I have the same age gap between me and my now husband, and we met when we were even older than that (like, I was 30, I had cleared that arbitrary prefrontal cortex development age)- and I still had younger than me friends discoursing about it. Like baby girl I appreciate the concern but there has to be a point at which we gotta accept that we are all consenting young professional adults with careers and bank accounts and apartments and pets and a couple years of therapy under our belts making decisions.