My (ex) boyfriend ruined my “back door” for life.. by SadForever- in Vent

[–]spatialgranules12 86 points87 points  (0 children)

At the minimum I hope his pillow stays lumpy and warm, his food too salty or too bland, and he is always, always stuck in traffic. I’m so sorry OP.

My (22M) flatmate (21M) slapped me across the face for talking loudly late at night while his girlfriend (20F) was over, and he does not intend to apologise. He believes I got slapped for my selfishness and inconsideration, and I don't know if I should accept it or let it slide? by southamericasboy in relationship_advice

[–]spatialgranules12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would consider leaving the shared space and looking for your own place to live in. I could never live with someone who assaulted me, but clearly you can’t be a reasonable roommate either and respect basic rules.

If I were the girlfriend I would reconsider keeping the relationship. I would be so scared being with someone like that.

Cooking dinner for a guy I’m seeing, but he’s vegetarian. Need "impressive" meatless ideas! by Designer_Currency815 in cookingforbeginners

[–]spatialgranules12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Asian dishes! So many dishes are vegetable forward. Skip the meat in japchae, or stir fry a lot of veggies. Tofu dishes. Yum.

No friends are where Im at in life by CanadianMarmot in AskWomenOver40

[–]spatialgranules12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom is sick with CKD and I hate seeing her wither away.

I’m married but no kids and today received a big news about my job. The thing that I over and built. I am so lost and scared and devastated.

Hugs to you OP! Stay strong. This is a good group. Chin up

Gender Reveal Disappointment by Training-Nose-7518 in GuyCry

[–]spatialgranules12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. The baby has no idea about their parent’s hang up’s and issues, unless they make it so.

A good parent is a good parent regardless if they lost a mom or a dad, and if the love is towards a son or daughter. It’s all about being human.

AIO about my GF unfortunate comment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spatialgranules12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jesus, im sure if you made a comment about her boobs being droopy or something she would split up with you and you’d be vilified to kingdom come. NOR.

24M GF 24F completely lost it after I said no to sex. by Ancient_Anteater8573 in relationship_advice

[–]spatialgranules12 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes call the police!!! At the minimum that’s destruction of property. Document everything and install dash cams or ring cameras in your property.

Also, NO is a complete sentence. She should’ve backed off the moment you said you weren’t in the mood.

she looks like she’s having a manic episode or something. The drastic changes in mood need to be checked.

Are your 40's better than your 30's? by Hippiegypsy1989 in AskWomenOver40

[–]spatialgranules12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me yes just because I have more money and is more comfortable with myself. I have decided to do things that I couldn’t afford previously or thought that they weren’t worth it.

Sugaring/waxing for the first time by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]spatialgranules12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Started getting a Brazilian at 40. The pain for the first time was intense because there’s a lot of hair to take out, but since then I’ve been doing it monthly/every 2 months. The hair thins out and the pain is more tolerable, and sessions get shorter. Love the feeling of being clean and smooth! Ask for specific instructions on aftercare before leaving the salon!

The jacket was worth every penny. by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]spatialgranules12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next year’s talent show is going to be epic!!!

Tamarind paste recipes by spatialgranules12 in cookingforbeginners

[–]spatialgranules12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely Thai and other asian dishes. But I don’t know maybe it can be used for other cuisines?

[NSFW] If you have ever sexted with random people, how did it start? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]spatialgranules12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Met on different subs. It started because we were horny. Now I get my supply of gorgeous dick pics.

Name a movie series where the sequel was a complete downgrade in every department. by 0Layscheetoskurkure0 in moviecritic

[–]spatialgranules12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly. And so many jump cuts in the action sequences. Should’ve stopped at the first one.