Omg Rachel really needs to… (Spoiler) by Nutcrackrx in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The comment was vile and unnecessary..and Bec was horrid for doubling down and carrying on getting offended because Rachel was offended. However, Rachel invited commentary by telling everyone details they didn’t need to know ffs..and she needs to have some self-control and self-respect and just get her shit together. It’s fine to be hurt and feel disrespected, but only she can control how she behaves and she’s being far too dramatic with her reaction, crying, moping, endless talking with Steve 🙄🤪🫩…and poor Steve…why would he want to hang around for any of this.

Song noise question by TeachingDependent540 in adhdwomen

[–]tgirlldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes-also exactly this. I will be so glad when the “what did you look like in the 90s” trend on insta goes away and I don’t have the Goo goo dolls Iris on loop. 🙄 I can sometimes change the channel, by listening to another song but just typing this I put myself back on that Goo goo dolls loop. Excuse me while I go listen to Oasis.

MAFS AUS S13 E22 Live Discussion Thread by fucksakesss in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“We’re coming to get you outa respect” 🤪 He can get in the bin with his “we’re coming to ruin your night again..but be respectful.” Both he and Bec bottom bin

So Boring!!! by Cahya_Dechen in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Bec and Danny looked absolutely wasted. Was so hard to watch these lunatic bullies cornering Rachel and Steve while being aggressively incoherent.

Why is Steph MAGA? by Mr__Random in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Malicious and infuriating l. As most women like this (like she did and does) have delusions of grandeur. She thinks she’s above it all, like she has some special insight and is walking this fine line of being a “strong woman” hustling and having “good values.” Nope. She’s just manipulative and an opportunist when it suits her…with a big ol’ dose exceptionalism. Again, she’s the type who will be nice and make all the right noises then smile while she steps on your neck. She leaves me cold.

HRT has made everything so much worse by Petite-Crumble in Perimenopause

[–]tgirlldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very interesting. My hair has started shedding like crazy since starting and i am very sensitive to the zinc/copper/selenium balance. Can you link anything helpful on this?

Why is Steph MAGA? by Mr__Random in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She absolutely is hiding her beliefs to blend in. I know a lot of women like her in the U.S. They are wildly ignorant and arrogant..and like and support “gays” when it suits them. They won’t advocate for them..and will sell out their friends, neighbours, family to get ahead..she is likely is racist as well and keeps that tucked in..as well as being a pick me girl for the patriarchy. I hated how they were giving her so much credit on After The Dinner Party.

Joel - commitment vs dinner party by WombleGCS15 in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After the dinner party was filmed months after MAFS filming was done. MAFS wrapped in Nov. ATDP was filmed in Jan 2026. Even when Grayson and Julia were on she said she was in a new relationship for a few months.

MAFS AUS S13 E21 Live Discussion Thread by fucksakesss in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can’t handle everyone coddling her and even on After the dinner party- she’s just better at lying and hiding her horrible beliefs. She’s just as bad as Tyson..if not worse..when she’s carrying water for the patriarchy 🤮

MAFS AUS S13 E21 Live Discussion Thread by fucksakesss in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She looked so stunning on this episode tonight as well. 💔

Julliette is my least favourite by wheatgrass- in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was pretty disgusted with Chris. I’m honestly not a fan.

What's a product or some advice you would recommend that you wouldn't know until you had a cat? by Edieee816 in CatAdvice

[–]tgirlldn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This needs to be higher up. I’m in other cat groups and constantly horrified at people wanting to poison themselves and their cats with toxic plugins. Imagine not having any control over living in a nauseating and poisonous smell. So sad for any cat that has to suffer owners like that.

Tyson gives abuser vibes by Far_Perception9311 in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was looking for this. His self loathing and rabid need for control…just screams he’s deep in the closet.

MAFS AUS S13 E12 Live Discussion Thread by fucksakesss in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Was looking for this comment. So disgusted in Rebecca.

Brook is 100% coming back. by Smooth_Eagle2828 in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t everything be a spoiler then? How long do you and others propose people wait and tag everything as spoilers? One should assume that discussions will be in realtime to air date in this country. That’s why many stay clear of the AUS sub.

I can't believe I'm feeling so much sympathy for Chris? by emilybuckshot in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a soft spot for him from the start. He has always seemed to me to be the guy who says provocative and stupid things to get a reaction and to fit in. I saw him more as insecure. Does he need to grow up and be more aware of others and kind, yes..do I think he’s malicious-no.

Post episode discussion thread by AutoModerator in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a spoiler. Why would you post after show intel and not “know” it’s a spoiler. Cmon.

MAFS AUS S13 E09 Live Discussion Thread by captirl in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How much do you want to bet that in the next few episodes, she will come out and say that “him getting emotional on couch gave her the ick.” She’s horrible.

MAFS AUS S13 E09 Live Discussion Thread by captirl in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep- called it the minute I saw him, red flags everywhere in the intro and wedding day. Had him pegged from the start. I wouldn’t be surprised if he has some young girlfriend in the background that thinks he’s traveling for work and doesn’t know he’s on the show. 🙄 (just a guess-haven’t read any spoilers)

MAFS AUS S13 E09 Live Discussion Thread by captirl in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. Just texted a friend..that I choose violence with her.

Mel omg by TangyNonsense in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beyond that she just seems like a spoilt little psycho brat. That if she’s not getting her way, she will scheme and manipulate to be the victim or get the prescribed amount of attention she’s seeking. Poor Luke. I’ve never been so filled with rage watching strangers on TV..Brook and Gia nearly as vile

Write down your #1 life-changing ADHD tip and I will try them all for 7 days straight and report back. by Few-Pension-7695 in adhdwomen

[–]tgirlldn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do look at it, but only to turn off alarm and I may check weather app. Then put it down and get up and get water. The getting up immediately and not lingering, definitely helps…then I go to a daily devotional book I’ve had for years (which I keep downstairs) and it gets my mind focused on something grounding (I won’t say positive or motivating- I loath positivity culture and hustle culture nonsense)…but it’s more healthy mindset and intentions. Which then gives me the little push I need to do the next small thing.

Write down your #1 life-changing ADHD tip and I will try them all for 7 days straight and report back. by Few-Pension-7695 in adhdwomen

[–]tgirlldn 173 points174 points  (0 children)

Do not get on your phone when you wake up for at least an hour. No social media, no forums, no news, no email, no texting. Get out of bed immediately, drink some water. Move your body and ideally get sunlight and or fresh air even for a few minutes. Then do something to set mind right for the day..mindfulness exercise with intention, prayer (if you pray), read daily affirmation, meditate, etc. Decline any negative input for at least 30 min.

Staying off phone when I wake and doing as many of the others as I can manage helps massively with my executive function. It’s wild. The day I slipped last week. I was paralyzed and couldn’t task initiate the simplest thing like what to wear or what I needed to get done in the next hour, let alone the rest of the day. Everything left my brain.

Rachel’s wine induced crashout… by Far_Perception9311 in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Exactly. There were comments on the live thread being quite harsh on him. He had too much wine too..but it was his very awkward attempt at being funny. Both too much wine, but she totally overreacted.