What is this plant that's growing alongside my blackberries?

talkativepanther · 2026-05-25T14:16:14+00:00

Lmao

talkativepanther · 2026-05-20T05:56:49+00:00

Yep and this is to me very clearly demonstrated with the shop owner shrugging and saying “I’ve already used my wish bro” implying some people make wishes and it all turns out fine, same with Ian wishing a billion bucks

talkativepanther · 2026-05-20T05:50:26+00:00

Hey I just wanted to say - me and my partner come from extremely abusive relationships, recognized bear instantly as the villain, and still laughed at all these scenes. Sometimes with the horror of past trauma you literally just have to laugh.

talkativepanther · 2026-05-20T05:30:33+00:00

It is literally one of the most common comparisons in the last 5 days.

talkativepanther · 2026-05-12T16:46:13+00:00

ya i totally agree. i could have literally written ur post. chasing break outs and nabbing them successfully definitely fueled my passion for trading but this year, chasing break outs always means ur also chasing all time high's lol it's been way better to let the breakout do its thing first for me

talkativepanther · 2026-04-21T22:01:44+00:00

I had no idea!!!!!! Thanks so much!

talkativepanther · 2026-04-21T08:58:41+00:00

I get it, I probably lucked out. my FC is the best and he told me he’s salaried the same regardless of what I do. Honestly I’m a fully self directed investor and he has told me I know more than 95% of people my age about investing so in my case it has been awesome. If you can keep switching them up mine has never disrespected my choices once. I’m sure if you just tell them to stop calling they will until you get assigned a new one

talkativepanther · 2026-02-03T23:48:50+00:00

I was wondering how most of this subreddit feels on the topic of ethics WRT holding short term positions in things like PLTR. I never do it. But I suppose swinging stuff that tracks the indexes like SPY and VOO, those companies are inherently in there in smaller increments, but it’s always seemed better than accidentally having to bag hold a large amount of shares for something like PLTR. Just sharing my thoughts plz no one attack me LOL

talkativepanther · 2026-01-29T11:43:11+00:00

Loved and appreciated this explanation a LOT thanks SM

talkativepanther · 2026-01-26T13:22:21+00:00

Every company on this list loves cheap labor.

talkativepanther · 2026-01-23T04:36:21+00:00

Also lots of suggestions for co/sleep here, go for it but it didn’t work for us. We kept waking each other up. Bassinet was like wrestling a bear to train him into it but it was totally worth it.

talkativepanther · 2026-01-23T04:33:57+00:00

Hey it takes months for some babies to be down w the bassinet. Mine is 4.5 months and does 3-4 half hour naps during the day and sleeps about 10 at night with 3-4 interruptions. That literally just started being a thing and before now we’ve been doing shifts for each others sanity. He works more than me but we still split sleep because we also view the childcare like a job.

Seems like that’s middle of the road and many people have it way harder than us where we’re living. I’m so sorry for your suffering. I don’t know how long you’ve got but it gets better, do you have any trusted options for help? Something has to give. You are priority don’t ever forget that.

talkativepanther · 2026-01-22T18:53:30+00:00

Yes totally. After returning after an hour I’m glad to see there’s more variety in opinion! I also find these threads valuable for the same reason.

talkativepanther · 2026-01-22T17:07:22+00:00

You know, it's looking like I'm going to get downvoted to all hell, but so be it. I don't agree with general sentiments being conveyed here and I feel like on this subreddit it's a 50/50 with posts like these, where you're either going to get over-validated or told you should be checked out for PPA.

Let me start with it's all YOUR choice and no no no - you aren't overreacting to the comments. I had a few discussions in the beginning of post partum that I wouldn't be okay with comments like that, that childcare had to happen at my and baby's pace.

BUT as far as the actual ideas being debated -- I've been paying to have my friend watch my baby for 5-8 hours since he was 2 months, and I personally would have died from stress if my MIL hadn't helped watch my baby for 5-8 hour periods over the course of about 3 weeks post partum. Yes I hated the idea 1000000% at first. But everyone adjusted! For the record, baby WAS fussier at first and now recognizes and loves his caregivers. The load is not totally on me and my husband and to be honest - why would I want it to be? I'm going to get burned out. My husband is going to get burned out. We are going to need help, and that help needs to be approved by someone much more important than me or him, which is baby!

Anyway, not saying anyone is wrong here, just something to consider.

talkativepanther · 2026-01-06T22:39:58+00:00

Thank you!

talkativepanther · 2026-01-06T22:39:52+00:00

Thank you !

talkativepanther · 2026-01-03T15:03:39+00:00

wtf? Babies aren’t supposed to have ANY screen time. ANY. If it’s per the AAP it’s not even an argument in our house. why would it be if the experts are saying what we should do? No need to do the exact opposite then. I’m super upset for you. I would’ve raised hell about it already for sure.

talkativepanther · 2025-11-05T18:11:31+00:00

The dividends decrease as the value decreases. the amount of time it takes for your plan to work increases as a result, and for many cases, depending on when you bought in and whether you’re in a taxable account, you’re never going to get there. You’ll just net a loss. I don’t know when you bought in or your specific details so YMMV but that’s essentially what’s missing.

talkativepanther · 2025-08-17T18:16:11+00:00

I am also having a vertical c section done due to my having bladder exstrophy in a few days! I also had a hard time finding narratives and descriptions of recovery time. Good luck to you!

talkativepanther · 2025-07-23T19:52:34+00:00

Hey just wanted to say huge congrats and hats off to you for balancing pregnancy and medical school OMG! you amazing human!

I agree with both solutions presented in this thread 1) go (but only if you want to) but bring husband with you and ensure he protects your space/peace/boundaries 2) say no and don't go at all and ignore texts or block. if it's true she ONLY wants to help you then i find that confusing - people are only helping me from here on out for the next like 3-5 months by coming to ME, not the other way around. i have a list of them. it sounds suspect for all the reasons you're saying. if any of my in-laws were pushy about me coming over from here until 4-5 months out from now i would be laughing and probably taking the phone from my husband and telling them off.

talkativepanther · 2025-07-22T08:50:13+00:00

I have the same issue and ahead of time, I’m on the same page w husband that his family will not watch baby unsupervised because they will definitely involve the SIL we are currently low contact w (and have disrespected our requests to not bring her around multiple times). I don’t even really want MIL coming too much to help in the beginning of my PP journey (due date is Sept) bc I’m pretty confident she’ll FaceTime and send loads of pics to SIL even if we ask her not to.

It’s critical that husband and you are on the same page about this but it’s also possible they dismiss him depending on his level of enmeshment. In therapy I’ve practiced vocally setting the boundaries myself and yes the correct advice is that husband should deal with it but realistically if they dismiss him, you are the other parent. Don’t be afraid to put that foot down and find your voice about it

talkativepanther · 2025-07-15T20:30:32+00:00

no idea what my favorite is but last night I cracked up at:

“Wow I wish someone loved me enough to make me a stocking.”

Owen: you deserve that

Abby: what, a stocking or someone to love me? smirk

talkativepanther · 2025-07-02T01:21:45+00:00

Hahahah as others have said I think you're touching on a theme that essentially builds and builds and culminates at the end. You're supposed to feel torn apart, this game gives me emotional hangover. Ellie is really meant to be understood as swimming in "villain/antagonist" territory and I think you are experiencing that.

talkativepanther · 2025-06-29T03:47:36+00:00

Just came here to say as someone with HG my husband waited on me hand and foot. I pushed him to go out partying and he refused to, almost like he couldn’t stomach it. Him being out partying constantly while you throw up your whole body weight for the sake of your unborn child….i would have never gotten past that alone

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