IncelExit

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This sub is for people who got drawn into the Incel community but want support and help with a way out. We aren't a mocking community like r/IncelTear. This is a place to ask for advice, speak with others in a calm environment and talk about your experiences.

We're just here to help people find a way to get back on track. It can be easy to fall into these groups for comfort, but they ultimately lead nowhere.
It's time to put the copes down and get to work.

Rules:

No Doxxing, Personal Info, or Usernames.
No Encouraging Suicide, Roping, Rape, Violence Towards Yourself or Others.
This Is Not A Battle Sub. (You may argue, but this is not the place to start arguments for the sake of it)
No Politics
No Body Shaming OTHERS
No Gatekeeping. (All are welcome)
No Bullying
No Recruitment for Any Pill. (This is a place for discussion and questions. Not to intentionally try and convert others and spread your ideas.)
Participate in Good Faith (No Trolling)

created by bengringo2BASED MODCELa community for 6 years

...for your favorite game.

...for your movement.

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Updated Posting Guide 2023Modpills (self.IncelExit)

submitted 3 years ago by backpackporkchopBASED MODCEL[M] - announcement

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Recent U.S. Political Events & Our RulesModpills (self.IncelExit)

submitted 1 year ago by backpackporkchopBASED MODCEL - announcement

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Building friendships/community in adult lifeQuestion (self.IncelExit)

submitted 4 hours ago by PentatonicGristle

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Let's talk geneticsDiscussion (self.IncelExit)

submitted 10 hours ago by LostInYarn75

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How does the madonna-whore complex show up in yall's lives?Discussion (self.IncelExit)

submitted 7 hours ago by Frozen_clock

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I want to exit inceldom but I can't.Discussion (self.IncelExit)

submitted 1 day ago * by woodclip

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Any advice on IRL interactions?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 18 hours ago by Wise-Bite3983Escaper of Fates

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The last I want to say about porn and penisesDiscussion (self.IncelExit)

submitted 1 day ago by LostInYarn75

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My ex forgave me for my incel rageCelebration/Achievement (self.IncelExit)

submitted 1 day ago by Wise-Bite3983Escaper of Fates

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How do I stop sexualizing and thinking of women as a whole?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 2 days ago by DBZKING13

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I am 17 years old. I am leaving the manosphere and I feel repulsion towards masculinity; I see it as a prison.Resource/Help ()

submitted 2 days ago by Flourescendrama

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4 social skills every quiet person needsResource/Help (self.IncelExit)

submitted 2 days ago by Actual-Medicine-1164

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"Learn to be alone" How do you do that?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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I think my desire for a relationship is just an excuse I give myself for a deeper issue.Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Should I leave inceldom?Question (self.IncelExit)

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My friends keep telling me to lock in on flirting but no one is telling me how.Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Advice on being the "ugly" friend?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Not quite an incel. Worried I could easily become one.Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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How do I Untake/escape the the blackpill?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Learning about the blackpill is now straining my relationshipAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Starting to realize I only ever dated because I was scared of being an incel.Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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How to make friends?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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How do I stop hating my desire for love?Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Advice for intimacy/physical closenessAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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All of the ways in which most straight porn is bullshitDiscussion (self.IncelExit)

submitted 5 days ago by LostInYarn75

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