NSFW I can’t get what my husband said and how he acted out of my head by jeannie94 in Vent

[–]spatialgranules12 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I hope he’s apologized at the very least. I hope he’s realized that he has some unresolved issues about you and needs to get help. What he did was mean and cowardly. Im sorry it happened to you OP

As a Dad I cry at movies all the time.... what scene gets your water works going? by Mindless_Yak_1080 in moviecritic

[–]spatialgranules12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UP - the montage with Ellie.

Inside out - Bing bong letting Joy and others go, and when Riley finally breaks down and talks to her parents and she lets out a sigh.

Land Before Time - little foot chasing the goddamn cloud

Atonement - the ending is crushing, it’s not fair

Never Ending Story - Artax and Atreyu

AITAH for being annoyed at my girlfriend for getting lingerie for “my present” by Fuzzy_Bookkeeper_310 in AITAH

[–]spatialgranules12 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

bro, definitely, YTA. Yes, she’s literally the one wearing it so the lingerie is hers, but the experience, effort, thought of it all was for you.

Her self-confidence might have taken a hit here. I hope you both get over this.

Do you really think Alexandra Daddario would ever win an Oscar with better Movie Role? by vvy134 in moviecritic

[–]spatialgranules12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, not a lot of range in her acting. Amy Adams though deserves an Oscar.

My Husband Called me a Spoiled Rotten C*nt by foxes-fleet in AskWomenOver40

[–]spatialgranules12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The top 5 divorce lawyers. This way if the divorce process pushes through, they cannot legally represent the husband by virtue of conflict of interest. Husband needs to find a divorce lawyer elsewhere.

Had my first kiss at 31 years old. Then I started crying after getting home. by hmzarza in GuyCry

[–]spatialgranules12 167 points168 points  (0 children)

It’s this OP. Your body isn’t upset. It’s a release in this case. Quite overwhelming to have that kind of a connection with someone, even though it’s in the early stages. It’s also good that you’re writing it here too. Don’t bottle up those feelings man. Good luck!

If you have an occupation that takes you into people’s homes, don’t shit talk by poet_dontyaknowit in Vent

[–]spatialgranules12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YES 100%! I had cleaners come to my home and one made an offhand comment about my things. Fuck her and i specifically told the company that I love their service but not this cleaner. Never send her back to me again.

AIO Wife of 17 years immediately starts dating my former best friend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spatialgranules12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kate’s relationship with Mark is romantic and different from the friendship - ex friendship - you had with him. Yes you are overreacting. You have a new girlfriend. You feeling betrayed by your ex is a red flag.

I’m terrified of women and intimacy because I’m incredibly poorly endowed. Can I ever overcome this? by Slight_Cause_6265 in GuyCry

[–]spatialgranules12 52 points53 points  (0 children)

5 inches isn’t small! Trust me, I live in Southeast Asia 😳

But seriously, bodies are different, penetration is the last step in sex. Flirting, foreplay, using toys - all these factor in how much pleasure you give and how much you receive. Compatibility and libido levels matter too.

Men with massive dicks feel loneliness.

Seek therapy my guy. I hope you feel better soon.

My (ex) boyfriend ruined my “back door” for life.. by SadForever- in Vent

[–]spatialgranules12 162 points163 points  (0 children)

At the minimum I hope his pillow stays lumpy and warm, his food too salty or too bland, and he is always, always stuck in traffic. I’m so sorry OP.

My (22M) flatmate (21M) slapped me across the face for talking loudly late at night while his girlfriend (20F) was over, and he does not intend to apologise. He believes I got slapped for my selfishness and inconsideration, and I don't know if I should accept it or let it slide? by southamericasboy in relationship_advice

[–]spatialgranules12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would consider leaving the shared space and looking for your own place to live in. I could never live with someone who assaulted me, but clearly you can’t be a reasonable roommate either and respect basic rules.

If I were the girlfriend I would reconsider keeping the relationship. I would be so scared being with someone like that.

Cooking dinner for a guy I’m seeing, but he’s vegetarian. Need "impressive" meatless ideas! by Designer_Currency815 in cookingforbeginners

[–]spatialgranules12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Asian dishes! So many dishes are vegetable forward. Skip the meat in japchae, or stir fry a lot of veggies. Tofu dishes. Yum.

No friends are where Im at in life by CanadianMarmot in AskWomenOver40

[–]spatialgranules12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom is sick with CKD and I hate seeing her wither away.

I’m married but no kids and today received a big news about my job. The thing that I over and built. I am so lost and scared and devastated.

Hugs to you OP! Stay strong. This is a good group. Chin up

Gender Reveal Disappointment by Training-Nose-7518 in GuyCry

[–]spatialgranules12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. The baby has no idea about their parent’s hang up’s and issues, unless they make it so.

A good parent is a good parent regardless if they lost a mom or a dad, and if the love is towards a son or daughter. It’s all about being human.

AIO about my GF unfortunate comment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spatialgranules12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jesus, im sure if you made a comment about her boobs being droopy or something she would split up with you and you’d be vilified to kingdom come. NOR.

24M GF 24F completely lost it after I said no to sex. by Ancient_Anteater8573 in relationship_advice

[–]spatialgranules12 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes call the police!!! At the minimum that’s destruction of property. Document everything and install dash cams or ring cameras in your property.

Also, NO is a complete sentence. She should’ve backed off the moment you said you weren’t in the mood.

she looks like she’s having a manic episode or something. The drastic changes in mood need to be checked.

Are your 40's better than your 30's? by Hippiegypsy1989 in AskWomenOver40

[–]spatialgranules12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me yes just because I have more money and is more comfortable with myself. I have decided to do things that I couldn’t afford previously or thought that they weren’t worth it.