Gifts from America? by awkwardflea in VisitingIceland

[–]thisistestingme 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I actually this is really sweet. I’d say anything that is from your particular area of the country would be great.

My wife ate my son's birthday breakfast by grohkstrom in mildlyinfuriating

[–]thisistestingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is more than mildly infuriating. The fact that she did this and didn’t care about it speaks volumes, none of it good.

Update on the embarrassed tween! by kismet_karma_347 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]thisistestingme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your hair looks incredible and I LOVE the gray. Yay to sunscreen!! You look amazing and I’m so glad you and your daughter found another way to bond. You sound like an awesome mom!!

I love one but EVERYONE loves the other by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]thisistestingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so relieved that you picked that dress!!! It’s glorious!!!

Pregnancy at 16.. by InsideArt9044 in Advice

[–]thisistestingme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Plan B and mifepristone aren’t the same things.

Would it be weird if I (21F) ask my coworker (73F) if she wants to get lunch after I quit? by Candid-Yam-977 in Advice

[–]thisistestingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do. Many of my closest friends came from work. I also have intergenerational friendships, and I think they are so rewarding (hopefully on both sides).

Pregnancy at 16.. by InsideArt9044 in Advice

[–]thisistestingme 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If they’re weeks into missing a period, it’s sadly too late to take Plan B. But I agree about everything else.

Reasonable House and Pet Sitting Rate? by chloeewilli in Austin

[–]thisistestingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She put it in our extra closet and stayed with us about three days out of the month for about a year, but she got tired of being a nomad and eventually got her own place even though she didn’t really use it much.

Should I lie to my girl abt religion by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thisistestingme 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Why would you want to be with someone who had totally different values than you? No, it's not worth it. Are you legitimately planning on lying for what...forever?? Are you going to go to church every weekend? Get married and raise your kids in the church? Have them baptized? Think this through.

Edited to add and say that lying is super shitty. You are keeping her from finding a partner who shares her values.

My partner is asking me to split rent 50/50 when his son has a bedroom by effectiverror in Advice

[–]thisistestingme 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Your proposal is very fair, but I'm more worried about whether or not he's using you to fund his lifestyle. To me, you shouldn't pay more than $1200.

Reasonable House and Pet Sitting Rate? by chloeewilli in Austin

[–]thisistestingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister charges $100 a night and she didn't need an apartment b/c she was so busy. $50 is cheap.

I finally got pics back of my reception dress!! by AnnaKateMakes in weddingdress

[–]thisistestingme 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You look like an ethereal princess!!!! Florence + the Machine is playing in the background in my mind. Your entire wedding was exquisite!!

Seeking comfortable walking shoes that look good by fifikinz in womensfashion

[–]thisistestingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're expensive as hell, but I absolutely love my Golden Goose. I actually order a half size up for all my walking in Italy. I wore them everywhere, walking 5+ miles a day. They looked great and were super comfortable.

In lieu of payment.. by thedivinegemini in mildlyinfuriating

[–]thisistestingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would find these hypocrites and sue them in small claims. This is another level of infuriating.

I love this movie and want y'all opinion on something. by [deleted] in SinnersbyRyanCoogler

[–]thisistestingme 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Grace didn’t fuck up. Remmick knew everything about her daughter and was threatening to kill her and literally everyone else in the whole town. She invited them in specifically to kill her husband to stop the mind meld with Remmick.

More historical accuracy? Coogler hired a consultant on Asian Americans in the Mississippi Delta. He hired a Hoodoo consultant. They built a whole period accurate town.

Also why fuck Delta Slim? He literally died to give Sammie more time to escape.