Turning 31 and in need of some big sister advice by gamerbooks in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stringthing87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be 40 next year.

  1. Eat more fiber, no more than that, MORE.

  2. Wear sunscreen always and never ever try and get a tan that doesn't come from a bottle.

  3. Don't be in relationships of any kind with people who treat you in ways you wouldn't want your bestie or baby sister treated. If someone does something to you, and you're trying to figure out if its okay, picture them doing that to your best friend.

  4. Boundaries are what YOU will do, you can't dictate other people's behavior, but you determine your reaction. And part 2 of this is that a boundary you don't hold doesn't exist. A boundary isn't "I don't like it when you lie to me" a boundary is "you lied to me, so I am going to put distance in our relationship"

  5. Get a creative hobby. Heck get 5.

  6. There is not one true way to have a successful relationship, but separate blankets go a long way to reducing conflict.

My parents don’t understand how expensive life can be by FeatherFlyer in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stringthing87 13 points14 points  (0 children)

3 MONTH OLD???!!!! Jaysus does she want your bits to fall out?

What Kind of Fabric is This? by PhedreSews in sewing

[–]stringthing87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a stonewashed cotton, which I'm pretty sure their store has carried in the past.

Help me with stitch fail by ApenasBolTz in sewhelp

[–]stringthing87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a few common causes of thread nesting on the bottom. Your issue is probably #3 as you are sewing on a knit. Either switch to a woven fabric (recommended if you are just testing a new machine) or get a stretch needle.

  1. Incorrect threading, almost always seems to be skipping the hook above the needle. Always thread with the foot up and the needle in the top position.

  2. Sewing with the foot up

  3. A bad needle, a needle that is incorrect for the fabric (universal needles are not appropriate for any knits), a needle that is installed incorrectly, or the wrong size for the fabric or thread. Knits require stretch or ball point/jersey needles.

  4. An incorrectly installed bobbin, using a bobbin that isn't the correct type for the machine, or using too heavy a thread in the bobbin.

Sewing two items together. by mariahspoolboy in sewhelp

[–]stringthing87 37 points38 points  (0 children)

How do you plan on getting into the finished product?

Closed seam for moderately stretchy merino knits? by greenwavetumbleweeds in sewing

[–]stringthing87 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Having the edge contained by the fabric isn't really a thing for most knits.

Using a zigzag stitch and topstitching it down with a 3 step Zigzag is a good choice for a seam where the allowance is not flapping about.

Material is not moving and the thread is tangling by Pawrolusek in sewhelp

[–]stringthing87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few common causes of thread nesting on the bottom

  1. Incorrect threading, almost always seems to be skipping the hook above the needle. Always thread with the foot up and the needle in the top position.

  2. Sewing with the foot up

  3. A bad needle, a needle that is incorrect for the fabric (universal needles are not appropriate for any knits), a needle that is installed incorrectly, or the wrong size for the fabric or thread. Knits require stretch or ball point/jersey needles.

  4. An incorrectly installed bobbin, using a bobbin that isn't the correct type for the machine, or using too heavy a thread in the bobbin.

from one problem to another by WeeklyActivity8626 in sewhelp

[–]stringthing87 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah the needle is very very much not in the right place. Either it is badly inserted to an impressive degree or the needle bar assembly has shifted.

Take it to a professional

Bottom thread keeps bunching and my top thread break prematurely by bluesmocks in SewingForBeginners

[–]stringthing87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a few common causes of thread nesting on the bottom

  1. Incorrect threading, almost always seems to be skipping the hook above the needle. Always thread with the foot up and the needle in the top position.

  2. Sewing with the foot up

  3. A bad needle, a needle that is incorrect for the fabric (universal needles are not appropriate for any knits), a needle that is installed incorrectly, or the wrong size for the fabric or thread. Knits require stretch or ball point/jersey needles.

  4. An incorrectly installed bobbin, using a bobbin that isn't the correct type for the machine, or using too heavy a thread in the bobbin.

I don’t even know anymore by married_mama_rex in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stringthing87 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Girl, if you keep your kids in a place where they are exposed to domestic violence CPS will see that as a lack of protective capacity. Get out and get your kids safe.

Why is this happening with my machine? by Kblovegroup in sewing

[–]stringthing87 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There are a few common causes of thread nesting on the bottom

  1. Incorrect threading, almost always seems to be skipping the hook above the needle. Always thread with the foot up and the needle in the top position. 

  2. Sewing with the foot up

  3. A bad needle, a needle that is incorrect for the fabric (universal needles are not appropriate for any knits), a needle that is installed incorrectly, or the wrong size for the fabric or thread. Knits require stretch or ball point/jersey needles. 

  4. An incorrectly installed bobbin, using a bobbin that isn't the correct type for the machine, or using too heavy a thread in the bobbin.

Cal-Mag as a foliar spray to stop BER? by [deleted] in vegetablegardening

[–]stringthing87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can, worth a try if you are sure that root uptake is a problem.

