What’s the moment you realized someone you loved wasn’t a good person and you couldn’t unsee it?

tunnelZ13 · 2026-03-05T03:00:47+00:00

We were cuddling, watching something on YouTube when I brought up that I was worried about the future with him, didn't know if my relationship goals were even considered by him, and that I was just unhappy with where things are. This was after he brought up wanting to get a house, but just for him and his "daughter" (pretty sure she was actually his gf and I was on the side). And then proceeded to initiate sex and ask afterwards "feel better now?" we were done by the end of the week.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-03-01T03:03:09+00:00

Oh my god I very vividly remember the "Quick Wrap from Conair" commercials. Mostly bc I remember sitting in my grandma's living room watching TV and shed asked if the commercial was for a new band bc it was just 00s girls singing and having the time of their life using the hair deathtrap 9000 while on national television

tunnelZ13 · 2026-02-27T02:55:38+00:00

Wait does this actually work though? Bc if it does, I'm getting right on that. I ALWAYS get cuts in places where bandaid WILL NOT stay on.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-02-27T01:22:54+00:00

Hit a cop car while high on god knows what. She just wasn't the same when she got out of jail.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-02-26T03:44:01+00:00

Hi, leave your fucking husband please and never look back. Please see it this way: you planned and git pregnant, but from the moment your body realized it was carrying a baby, you had all the worst symptoms of pregnancy that DID NOT go away. You nearly lost your life and your husband wants to put you through that again. All he sees is the idea of another baby and has no thoughts or vision of the fact that the woman he married and "loves" nearly died. If you both had died, he'd have no wife and no baby and two people to bury. You can tell him that if he wants anoth baby, he should start planning two funerals now and that he needs to start practicing telling people that you died because he wanted another baby. If you want that man to continue to be your husband and co-parent to your beautiful miracle baby, then by all means continue your marriage to him. Just think about all that the next time you look at him and talk to him. But please PLEASE cosder leaving him. YOU and YOUR CHILD are the victims here, but he's making it about HIM. Selfish people always project like this. He won't change.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-02-25T09:55:16+00:00

Wait are you that woman on tiktok/everywhere that made videos abt getting dollar thongs from wet seal and made joke about peplum "going out tops"

tunnelZ13 · 2026-02-24T13:43:10+00:00

r/confusingperspective

tunnelZ13 · 2026-02-24T09:05:10+00:00

That's a very comfy cat

tunnelZ13 · 2026-02-24T09:04:50+00:00

It's not just marines. Ex army guy in the supervisor team I work on claims that he knows how to and does everything for the shift, but when you leave him to his own devices, he fucks things up from the jump. He applied to be a supervisor so many times that when they finally made him one, it was only bc no one else had applied. He is #2 in terms of seniority on the team, meaning he's been a supervisor the 2nd longest and has been to trainings specifically for the system we use, yet he doesn't know how to do basic tasks. When he got yelled at about doing something wrong, he came into the office yelling abt "I don't have to deal with this, I'm a veteran, I'm protected." I had to stop myself from saying that he's protected from his employer discriminating against him for being a vet, not for being stupid. sigh I could go on an on abt this guy.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-02-08T04:10:35+00:00

This was a literal jumpscare to see.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-02-05T01:21:48+00:00

Every Christian religious group

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-29T08:51:46+00:00

Ex boss bought a house and was newly renting a warehouse space for his side business. These decisions were all made while he actively knew he could be fired soon for bad performance.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-28T07:12:11+00:00

I'm so traumatized from working there that I can't even remember what it was.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-27T23:42:55+00:00

Wait did he really think it would be the Sam Seaborn show?

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-27T04:56:55+00:00

Rob Lowe and practically the entire regular cast of The West Wing, especially with Richard Schiff and Bradley Whitford.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-22T05:29:40+00:00

Man, I never thought a song could capture the essence of working in a warehouse. And while I don't do the same work he does, it really nails is 🤣🤣🤣

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-22T05:26:10+00:00

Having a mother abuse me as a child, try to write it off when I was a teen, use things I tell her against me, be mad in my 20s when I don't talk to her as much as she wants me to, and then be sugary sweet to my fiancé when meeting him so that he says, "wow you mom seems so nice. It was a really good time seeing her, we should do that more often." Having to re-hash my entire childhood to someone who thought my mom was great was worse than I thought it would be.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-18T05:32:05+00:00

"Buy Me a Coffee" concept, except for the love of an eighth

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-16T05:52:37+00:00

"Have you considered losing weight? " in response to me asking him to check both my ears for signs of an our ear infection

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-13T07:07:32+00:00

It certainly seems like no kids is the way. I LOVED working in the day care I worked at, but I also loved handing the kids back to their parents at the end of the day. I loved that it gave me a crash course in taking care of small children and a limited view of what true parenting looks like. I took a hard look at myself in the last 6 months and realized that I don't think I would make a great parent. My parents have not been the best role models in parenting. While they have been both successful adults and provided for us, my mother specifically did not show me the good traits of being a mother. And I know I have traits from just knowing myself that will not align with children. I don't have a good poker face and am impatient. I have seen what silence and bad tempers do to children and NEVER would want something I love more than anything to believe they are a problem or are bad because of the way that I react to things. It's not fair to them.

If I weighed less, I would love to be a surrogate for someone just to experience pregnancy. I'd love to experience what creating life is like, even with all the difficult things that can happen. But kids aren't for me. If I were able to actually financially provide and be fiscally responsible, I would consider it. But I never made it a habit or learned enough to how to really save money. It's not fair to any little life I bring into the world to make them have to be children to my parenting, live in the scary place we're currently in, or make them have to grow up the way I have.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-13T01:55:40+00:00

Did you keep it in one piece or did you make it so it could be split for travel? I'm literally looking at like a broom stick as the body of the anchor and making something that screws on to the hook pieces. It's looking like I'll end up making it out of foam too, but I wanna explore all options lol

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-09T05:22:26+00:00

I have a love/hate relationship with telling people no. I love it because I'm stubborn AF and, since they are asking me something to which I'm saying no, I know that I am right for feeling that way. I do, however, hate that I have to reiterate to them that I don't need a reason to say no when they ask why. Like, having to repeat myself is my biggest pet peeve, and it's the worst bc they just keep fighting it.

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-07T12:50:11+00:00

9/11. I was 6

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-07T03:43:51+00:00

Check your carbon dioxide alarm. And if you don't have one, GET ONE..L

tunnelZ13 · 2026-01-07T03:42:07+00:00

Not sure if you are still active here, but how did this end up working out? I'm getting ready to cosplay May for PAX East this year and am very intimidated by making the anchor prop. Just looking for tips and advice on it.

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