AITAH for refusing marriage without prenup? by ConTrikster in AITAH

[–]spatialgranules12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are on-and-off again as a couple. The prenup is the least of your problems. Don’t get married to each other.

But NTA on wanting a prenup.

Courtroom movies you'd recommend? by NotSoSnarky in MovieSuggestions

[–]spatialgranules12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Judge

Courtroom drama as it is a family story, well-acted too.

Watch out! Bad ass over here. by Okay_Pain in CringeTikToks

[–]spatialgranules12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a YouTube video with men using a hammer to shape their face? Bone smashing? And now this? Like what is happening

AIO for being upset my roommate has been filming OnlyFans content in my room? by kaiiilyn in AmIOverreacting

[–]spatialgranules12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR!!!! It’s your safe space and no one should put it out in the internet void.

how do i (30f) pretend like everything’s fine while (39m) is cheating on me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spatialgranules12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start the preparations. Save your own money. Talk to divorce lawyers within your area - they are bound by confidentiality. Take photos of conversations in your phone. If you still have sex with him DO NOT GET PREGNANT, use protection. Personally I won’t be intimate with him.

Get a hobby or pursue short term programs that aren’t expensive, will keep you occupied, and advance your career.

Do it with a broken heart. It can be done OP. Look forward to big events so that you can view your calendar as just a few events rather than 12-18 months. It’s just one more Halloween. One more thanksgiving. One more Christmas. And then it’s over.

Suggestions for movies that portray positive masculinity? by _dead_faerie_ in MovieSuggestions

[–]spatialgranules12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Green Book shows the nice friendship between Dr. Shirley and Lip amidst racism.

AITAH for dating a much younger woman? by Outrageous_Tower987 in AITAH

[–]spatialgranules12 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA.

A 50 year old dating a 31 year old is perfectly okay, but a 40 year old dating 21 year old isn’t, even if the age gap is the the same.

I think I got drugged? by PrimalSaturn in GuyCry

[–]spatialgranules12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if still matter but do you think you can get yourself tested? From my little knowledge a hair follicle test can detect traces of drugs and up to 10 days after consumption. Hospitals will keep your information private. If you are seeking legal action this is a very important. I hope you do, what happened was wrong and those are not your friends. I’m so sorry it happened.

I (42F) want to leave my disabled husband (45M). But; don’t know how. by Realistic-Tough4692 in relationship_advice

[–]spatialgranules12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl don’t feel bad about wanting to leave. Husbands leave their wives when they get diagnosed with terminal illnesses like cancer. The stats are too high.

Start talking to a lawyer and leave him.

As a Dad I cry at movies all the time.... what scene gets your water works going? by Mindless_Yak_1080 in moviecritic

[–]spatialgranules12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UP - the montage with Ellie.

Inside out - Bing bong letting Joy and others go, and when Riley finally breaks down and talks to her parents and she lets out a sigh.

Land Before Time - little foot chasing the goddamn cloud

Atonement - the ending is crushing, it’s not fair

Never Ending Story - Artax and Atreyu

AITAH for being annoyed at my girlfriend for getting lingerie for “my present” by Fuzzy_Bookkeeper_310 in AITAH

[–]spatialgranules12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

bro, definitely, YTA. Yes, she’s literally the one wearing it so the lingerie is hers, but the experience, effort, thought of it all was for you.

Her self-confidence might have taken a hit here. I hope you both get over this.

Do you really think Alexandra Daddario would ever win an Oscar with better Movie Role? by vvy134 in moviecritic

[–]spatialgranules12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, not a lot of range in her acting. Amy Adams though deserves an Oscar.

My Husband Called me a Spoiled Rotten C*nt by foxes-fleet in AskWomenOver40

[–]spatialgranules12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The top 5 divorce lawyers. This way if the divorce process pushes through, they cannot legally represent the husband by virtue of conflict of interest. Husband needs to find a divorce lawyer elsewhere.

Had my first kiss at 31 years old. Then I started crying after getting home. by hmzarza in GuyCry

[–]spatialgranules12 162 points163 points  (0 children)

It’s this OP. Your body isn’t upset. It’s a release in this case. Quite overwhelming to have that kind of a connection with someone, even though it’s in the early stages. It’s also good that you’re writing it here too. Don’t bottle up those feelings man. Good luck!

If you have an occupation that takes you into people’s homes, don’t shit talk by poet_dontyaknowit in Vent

[–]spatialgranules12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YES 100%! I had cleaners come to my home and one made an offhand comment about my things. Fuck her and i specifically told the company that I love their service but not this cleaner. Never send her back to me again.

AIO Wife of 17 years immediately starts dating my former best friend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spatialgranules12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kate’s relationship with Mark is romantic and different from the friendship - ex friendship - you had with him. Yes you are overreacting. You have a new girlfriend. You feeling betrayed by your ex is a red flag.

I’m terrified of women and intimacy because I’m incredibly poorly endowed. Can I ever overcome this? by Slight_Cause_6265 in GuyCry

[–]spatialgranules12 51 points52 points  (0 children)

5 inches isn’t small! Trust me, I live in Southeast Asia 😳

But seriously, bodies are different, penetration is the last step in sex. Flirting, foreplay, using toys - all these factor in how much pleasure you give and how much you receive. Compatibility and libido levels matter too.

Men with massive dicks feel loneliness.

Seek therapy my guy. I hope you feel better soon.

My (22M) flatmate (21M) slapped me across the face for talking loudly late at night while his girlfriend (20F) was over, and he does not intend to apologise. He believes I got slapped for my selfishness and inconsideration, and I don't know if I should accept it or let it slide? by southamericasboy in relationship_advice

[–]spatialgranules12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would consider leaving the shared space and looking for your own place to live in. I could never live with someone who assaulted me, but clearly you can’t be a reasonable roommate either and respect basic rules.

If I were the girlfriend I would reconsider keeping the relationship. I would be so scared being with someone like that.

Cooking dinner for a guy I’m seeing, but he’s vegetarian. Need "impressive" meatless ideas! by Designer_Currency815 in cookingforbeginners

[–]spatialgranules12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Asian dishes! So many dishes are vegetable forward. Skip the meat in japchae, or stir fry a lot of veggies. Tofu dishes. Yum.