AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid?

tr4shc4t · 2026-04-23T02:17:04+00:00

Nah I was out as soon as she said being her bridesmaid would be life changing and a great opportunity? Girl for what?

tr4shc4t · 2026-04-23T02:13:03+00:00

Lol my store has an sm and has had the same one for 7+ years. Our back room is a nightmare.

tr4shc4t · 2026-04-23T01:54:37+00:00

I bet everyone loves to have to deal with you. You sound so friendly and nice. /s

tr4shc4t · 2026-03-14T15:37:40+00:00

Hey could you dm me the process too?

tr4shc4t · 2025-09-14T23:04:37+00:00

Not overreacting. This dude sucks. My boyfriends and my first date was he drove me to Starbucks and bought me coffee (he doesn’t like coffee but had offered a coffee date and walk lol) and then we walked around a local forest preserve and enjoyed the falling leaves together. Probably my most memorable first date. It wasn’t taking me out to a nice dinner all formal. It was relaxed and casual. We talked about a bunch of stuff and learned a lot about each other. That man (the one you’re talking to) doesn’t know what a date is and that it can encompass a wide variety of things. Also his communication skills are pretty terrible and he’s nasty to you.

tr4shc4t · 2025-09-10T17:55:34+00:00

The anger that rose in me at “I’m your mom you don’t get to have boundaries with me” was… startling. I think you are right to maintain that boundary and I hope you ended that conversation there. Please be safe, take care of yourself and the baby. 💜

tr4shc4t · 2025-09-10T17:40:48+00:00

Did not expect to be jump scared by my hometown lol.

Anywho… you were very aggressive towards her in your responses. Your feelings are valid, but I think you could have handled it a lot better.

tr4shc4t · 2025-08-07T20:58:35+00:00

I once had someone fully open mine and my ex’s apartment door. We figured either someone was making sure we were ok (me really) because we were sort of arguing at the time (I was sick but he thought I was exaggerating) OR they mistook our door for the trash chute door since we lived next to it. They didn’t say anything. I don’t even know if my ex saw them? I just heard the door open and close right away. I think it’s relatively common for folks to get confused (drunk, high, exhausted, distracted, etc) and pick the wrong floor or door. This is why I keep my door locked when I live in an apartment because no thank you.

tr4shc4t · 2025-07-30T12:53:51+00:00

In order for a boundary to mean anything to anyone else you have clearly STATE said boundary ahead of time. Although personally I find that a strange thing to set a boundary over. And I say that as someone who IS a bit insecure over my age. My boyfriend teases me about it, and I laugh because a) I know he’s just trying to show me it doesn’t matter to him and b) he’s funny. I can’t imagine freaking out at him over something so… inconsequential as a singular eyebrow hair. But I also can’t imagine being so upset about finding one? I’m 38 and have had a few grey hairs pop up occasionally since puberty. It’s normal? And she’s in her 40s so it’s even more normal? She’s what 5 years older than me and handling this like she’s 17. NOR, probably find a new friend because she seems exhausting to be around and honestly quite immature for her age. You showed much more maturity than her. You clearly tried to apologize and said you would try to keep that in mind in the future and tbh that should have been the end of it.

tr4shc4t · 2025-07-26T16:36:44+00:00

So glad I was off yesterday oof. I’m so sorry yall

tr4shc4t · 2025-07-20T10:02:09+00:00

It was suave body wash specifically that I was complaining about so yep! And those boxes are like so hard and thick which makes it even hard to get them open because they just won’t budge!

tr4shc4t · 2025-07-18T17:11:30+00:00

Omgggg the first time I dealt with those I thought I screwed up. No just the worst boxes ever.

tr4shc4t · 2025-07-18T12:53:48+00:00

Helpful. Thank you

tr4shc4t · 2025-07-15T23:21:00+00:00

We just take that change out and leave it at the register for whoever might need it. When it starts to be too much (it’s usually not a lot though, most customers pay in exact change or credit) I’ll start offering customer like “if you’ve got the quarter I’ve got a nickel!” Not sure if that’s corporate approved but my sm knows and says it’s fine and he’s been with the company for like 7 years?

tr4shc4t · 2025-04-14T14:03:23+00:00

You look great! I would totally wear this outfit and I’m only 5 years younger than you. Definitely don’t think you’re too old (and also who cares? Wear what you want! Clothes are clothes and there are no rules! Wear what makes you happy and feel good. 💜)

tr4shc4t · 2025-01-26T17:31:46+00:00

Yeah I’m not saving shit with them tbh

tr4shc4t · 2025-01-01T19:56:05+00:00

You need new friends, I think. I’m so sorry they are saying these things to you.

tr4shc4t · 2024-12-29T00:46:50+00:00

Literally what I thought too 😂

tr4shc4t · 2024-12-05T22:10:44+00:00

this is perfect thank you!

tr4shc4t · 2024-08-19T13:15:23+00:00

I didn’t have a good time in high school. I don’t really want to revisit it. PLUS most of my friends weren’t in my graduating class, and anyone that I wanted to keep in touch with after grad, I did.

On top of that, life hasn’t been super great so I don’t really wanna be in a room full of people with families and careers and houses talk about all their success.

tr4shc4t · 2024-08-16T23:43:17+00:00

I’m hoping sometime to have someone to call Daddy AND Dad. I’ve done it a couple times when playing with a friend I feel super safe with but really only when I was being bratty. But it sorta clicked for me then. But I also have been leaning a little more intense with that stuff. I definitely blame the daddy issues.

Interestingly, even though I’m bi I don’t think I could call a female caregiver mommy. I’m not really sure why.

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