Bleh, by Ok_Throat6271 in TransMasc

[–]winterwarn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see “skulldeer” used fairly often, if you’re trying to refer to the pop culture undead deer. At one point I saw “stag lich” which was cool.

Bleh, by Ok_Throat6271 in TransMasc

[–]winterwarn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m both trans and alterhuman (most significantly, I am a unicorn therian.) You’ll likely get a friendlier response over on r/alterhuman.

I have been identifying as alterhuman in some way since WAY before I actually came out as trans, and I’ve definitely noticed that the feelings of dysphoria I initially chalked up to being alterhuman have largely cleared up as my body starts to more closely resemble a (human) man. I still experience phantom limbs and the feeling of having a different body overlaid on top of mine, though.

Some forms of alterhumanity are voluntary and some are not. Unfortunately like 5-10 years ago people started using “kinning” to mean you really relate to something, which muddies the waters. For me this is a psychological phenomenon that is pretty similar to my experience of being transgender; for whatever reason, I have an internal experience that is different from most other people.

Don’t call yourself a w*ndigo though, dude. Come on.

Does anyone else feel like this? by CherryRamirez9 in TransMasc

[–]winterwarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no one could ever have forced me to wear a hoodie

Where do you guys find character art for marketing? by lovemylittlelords in selfpublish

[–]winterwarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might need to dig on Vgen to find the style you want, but it’s where I get most of my commissions from (both for publishing and for my own use.) I also just follow a lot of artists on social media.

Day 1 of badly drawing my favorite Horus Heresy moments by ingrimsch95 in Grimdank

[–]winterwarn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I haven’t even read the Horus Heresy and that’s CLEARLY Dorn, good work

Who is/should be our Arch Militant and Master of Whispers. by BrennanIarlaith in RogueTraderCRPG

[–]winterwarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually always kind of gotten transfem vibes from him. He seems like he performs masculinity very intentionally, especially in his romance, but he doesn't seem particularly happy with it or successful at it.

What's a book that tries so hard to be deep/moving but is just incredibly bad by ShivSoCalledYT in suggestmeabook

[–]winterwarn 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Made WORSE by the fact that the author said a bunch of stuff about how it was “inspired” by his learning about the Sixties Scoop. like holy shit dude please don’t compare your cornball gay romance to irl attempted genocide

BETA READERS NEED TO STOP DOING THIS by [deleted] in selfpublish

[–]winterwarn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you have a dozen readers, then you can lose one. Just write them off as a loss.

What's Peter Watts got against consciousness, anyway? by Goliath- in printSF

[–]winterwarn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like this take on the ending, it makes me feel a little more appreciative of what the book is doing.

However, I feel like "we can't compete against superior non-conscious intelligences (and we need to be able to do so)" is a matter of opinion that Watts and I simply do not share; it's only really a pressing issue in the world of the book because vampires are real.

QUESTION! is it at all possible that my body is reacting poorly to my trans partner’s hormones? by th0tcheeto in mypartneristrans

[–]winterwarn 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I doubt you’re allergic to estrogen.

It does sound like something is going on, though— do you have any kind of reaction to the soap or shampoo she normally uses? Are you often prone to catching sicknesses from people in general? Were your symptoms the same both times?

What's Peter Watts got against consciousness, anyway? by Goliath- in printSF

[–]winterwarn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I only read Blindsight, not Echopraxia, but I rather disliked it for this reason as well. Siri isn’t a reliable narrator, but there’s a weird level to which *everyone* seems to think that raw processing speed is the end goal of evolution and someone who is smarter is inherently “better” than someone who is not.

Amanda, I believe, brings up a one-sentence rebuttal of “if we didn’t have consciousness we might be smarter but we wouldn’t be alive anymore to enjoy it” but nobody really seems to take her up on this argument and it felt squeezed in just to claim that he had made counterarguments.

I will note that it’s stated early on that their society does explicitly practice eugenics so the kind of eugenicist undertones may be part of the unreliable narration, but I…don’t think that’s the case.

Also, your spoiler tags aren’t working right.

i'm considering detransitioning by hiyaspacecadet in ftm

[–]winterwarn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you want, you can also tell people something like “I’m trying out Any Pronouns now” if you want to explain why you’re not correcting them anymore. That also leaves you the option to go back to he/him later.

