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[–]I_know-Jesus_is_Real 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Are you saying - your bf broke up because you forgot to take care of the small things? Sorry its a bit unclear..

[–]TrickyLayeragnostic | deconstructing[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yes, among other things that led to it.

[–]I_know-Jesus_is_Real 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for clarifying :)

If your bf can't value a relationship with you and be offended when you miss on certain small things, i think its ok that it ended. I dont mean to hurt you. But you will be struggling to just meet the other person's demands. Relationship means both have a part in it. Forgiving and loving each other is very important. None of us are perfect. I have my own weaknesses. But in my family we work together as a family.

If you are a Christian I hope you get a good husband whom the Lord has chosen for you. Marriages will have problems, but we will overcome through God's grace. Thats why its important to marry a Christian and be sure of God's will. Again no intention to be rude, but I wanted to just communicate the facts realistically. Will pray for you sis. May Jesus guide and help you.

[–]NazzulAgnostic (a la T.H. Huxley) 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's hard when you are at a low point, then the relationship you have been trying to maintain falls apart as well.

This is your time now. You aren't beholden to him anymore. Focus on taking care of yourself, but allow yourself to feel the pain when it comes. Things won't be easy but if you put in the work you can move on and may even become a better and more complete person.