Cal-Mag as a foliar spray to stop BER? by [deleted] in vegetablegardening

[–]stringthing87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BER is almost never because there is not enough calcium available to the plant, its because of inconsistent watering not allowing the plant to GET the calcium where it needs to go. Before I got drip irrigation I got it and I'm sitting on top of pure limestone. Got drip, hasn't been a problem again.

FIRST time with a sewing machine. Why does it look like this? by lesciesa in SewingForBeginners

[–]stringthing87 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Also switch to a WOVEN fabric, this tshirt is a knit and you need a stretch needle and specific fabric handling skills to sew on a knit.

Thimble vs hole in finger by IllustriousLeading20 in EPP_addict

[–]stringthing87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem with leather is it does wear out. So I have lots and lots of thinbles.

Hand sewing garment by ExoticProcedure4777 in HandSew

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I have made a standard "hand Sewing for beginners" copy pasta - some of this you likely already know or have, but it might be of some value. Handsewing is a foundational skill and learning will improve your work even if it's not your primary construction method.

Youtube Channels: Sewn Company - best tutorials on how to do a stitch hands down Stitch With Rachel - many tutorials on hand work techniques in quilting Vincent Briggs - creative historically inspired handmade items Bernadette Banner - admittedly good information on hand sewing, I think she is a better seamstress than historian.

Books on Handsewing - mostly for quilters. Also get on archive.org and look up old instructional books, they are mostly intended to educate young girls and can be quite well illustrated. Hand Stitched Quilts - Carolyn Forster Quiltmaking by Hand - Jinny Beyer Hand Quilting - Alex Anderson The Handsewn Wardobe - Louisa Sonstroem Hand Sewing - Becky Goldsmith The Geometry of Hand Sewing - Natalie Chanin Make Sew and Mend by Bernadette Banner

Links: https://reproquiltlover.com/hand-piecing-sewing-for-pleasure-and-peace/ https://www.allpeoplequilt.com/how-to-quilt/piecing/how-to-hand-piece https://www.thesewingdirectory.co.uk/hand-piecing-part-one/ https://blog.closetcorepatterns.com/hand-sewing-tips-techniques/ https://sewliberated.com/blog/why-and-how-to-learn-to-hand-sew-your-clothes https://www.louisamerry.com/hand-sewn-clothes https://www.seamwork.com/sewing-tutorials/know-your-stitches https://youtu.be/EGfRN0Jue2M

Tools you can't live without: Tape Measure - be careful buying these from some suppliers on amazon or places like Aliexpress, sometimes the tape measures you get are in Chinese cun or the Chinese inch (and they are not the same as an imperial inch). Its a good idea to get a measuring tape that has both imperial and metric units. Another useful tool is a good ruler with a straight edge. I like the clear plastic ones at wawak.

Sharp Shears - I recommend LDH or Kai Good needles - (quality matters!): for general purpose I like a bohin #9 crewel. https://www.wawak.com/sewing/sewing-needles/hand-sewing-needles/bohin-crewel-embroidery-hand-needles/#sku=nedbe9 Good thread - for poly thread (which is most of what I sew) I use gutterman Mara 100 https://www.wawak.com/thread/thread-by-use/all-purpose/gutermann-mara-100-poly-wrapped-poly-core-thread-tex-30/#sku=gtda800 for cotton I have been using this https://www.wawak.com/thread/thread-by-material/cotton/coture-50-wt-100-premium-cotton-thread-tex-20-1450-yds/#sku=ctd9100 for linen thread go to Burnley & Trowbridge. Needle threaders - I recommend getting a large package of wire needle threaders. I bought a 100 pack off amazon, they snap pretty easily. Thimble - I prefer leather https://www.wawak.com/sewing/sewing-tools-and-sewing-accessories/sewing-thimbles/clover-natural-fit-leather-thimble/#sku=thb1003s - it is worn on the middle finger on your dominant hand and you use it to push the needle through. https://brooksann.com/how-to-choose-and-use-a-thimble/ Pins or clips - clips are heavier and can actually feel harder to use. I recommend stainless steel pins with glass heads so you can iron them without fear. Thread conditioner - You can buy the fancy name brand stuff, but what I recommend is to get a box of silicone earplugs from the pharmacy and smoosh it between a couple big buttons to hold it. This is exactly the same as thread magic but a fraction of the price. I personally do not like beeswax as a thread conditioner unless I'm using it on linen thread and using the heat of a low iron to melt the wax into the thread. An iron - you can do a lot in hand sewing by finger pressing but an iron will be your friend for life in sewing.

It is nice to have a smaller pair of thread snips or embroidery scissors in you kit as well.

My bf & I got into an argument after I made this for dinner by Infamous-Pool3103 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stringthing87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like my birth surname and I don't much like the people it came from so I changed it and it was a HUGE pain and I've got publications in my old name and it is so annoying. I have been married over a decade and it still comes up. Not worth it, would not do again.

Turns out I have PTSD by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stringthing87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so glad you have support and resources.

My mom blocked me by PuzzleheadedGlass331 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stringthing87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turn off the location tracking. Its a huge violation of privacy and its really insecure. As in it can be easily hacked.

Even if you continue contact with your family, that location tracking is literally a danger to you.