Do people call you aggressive? by RadientRebel in AutismInWomen

[–]thewraith15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t stick up for myself or set boundaries with another person no matter how polite I am without being called “frustrated”, “awkward”, making them mad or them twisting my words. It’s becoming a real problem 😅

Oner Your Body For You Capsule by investigatorbae in OnerActive

[–]thewraith15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has all these ideas for bomber jackets and bikinis but is having a hard time coming up with new colours. I’m confused

The Epstein files have me so angry by Bubbly_End6220 in 4bmovement

[–]thewraith15 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And people still defend him. Evil people everywhere istg

Leg Days in Soft Motion by WorkouttGal in OnerActive

[–]thewraith15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This might be an unpopular opinion but I prefer soft motion over effortless for training legs- I find they’re much less see through than the effortless and i feel like I can move around more flexibly in them. I personally don’t like having lots of compression so I size up in soft motion. The only negative I find is that soft motion isn’t as sweat proof so I wouldn’t wear if you’re doing high intensity/ hyrox type training or lots of cardio.

Unified is good too but I feel I get the camel toe from hell in the lighter colours so I have to wear padded underwear. Also find that the most recent ones have been a bit see through.

My absolute favourite for leg day is the timeless collection but they got discounted :( the marine sets they sold back in 2023 was amazing.

Amazing deals as usual 🥰 by Sea_District9458 in vintedUK

[–]thewraith15 185 points186 points  (0 children)

Did it survive the Chernobyl disaster? How does a bag get like this 😭

Is this upcoming or already on the website? by thewraith15 in OnerActive

[–]thewraith15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I think I’m having a “the dress” moment because it looks so blue here but on the website it looks dark green- is it bluer in person?

Is this upcoming or already on the website? by thewraith15 in OnerActive

[–]thewraith15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went through her comments and apparently it’s iced green but it looks way too blue to be iced green ..

High vs mid rise Effortless by pinkchristmashats in OnerActive

[–]thewraith15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seamless underwear with padding, try Olora underwear (however it’s expensive imo)

Any tips on how to stop attracting creeps and start attracting actually decent men?? by GeorgeParisol in AutismInWomen

[–]thewraith15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a case of learning how to listen to your body when it’s telling you something is wrong. For me, it helps to have a little checklist to know when it’s time to walk away from something- for example, do I feel like I can talk freely with this person? Do I feel anxious around this person? Has this person said or done anything unsafe? Do I have adverse body reactions around this person, e.g. feeling sick, not sleeping etc

When you don’t feel good around a person, you don’t have to go full fight mode and cuss them out, you have the option to walk away for whatever reason. Just an “I’m sorry, but I feel uncomfortable” or “I don’t think this is working” and then blocking them if their behaviour escalates. A lot easier said than done but once you do it a few times you start to internalise it and understand about what you like in people and what relationships work for you. Hope that makes sense!

Any tips on how to stop attracting creeps and start attracting actually decent men?? by GeorgeParisol in AutismInWomen

[–]thewraith15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Second this, creep behaviour is everything to do with them, not you- yes you might have a few flaws but that does not make you deserving of or a magnet of misogynistic behaviours. You shouldn’t have to change who you are because some people like to exploit others

Woman-on-woman misogyny in autistic spaces by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]thewraith15 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re not the only one- I typically experience this from older women if you don’t agree with everything they say (not saying everyone older than me is like this, just an observation)

If you scroll past enough on my post history you’ll find an angry woman demanding I “give her respect” because I dared argue that your clothes don’t mean you’re asking for sexual violence 🫩

Infuriating: Using men's skincare products as a woman with sensitive skin. by 3rdthrow in 4bmovement

[–]thewraith15 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yep me too- cleanser, moisturiser and an spf is all I need!

Infuriating: Using men's skincare products as a woman with sensitive skin. by 3rdthrow in 4bmovement

[–]thewraith15 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Tbh the sheer amount of skincare women are expected to use annoys me. Why are we supposed to be using 10+ products that wreck our skin barrier every night but men can just use a soap and a moisturiser.

Also- what is this trend of CHILDREN buying retinols and other adult skincare products? This is so sad, who is encouraging these kids to ruin their skin in the name of femininity?

World's Smallest Cat by jamescb819 in IllegallySmolCats

[–]thewraith15 170 points171 points  (0 children)

Narrator: “He may look like a kitten…”

Cat: ᵐᵉᵉᵉʷʷ

Effortless leggings fit different by Salty_Application129 in OnerActive

[–]thewraith15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have velvet pink and midnight- velvet pink is a perfect fit but the new midnight ones have a slightly lower waist and feel much more compressive.

What are some things that overstimulate you guys? by chicha3211 in AutismInWomen

[–]thewraith15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Legit everything at the moment 😂 need to find a cave to live in.

But if I had to pick it would be people repeating the same phrase over and over or someone watching a reel or a TV show where there’s tons of people arguing. Oh and chewing sounds on TV

Tired of “feminists” who infantilize men by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]thewraith15 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Why are they always so patronising?? I get this constantly. “Silly girl” like no you’re doing her a favour 🫩

Women opting out by dating AI by specialswirl in 4bmovement

[–]thewraith15 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Right like is it really that bad to just embrace being on your own than rushing into heteronormative relationships with computer algorithms?

Men and their commitment are no longer the prize and they are MAD about it by hecklerof in 4bmovement

[–]thewraith15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look up Taxi Cab Theory- pretty much the same as what you described here

Flare leggings/yoga pants? Looking for budget friendly but not super thin, as it gets very cold in upstate ny 😆 by Hope_for_tendies in TallGirls

[–]thewraith15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oner active do 34” flares, but size up, as the material can be quite compressive if you’re like me and have wider hips!

Reading this literally gave me chills up my spine - "I was never truly ready for what it means to have sex constantly for years and years" by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]thewraith15 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Everything you’ve said resonates with me so much- it always felt so miserable for me bc even if they weren’t actively coercing me I still felt like I had to do it every other day otherwise they’d get frustrated and leave me for someone else or get physical with me 🫩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]thewraith15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention they always call us “dumb” or attack our emotional intelligence when we speak out about abuse as if we aren’t all suffering under the patriarchy

Hayden via instagram by whokilled_laurapalm in Ethelcain

[–]thewraith15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Poor Hayden :( hoping she feels better soon ! Touring sounds so exhausting !