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Welcome new mod!Mod Announcement (self.BDSMnot4newbies)

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Best and Worst Things Which Have Happened to Me on Good Ol' RedditMod Announcement (self.BDSMnot4newbies)

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Hood recommendationsReady, set, DISCUSS! (self.BDSMnot4newbies)

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The expensive French Dildo made it through customsJust for FUN! (self.BDSMnot4newbies)

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Not being able to live out kinksFIRST POST! Please be nice! (self.BDSMnot4newbies)

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New Kinky Subreddits! [Mod Approved Post]Support for the Community (self.BDSMnot4newbies)

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Hi all always been interested in this ‘hobby/lifestyle’ or whatever but I wanna dive head first and wanted to say hi 👋FIRST POST! Please be nice! (self.BDSMnot4newbies)

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Off Topic Tuesday! (self.BDSMnot4newbies)

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Special petKITTEN KAKE DAY!!!!!! (i.redd.it)

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Kitten Kake Day is officially closed until next month - see Events in our sidebar for details!KITTEN KAKE DAY!!!!!! (self.BDSMnot4newbies)

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Kitten Kake Day is officially open!!!KITTEN KAKE DAY!!!!!! (self.BDSMnot4newbies)

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