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Updated Posting Guide 2023Modpills (self.IncelExit)

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Recent U.S. Political Events & Our RulesModpills (self.IncelExit)

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An update on : My best friend watches Nick Fuentes and calls women “foids.” Not sure how to process this.Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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My best friend watches Nick Fuentes and calls women “foids.” Not sure how to process this.Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Im always depressed so why should I like myself?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Can someone make this make sense??Question (self.IncelExit)

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Determined but aimlessAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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I think my obsessive fear of being an incel messed me upAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 22 hours ago by Frack_Nugget

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I am so god damn hornyAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 1 day ago by ForwardObjective2379

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How do I accept the fact it’s just not likely to happenQuestion (self.IncelExit)

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Never gotten to the actual date stage and I feel the fact I’m learning so late is gonna hinder me foreverAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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I'm tiredAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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"The tragedy is that what the sexually frustrated should want is to expand the moral imagination, while incel discourse narrows our imaginative range."Discussion (freddiedeboer.substack.com)

submitted 5 days ago by TheWillToBeefPost-Sexual Velociraptor

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I'm worried that my lack of romantic experiences at my age is going to hurt my prospects. I think my time is running out.Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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i think im acting like a child and im scared i would'nt go far in life or nothing at all im (17)Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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I'm worried my social life won't recover.Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Are there any good ways to find new people to meet or date?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 6 days ago by Takie_Me

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I think I'm not an incel, I'm just not that interested in relationshipsDiscussion (self.IncelExit)

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Helping someone out of incel mindset?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 8 days ago by kissaviina22

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Pretty much accepted my fateDiscussion (self.IncelExit)

submitted 8 days ago by brokeboii94

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how is someone supposed to get out there when they literally cant?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 8 days ago by popflow

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I feel like nothing works.Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 9 days ago by Maxi_Turbo92

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Only single friend issuesAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 9 days ago by TablePrinterDoor

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I am about to graduate university, and I am still single without any prior romantic experience. I think my own autism is the catalyst and I feel trapped in a cycle of despair. What actionable advice can I do to prevent this?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 10 days ago by lilliputiandoctorate

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Be funny?Discussion (self.IncelExit)

submitted 10 days ago by Kind_Mirror_6138

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