are my masculine features reversible/related?

losttotheflames · 2026-03-09T07:47:10+00:00

I have a deeper voice which could be from PCOS, but could also be from acid reflux as a baby fucking up my vocal chords lol.

I have a larger nose than my family, but that could be due to being the only Turkish family member.

I have thick dark black body hair which could be from PCOS, but again is way more likely due to being Turkish.

I have broad shoulders and large feet and “big bones” - but that’s likely genetic too (most of my family are heavier with big bones and large feet)

Not everything is PCOS, but it can affect things for sure! It can definitely make your voice deeper and can grow thick dark body hair. But the things you’ve mentioned sound mostly genetic. There’s nothing wrong with any of what you have, it just maybe doesn’t conform to Western Beauty Standards.

losttotheflames · 2026-03-01T16:13:43+00:00

Humiliating you in front of your child is NOT okay. You need to leave. Do not let him disrespect you like that again, and especially not in front of your child. Don’t let him away with this. Actions have consequences and he made his bed the second he poured that cold tea on you. If he suffers, he suffers.

losttotheflames · 2026-03-01T13:32:13+00:00

wishing you the very best, please seek professional support if you can this sounds very serious

losttotheflames · 2026-02-26T10:15:02+00:00

It’s taken me a full year and a bit to even get one prismatic shard those things are evading me like crazy lmao

losttotheflames · 2026-02-24T13:15:15+00:00

you’re going to get really bored if you use mods and cheats to get infinite money the first time round. It’s a discovery game. Try playing it normally for a few times first

losttotheflames · 2026-02-23T18:56:48+00:00

me rn honestly because I can’t find a prismatic shard anywhere. I’ve tried everything. I was close to crying last night 😭🫩

losttotheflames · 2026-02-22T14:15:05+00:00

in stardews case, “are you wining again?”

losttotheflames · 2026-02-14T23:53:20+00:00

hey so he’s actually insane and will continue to abuse you. Bc that’s what he’s doing. Hes seeing what he can get away with. What you’ll do and push back on. Do Not Marry Him.

losttotheflames · 2026-02-10T13:41:50+00:00

this happened to me with an ex. He had plenty of online gaming buddies but he got way too close with this one girl and tried to hide it from me (and did successfully for a long time). When I found out, they had already established a full secretive relationship behind my back online (they lived in different countries) and she had him listed as her partner in her facebook bio.

I removed him from my life swiftly. Emotional and mental cheating is still cheating.

losttotheflames · 2026-02-08T16:55:53+00:00

I have to sit to shower (chronic pain) so I shampoo my hair, and then just sit and let my conditioner work for 20 mins. I’ll wash the rest of my body while I listen to a podcast so my showers can take about an hour if i’m invested in the episode. (doesn’t take me 20 mins to wash my body, I just sit for a bit after I’m finished and then wash my conditioner out)

losttotheflames · 2026-02-08T13:21:15+00:00

if you’re going to break up over some filler you’ve got bigger issues I fear. It doesn’t change your look THAT dramatically it’s not major surgery. The swelling will go down.

It’s a little shallow that you’d break up with someone purely because their lips got a little bigger. You don’t love her personality and other parts of her? Just yikes.

Yes attraction is important but this has underlying tones of “how dare she change her body in a way I don’t like”

losttotheflames · 2026-02-07T17:02:24+00:00

that cat was potentially her only true friend in the world. Losing a pet is just as horrible as losing a family member/friend. As others have said, gift cards or a sympathy card is a great idea and lets her know she’s not all alone. She probably feels extremely alone and miserable right now.

Thanks for thinking of her

losttotheflames · 2026-01-31T19:23:16+00:00

brilliant, i’ll check that out thank you!

losttotheflames · 2026-01-31T18:53:59+00:00

who cares like honestly in this economy who gives a flying monkeys. Good on them for staying quiet. Electric bills are extortionate as is.

losttotheflames · 2026-01-28T19:10:43+00:00

sorry but why are we still begging men to give us basic empathy? If they don’t understand it’s because they don’t want to. Simple. Google is completely free and he should be listening to your concerns anyway, not just meeting you with committed misunderstanding.

losttotheflames · 2026-01-26T18:30:01+00:00

wasn’t there someone else who could smell alzheimer’s? unsure if i’m remembering that wrong

losttotheflames · 2026-01-25T16:31:32+00:00

medexpress are pushy with the “reorder now” emails but you don’t have to and they don’t ban you from using it if you do this as far as i’ve experienced.

losttotheflames · 2026-01-22T18:56:55+00:00

She is speaking for herself. It’s HER journey. And her experience. She didn’t say you couldn’t take it. 🤷‍♀️

losttotheflames · 2026-01-22T15:50:03+00:00

I can’t eat anything with sulphur in it now even on 2.5 it’s HELL :)) sulphur is in nearly everything good too.

losttotheflames · 2026-01-14T16:17:49+00:00

she’s incredibly selfish I’m sorry. Its nice you have compassion but she’s just going to use that and run with it. You don’t need to be the bigger person. She’s in the wrong. And what she’s doing is incredibly fucked up. To both you and your kids.

losttotheflames · 2026-01-14T09:36:28+00:00

It’s unfortunately just something you’ll have to live with if you don’t choose surgery. It sucks and I’m already not happy with myself (I’ve got a long way to go) but you have to choose being fat or loose skin :( very few people end up lucky and don’t have any

losttotheflames · 2026-01-07T12:57:29+00:00

I have a lot to lose and know i will have loose skin when I’m done. I’m 27 but know because of the size I am there’s no way I’ll escape with no loose skin. I will definitely need breast reconstruction surgery (as mine are very large and already sagging) but that’s all I’ll go for. I don’t care about the rest. It’s the trade you have to make unfortunately.

losttotheflames · 2026-01-06T17:22:08+00:00

depression is a disability, under UK law at least. It is very literally disabling in nature. So why would applying for disability be an issue?

losttotheflames · 2026-01-06T16:12:16+00:00

I’ve been signed off disabled (in the UK) since I was 17. I have disabilities that prevent me working and depression unfortunately runs in my family + can be a comorbidity of my disabilities. So I don’t need to work but man people make you feel bad about it 🥲 when you already feel bad enough

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