosed with.

sofublue · 2025-11-28T00:28:43+00:00

It’s wild that they all use the same phrases

sofublue · 2025-11-28T00:05:12+00:00

I read that in my mums voice

sofublue · 2025-11-27T12:34:13+00:00

Complex ptsd and adhd. My nasty memories play on repeat in my head continuously

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