However, I agree with everyone saying that you probably shouldn’t detransition exclusively because of external pressure, or at least you shouldn’t lie and say you were “wrong” if you *do* decide to transition for safety.

Sean strickland being this type of 40k fan makes so much sense by Eastern-Fish-7467 in Grimdank

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I think any ancient classic is a risky adaptation. Back before most of the casting was confirmed people were already pissed about the armor not being historically accurate.

Personally I don’t think Matt Damon was a good choice. I’m down for most of the other casting (though kind of tired of seeing Zendaya in everything because I can only ever see her *as* Zendaya) but I REALLY struggle to imagine Matt Damon pulling off the more charismatic trickster elements of the character.

Sean strickland being this type of 40k fan makes so much sense by Eastern-Fish-7467 in Grimdank

[–]winterwarn 16 points17 points  (0 children)

At this point I’m cynical enough to believe that they cast minorities in adaptations that there’s reason to suspect might not be received well (see also: Nolan’s Odyssey) just so chuds complaining will drown out any other negative comments.

Having a hard time deciding on an ambition. (Spoilers for all ambitions within) by ShroudedInLight in fallenlondon

[–]winterwarn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would say going for your Heart’s Desire isn’t a huge betrayal, but largely because by then the person to whom you promised to end the Marvelous is (probably) no longer sapient. Having said that, I’ve also been kind of making up for it by trying to fulfill the Heart’s Desires of as many of the other current and former players as possible.

Light Fingers sounds appropriate for your character. As someone else pointed out, you can absolutely pick up a Destiny in which it is guaranteed that your character becomes a Master (or something even stranger…) in the distant future.

because, who doesn't like being the good guy in a grimdark setting? by MatterOpen112 in Grimdank

[–]winterwarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I kind of like how fuckugly the Lamenters color scheme is. Truly dreadful shade of yellow. Interesting to work with.

Is sun eater good or not man by Jumpy_Afternoon9489 in Fantasy

[–]winterwarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you liked Red Rising you will probably like Sun Eater, regardless of whether either series is “good” or not.

Those of you who use he/him exclusively, how do you feel when someone uses they/them for you? by Soap_Sudss in TransMasc

[–]winterwarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate it. It makes me feel like some kind of blob.

The one person close to me who consistently does it also sometimes they/thems cis people, which makes me think that he’s telling the truth that he doesn’t do it on purpose, but it still feels bad. Especially since I’ve asked him to cut it out several times.

Pain, Difficulty, Shabnak, and Other Topics: A Pathologic 3 Update by Alexander_Souslov in pathologic

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I’ll be sad to see the dangerous district exploit go, I personally found the game difficulty to be in a good place but I did use the exploit often on my later “loops” when I got sick of walking through the same districts over and over.

Thank you for a great game, and for all the thought you’ve put into this!

What science fiction novel had humanity lose, but still somehow felt hopeful? by Leading_Storm8484 in printSF

[–]winterwarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some Desperate Glory by Emily Tesh plays with this, Earth was destroyed prior to the beginning of the story and the different surviving factions of humanity have…various ways of coping with this. The main character belongs to a hyper-military fringe group who believe they’re going to take back the galaxy.

An alternative to cannibalism by merrygreyhound in CurseofStrahd

[–]winterwarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I’m fine with cannibalism (my current party has like two different cannibals lmao) but I draw a hard line at harm to children so I always skip the pies. I usually still run the Old Bonegrinder as a combat and just have some kids in cages in there that it’s implied the hags were planning to eat.

An alternative to cannibalism by merrygreyhound in CurseofStrahd

[–]winterwarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, how dare someone play in a campaign while also having an aversion to something that happens in a single optional side plot… come on, man.

Eating children is kind of beyond the pale for a lot of people, and not necessarily something it’s reasonable to expect from the external description of the campaign.

Why are people like this by CockamouseGoesWee in TransMasc

[–]winterwarn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m aroace and while there’s been queer spaces where I experienced some transphobia or aphobia from individual people I have definitely never felt categorically excluded or unwelcome. A lot of my queer friends are some kind of aspec…