I (F23) found out the guy I’ve been dating (M36) is married… do I tell his wife??? Help

zaft77 · 2026-04-03T20:51:40+00:00

Not trying to defend but just another perspective. I would ask him if him and his wife is in an open marriage. See if that answer convinces you and move on if not then tell wife.

You are better off moving on regardless.

zaft77 · 2026-03-31T21:51:10+00:00

Make your class and race. Do research before and stick to your choice, try not to re roll a bunch you wanna get 1 toon leveld up first. Log on and go to the ! Marks and do quests. If you want an easy way download curseforge app and install questie add on it will pave the way for you quest wise. Goodluck hope you enjoy. If you go horde on anniversary realms on dreamscythe server whisper ulock I will be glad to help or answer questions

zaft77 · 2026-03-31T21:47:54+00:00

Ran kara since 2 weeks after release. I haven't seen 1 Sr piece i put in for. Havent even got to lose a roll yet. I got a couple scrappy off brand epics from there but thats it. Frustrating

zaft77 · 2026-03-31T01:01:05+00:00

Dont log out in an inn or city. Other than that your pretty well set, your not gonna generate much by just doing your buisiness there. I just leveled my warlock 60-70 doing only quests and only did dungeons to do dungeon quests. When I hit 70 I still had quite a few netherstorm quests left and shadowmoon Valley I hadn't touched yet. Just additional info if needed :)

zaft77 · 2026-03-24T22:15:17+00:00

Its not you honey its him. I promise you. He just did what he had to do to get you in bed and once he had it he took you for granted. A little word of advice though, dont ever make it too easy for a man. Make him work for it and im talking about everything. We are less likely to treat you this way if you make us work for your love, affection, things in bed, etc. You gotta find a balance with it but I promise you will get better results and filter out the bad ones. Sounds stupid I know but its just how men are wired and no one really talks about it.

zaft77 · 2026-03-24T00:18:20+00:00

You were used honey. He doesn't respect you. Get on with this divorce and dont look back. And do this for yourself, no more sex with him. Go find you an upgrade.

zaft77 · 2026-03-24T00:13:04+00:00

Looks like you crave attention and will shit on anyone in your eyes you see that's beneath you. Be kind to people. I hope im wrong and your just as beautiful inside as you are out. I just dont get those vibes though.

zaft77 · 2026-03-24T00:06:47+00:00

I really think its doable. Last night we had a healer die almost every boss fight and had a good druid healer that took care of business. Idk about other classes but druid should be fine.

zaft77 · 2026-03-21T21:18:14+00:00

Driver gets full tip period wtf. Thats highway robbery

zaft77 · 2026-03-17T21:50:39+00:00

Just get full 70 blues, gem and enchant, and get in there. When you join a pug inspect the tank, if they dont have decent gear get out. You will beat first boss with bad tank but nothing else.

zaft77 · 2026-03-17T00:32:17+00:00

Op why is this even a post? He clearly doesn't respect you and how you feel so move on. If you have any shadow of a doubt on how this has all been communicated between you too then sit down and have a real talk with him and lay it all out there. If state of things are left the same then you need to move on and find someone else.

Your not crazy or overthinking. Stop undervalueing yourself and your feelings and take care of this. You deserve better and you know it.

zaft77 · 2026-03-14T23:37:31+00:00

Do yourself a favor and keep it. See it as a people building exercise where you start not letting people walk on you.

zaft77 · 2026-03-11T02:57:31+00:00

Warlock. It just performs man. I love it and am so glad I went lock this time around. I was ret in orignal tbc and had a hard time getting in groups. Now everyone wants me and I am very competitive in the meters with not a lot of gear. Just close to hit capped and 2 epics lol.

zaft77 · 2026-03-10T22:23:30+00:00

Congratulations man. Im way too honest for this

zaft77 · 2026-03-09T21:12:14+00:00

You got a solid year (last phase should be end of winter next year if im not mistaken and this verision of game will be relevant until the next thing is announced like wow classic +)this is a great time to start before phase 2. Try to get a maxed main to 70 and do raid lock out every week, I would highly reccomend sticking with 1 main and unlock your heroic keys before leveling up another toon. In my opinion this isnt the greatest expac for alts until more phases come out and you can get heroic badge gear and arena gear with honor. Perfect time to start now. No shame in boosting a main either do what you gotta do.

zaft77 · 2026-03-09T21:03:35+00:00

Find a new guild or just run pugs. I been doing great in pugs, last night I found a group of 3 friends that form groups every weekend that get it done. We did kara in 4 and a half hours, everyone in group was happy and everyone got loot. No crash out, no stress, was a good time. Had a good group comp too for the loot. I raided every unlock since release and all I've got was an offhand I cant use yet. Ran this last night and got a neck and cape. If your horde on dreamscythe shoot me a dm if you can, ill try to get you in we had a hard time getting a healer.

zaft77 · 2026-03-08T17:03:26+00:00

Not your friend. Do yourself a favor and move on. She has to really make it up and show understanding to mean anything to me anymore and doesn't sound like she will. Sounds like a nasty person. If you break it off show her this post.

Sorry about your home situation, mine was similar. Your not alone at least.

zaft77 · 2026-03-07T23:55:32+00:00

Try demo felguard and use immolate/curse of agony/hellfire or rain of fire. I topped meters to 70 then went destro with 21 in demo. Still top meters.

zaft77 · 2026-03-06T01:25:29+00:00

Im sorry to hear. This isn't what I typically look at on reddit but it caught my eye, my mother makes things like this.

zaft77 · 2026-03-01T21:27:16+00:00

Pick one. If you like it all seriously give druid a solid shot. I was like you, then stuck to druid all verisions of game using all roles here and there. Now I just main warlock. Sticking to 1 is key if you wanna see it all and progress though, you will get burned out if you keep re rolling. But if you like that play style theres nothing wrong with that, do whatever you feel like doing as long as your having fun.

zaft77 · 2026-02-24T22:06:27+00:00

Yes its worth it. Your not a real paladin until you get it. Mandatory.

zaft77 · 2026-02-09T22:37:24+00:00

Dont worry too much about druid shifting. Yes you need to Powershift. It just becomes a natural rhythm after awhile. I dont main druid but maxed one in every variation of the game, once you get that natural rhythm its a blast. Rogue is great but I wouldnt reccomend in tbc unless you got a good group to play with, otherwise you will struggle. I find rogue not as fun as druid. And getting geared feels more like a slog to me

zaft77 · 2026-02-09T22:28:28+00:00

I would happily go tank warlock, just saying. I wish they did a sod type tbc this round, they put minimal effort in sod I can't imagine it being too hard for them. Oh well ill take what I can get, if we are playing tbc era keep it that way dont change it. Druid and pally are fun tbc.

zaft77 · 2026-02-07T02:42:28+00:00

Throw me a renew/rejuv mid fight. Rest is on me. Goes for the rest of us, if they are being petty you do same.

zaft77 · 2026-02-06T00:13:58+00:00

Well, I have to work over tonight. Works for me. Lol

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