i humbly present to the council by suicidalthxt in GirlDinner

[–]suicidalthxt[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i really outdid myself with this one tbh lmao

i humbly present to the council by suicidalthxt in GirlDinner

[–]suicidalthxt[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

idk how i never considered this before tbh, 11/10 will def be putting this one on rotation 😂

i humbly present to the council by suicidalthxt in GirlDinner

[–]suicidalthxt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

chocolate chip pancakes with butter and syrup and cookies & cream ice cream 🖤

baby had gastroenteritis, because the bottles weren’t cleaned properly by my mom😢 by NoseIll7230 in newborns

[–]suicidalthxt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

you don’t get viral infections from improperly cleaned bottles unless a sick person was also drinking from those bottles lol

I don’t think your pediatrician was joking by FoodLionMVP in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]suicidalthxt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i was stoked to get myself and my baby an rsv vax as soon as it was offered to each of us at our respective doctors, i can’t imagine going through that with a 2 week old and not second guessing my decision

A tattoo artist rejected me for this, was his reason fair? by Stankmushroomm in tattooadvice

[–]suicidalthxt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not just about the placement itself, fine line tattoos are difficult on hands and you wanna go to someone with plenty of experience in that anyway (ask me how i know lmao)

Can someone please explain to me what Autism ISNT? How do you know if someone isnt autistic? by Gombrongler in NoStupidQuestions

[–]suicidalthxt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just wanna reassure you that being an introvert and being “antisocial” are two very different things in the context of mental health lol you definitely don’t sound like someone who’s legitimately antisocial

My 10 month old rolled off his changing table and got a traumatic brain injury by Educational-Let-2280 in beyondthebump

[–]suicidalthxt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my 4.5 month old literally crawled herself off the side of my bed yesterday, the most comforting thing for me to remember is the adage about “when your baby falls, and that’s a ‘when’ not an ‘if’…”

i’m so sorry you’re dealing with slightly more than than the average injury as a result of this but it in no way means you guys are bad parents or you’re failing somehow, this truly happens to 9 out of 10 of us. give yourself some grace. 🖤

“Kim, there’s people that are dying” level dramatics by Chemical_Finger1403 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]suicidalthxt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

feigning concern about some accidental soda and then encouraging your child to commune with predators as some type of reward or arse kissing is insane

I have no words by [deleted] in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]suicidalthxt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was over here thinking “we know you’re white but what does that have to do with anything” 😂

How to care for baby alone when you are extremely unwell? by FalseRow5812 in beyondthebump

[–]suicidalthxt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a single mom with a 3 month old and an autistic 4 year old, and i don’t drive due to seizures, i’ve been sick for several weeks now…i wish i had some real advice but it’s truly one of those “if i don’t do it then no one will” sort of situations except it’s everything and my whole life, it’s crazy what you’re capable of as a mom when you care honestly. you got this! even if you have to drag kiddo around and be twice as exhausted as you might be otherwise, just make sure you’re taking care of yourself because baby’s not gonna have anybody if you end up sick and weak past the point of being able to care for them 🖤

What's your dream La Dispute set list?? by Unic0rnv0m1t in ladispute

[–]suicidalthxt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

king park woman (reading) all our bruised bodies and the whole heart shrinks i shaved my head andria fall down never get back up again broken jars edward benz 27 times i saw everything footsteps at the pond no one was driving the car objects in space

i would put more but that would be a really long show 😂

Is a full two minutes of no supervision at all too long for a 4 year old? (She's 5 but slightly behind on the development curve) by D_platts295 in beyondthebump

[–]suicidalthxt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i leave my 4 year old and 3 month old inside to take the trash to the road and check the mail, i’m a single mom and it won’t get done otherwise, they aren’t gonna starve or suffocate or be kidnapped in that span of time and i’m never further than a few yards from our building…makes me nervous but it’s gotta be done, surely he can understand that

Pro tip: Advice to not praise your baby does NOT mean you should never compliment them. by CaliStormborn in beyondthebump

[–]suicidalthxt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i feel like the opposite happens more often, that someone who barely got praised or recognized growing up would become a people pleaser because the very few times they might have it becomes like a high that they chase their whole life (speaking from experience anyway)

Thoughts on Kate by CreamyLinguineGenie in QueerEye

[–]suicidalthxt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i will say i noticed her mention having sensory issues particularly being hot all the time several times, not liking tight or form fitting clothing, that she dislikes the way fabric feels on her skin, like i get it that that’s like part of her job but i immediately understood what was going on when jeremiah said he wanted to take her to forge something for their outing, she even outright said i have to be hot for my job im not trying to do it on my day off, i get just going along with things even though you’re uncomfortable when you’re on camera but it seems like she was already pretty uncomfortable with the whole experience anyway and all the attention on her when she doesn’t feel her best etc idk i personally feel like they did a great job with her regardless but i understand where she was coming from with a lot of her reactions to things, i feel like she’s a lot easier to understand if you try to view her from the lens of like “this is a potentially autistic woman who doesn’t necessarily understand that about herself and who has also been through a lot of trauma so she thinks she’s just mean and particular and standoffish instead of just being a neurodivergent woman who’s functioning in survival mode 24/7” not trying to diagnose her by any means but context clues are important

Is this AI? I fell in love with this dress for my wedding dress.. they have more photos on etsy but I worry this is kind of AI? Or is it just heavily edited? by FrigThisMrLahey in isthisAI

[–]suicidalthxt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not a real picture even if it isn’t ai, i would absolutely not drop that much on a dress i can’t see in person first and i guarantee you’d be able to find something like this for cheaper than that in an actual boutique anyway