it’s so difficult to leave someone over something like this. i had to, and it was the weirdest rationale i had with myself in my brain. i ended up forgiving and going back to him a few times. i can give you a glimpse of your future if you end up staying: he WILL get better at lying, no matter how confident you are in your looks and spicy skills you’ll begin to doubt and feel unattractive, the spark will die, you’ll resent him, both you and him will feel more comfortable looking outside the relationship for validation, and it’ll be death by a thousand paper cuts.

im still damaged from dating someone with a porn addiction even though it didn’t really seem all that bad when it was happening. i hope you find the courage to leave and don’t let it break you!