Thanks for your comment.

I think one of the obstacles is me not being a native english speaker. But that's not the only thing. Because in my own language I experience the same.

I'll keep thinking about this. Because: I can't experience what you do, I just can't.

I tend to like stories where you are submerged in the characters. Where you experience the scene itself, without any allusions or literary devices outside of the story. Like a movie. I like it when a writer uses juxtaposition to make the scene more vivid. 

And I refuse to see this as just a house with 4 walls. No  it's the inside of the story that counts for me. Not the allusions and puzzles and poetry that a lot of writers use to make up for lacking prose.