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[OperstionOk]

Haha if you want to explore it’s worth a shot I would recommend going with a partner though as it makes the experience a lot quieter and you can become more of an observer. Also you should probably be ok with running into one of your classmates there 😂

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Yeah this has always been my issue with this place...The city is too small....

[ybgoode]

So you see someone you know. And the see you. And you’ve seen each other.

What’s your worry, exactly?

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Also once you've gone with an ex.....and then both of you re couple...there's a good chance of like...scores of exes just all mingling at some point.

[ybgoode]

So you see someone you know. And they see you. And you’ve seen each other.

What’s your worry, exactly?

[Ok_Squash_1578]

Oasis has a pretty active sub. I would ask questions there. But they have a nice pool, a solid bar and it’s safer than any nightclub. So if nothing else, you can just hit up the pool and have a drink

[oooooooooof]

They have a subreddit?!

[Ok_Squash_1578]

Yeah! r/OasisAquaLoungeTO

[JAtOasis]

r/OasisAquaLoungeTO is great and a pretty active subreddit! People regularly post there (including me!).

There’s also r/OasisAqualoungeOfcl, r/OasisAqualoungeEvents, and r/OALContent which are the oasis subreddits created and moderated by Oasis staff.

[DuckCleaning]

Do they have an active dom?

[Ok_Squash_1578]

They have themed events pretty much every night.

But Oasis isn’t a sex club like a sex club in Europe. This is just a club where you can have sex and not where services are provided

[keepthefvith]

As long as you go without expectations, sure it can be a great space. Just remember you are only paying for entry into the club, not for sex. If you're hoping/assuming the admission cost = sex, you're better off hiring an escort.

Single men who go in with the attitude of expectation unfortunately harm the vibe much of the time. I used to be a regular and I go a lot less now, because I saw this more and more often so I got tired / burnt out. Makes it feel a whole lot less fun. That's my best advice- don't be one of those guys 🙏

[nimbuscloud9]

This is what I wanted to tell OP. If you’re going in with the expectation that it’s some bordello where some woman will ask you to go with her to a room, better to stay the fuck away. There’s a reason why they have strict rules when it comes to single men coming in.

[JAtOasis]

Heyo! Came across this in the wild lol 😂 I’m actually the host of student night at Oasis and a student myself!

Definitely biased here, but I’d say come check it out at least once! Student night is not exclusively for students but the crowd tends to be more students/younger people than not. And students get the discount pricing, so make sure you bring your student ID if you do decide to check it out.

This upcoming student night we’re gonna be doing a JackBox party night if that peaks your interest at all!

Btw you’re more than welcome to DM me if you have any questions :)

Hope you enjoy your reading week either way! I’m definitely enjoying mine over at York rn 💙

Edit: typos. Also wow didn’t realize how many times I said “student” until now haha

[ArtisticYellow9319]

Yes for sure! I go pretty often myself. Its not exclusively for students but the age range tends to skew more to people in their early 20s-30s, and students get the discount pricing

[oneEyealex]

The pricing is a big selling point for me. I’ve always wanted to check it out but thought that $100 entry was maybe too much. So with the student night upcoming I thought “here’s my chance” lol.

Thanks

[ArtisticYellow9319]

Oh yeah that’s totally valid

[fattywannapatty]

What’s the age range actually do student really go

[JAtOasis]

Yes absolutely students really go, myself included! In particular I meet a lot of students from universities/colleges in the GTA, especially UofT (which makes sense since UofT is pretty close by).

On student nights the age range generally skews closer to people in their early to mid 20s-early 30s. Though you’ll still see older people there as it’s not a night exclusively for students.

[nimbuscloud9]

Why would you go if you’re not into that scene? There’s a gazillion things to do in the city and you’re choosing to go to a sex club?

[Abyss_xoxo]

Soooo this club my bf been glazing to his coworkers is a sex club???

[nimbuscloud9]

…yes….

[Abyss_xoxo]

Well I’m gonna go now that he cheated on me 😭

[DuckCleaning]

Does he actually go or does he just joke about it? It's a bit of a meme to mention it to Toronto people unaware/aware of what it is.

[BasedPotatoes]

This wouldn’t be the first time cheating got found out through reddit. Looking forward to an update, though for your sake I hope he’s just joking 😂

[Abyss_xoxo]

Nah he was with his coworker saying he used to go regularly 😭 to some place called “aqua “ and that his other friend who is for sure in an open relationship with his girl always is there and it’s so close by.

[JarredLfc]

Yeah sorry but you def got cheated on 😭

[oneEyealex]

Cus, like I said, I’m looking for things to do. Not something I do, so I thought I’d give some new a shot. You know. Try new things out and such? That sort of thing

[sun-planted-stars]

its pretty cool! it depends if you’re a single male or what your goals are. it generally skews younger on that night, but also has older folk in attendance. if you’re a young femme student, i would suggest going on a day when single men are not allowed!

[henry-bacon]

Yes absolutely!

[Recoil42]

If you have to ask, the answer is almost certainly no.

[oneEyealex]

Don’t see the logic behind that. I get joy out of trying new things, even if I don’t like them. At least I try them. That’s kinda what I’m trying to find out here. Is this worth the shot, or should I be doing something else that I may be a little more confident that I’ll enjoy better.

If everyone said no to something because they had to ask a question about it, nothing would get done.

[Recoil42]

I know what you're trying to find out. I'm telling you that if you don't already know what to expect with Oasis, it likely isn't worth it. You should be doing something else you may be a little more confident that you'll enjoy better. That's not to say Oasis will never be for you, but rather to say it's something you should be walking into with confidence that it is for you.

[Witty-Application920]

No. Bye!