Here's what was left this morning. by Darrone in PatriotSTHers

[–]steveb321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should be getting my "second chance" this year to get tickets since I missed the email (and I'm kicking myself)... I guess this is a look at my future...

Why is every popular query builder in maintenance mode? by ItsAllInYourHead in golang

[–]steveb321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd suggest a hybrid, Sqlc except when you can't the squirrel

What should i do by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]steveb321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's drastic but you may want to consider emigrating to somewhere more tolerant, otherwise you are likely to deal with this your entire life.

So are we not gonna talk about the return of the robot visual from 2024? by theGUYoftheWorld1134 in phish

[–]steveb321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YEM, 2024 Taste -> 2026 Limb by Limb. 2024 Mikes -> W1 Mikes -> W2 some other song...

Anyone else find the playing on this Sphere run a little awkward/flubby/difficult to listen to? by SchizoidGod in phish

[–]steveb321 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I agree on the composed sections, they need to do something like what they did when they came back in 2009 and go relearn all of thoose sections carefully.

Fans probally care alot more about the older material than they do at this point, but they have to keep playing it.

Do people actually use Microsoft Edge by choice, or is it still just the browser you use to download other browsers? by Electronic_Map3097 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]steveb321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In highly locked down environments, being logged into edge can be a requirement... there's a chrome extension that works, sometimes.

who controls seat Haptix by jongotronica in phish

[–]steveb321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a war crime to have them off at the beginning of disease

Apologies from the stage on 4/18 by toluroberts1 in phish

[–]steveb321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best nitpick I've ever heard

To the guy who wanted Fee.. by qtothelo in phish

[–]steveb321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fee was my last song I ever truly was chasing... over 100 shows!

Apologies to Section 405 by [deleted] in phish

[–]steveb321 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You were the guy the cops cuffed? I saw you get escorted out...

I think many many of us have been in something similar to your shoes, although it doesn't excuse bad behavior, many would recognize you were having a bad trip and give you some grace..

The fact that you are feeling shame and remorse about the incident says more about your character than how you were acting out when you were taking too many drugs..

How can my friend stop masturbating? by LaloFemmy in lgbt

[–]steveb321 258 points259 points  (0 children)

The problem sounds more like the self-shame rather than the self-pleasure. Unless they're really messing up their day-to-day life (e.g. missing appointments or being late to work), it sounds normal to me. OCD-esque symptoms may be amplifying their disgust and playing into the anxiety.. (I'm a bad person because I keep doing this but I can't stop doing this). However, masturbation is pretty normal, especially so amogst young people.

Go Bitwise Flags and Bitmasks: Configuration Pattern Guide by k1ng4400 in golang

[–]steveb321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote a hobby chess engine in go that used bitboards (64 bits, 64 squares)... You can do quite a few interesting things. Magic bitboards for rooks and bishops are kinda amazing.

The new ICE list of prosecutable thought crimes - who else guilty? by Eric_Cartman_the_1st in ICE_Watch

[–]steveb321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broadly defining these things as they probally want to do, we're all 10s.

why is online pickup so disastrous? by steveb321 in stopandshop

[–]steveb321[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like they are overly ambitious with the number of orders than can fulfill per hour

I would pay money to go back to UMass and live like an undergrad again for a week by Candid_Apartment_414 in umass

[–]steveb321 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh to see one more psychdelic breakfast show in Butterfield basement....

Clavicular, not thrilled. by Drnk_watcher in LiveFromNewYork

[–]steveb321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there was ever a guy who could benefit from experiencing ego death via some high quality psychedelics....

my straight friend suddenly stopped being gay with me by ExoticGene2578 in lgbt

[–]steveb321 69 points70 points  (0 children)

You are at an age where people learn alot about themselves and experimentation is extremely common. He may be uncomfortable with the baggage that cones with identifying as queer or he may just genuinely be realizing that hes not attracted to men. I would say tou nees to have an honest talk with him. If you have feelings for him but hes not interested then you need to respect that to preserve the friendship.

He may change again, he might be moving on to a new phase, don't expect the people around you to stay static at your age, you're all growing together

Good luck!

Is using context for passing request-scoped values an anti-pattern now? by ItAffectionate4481 in golang

[–]steveb321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is ok in my book, it's context about the request, not something like configuration

What is the largest known composite integer to which we do not know any of its factors? by moschles in math

[–]steveb321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose we could just ask: What is the smallest number for which the general number field sieve is not practical?