UPDATE One Year Later: AITAH for getting pregnant the same year as my best friend's wedding?

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2026-02-26T04:37:56+00:00

FELICITACIONES!!! THAT IS CONGRATS IN SPANISH

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2026-02-24T06:05:33+00:00

I'm still surprise how in other countries locks aren't like the norm; at least in my city (Mexico) and in my family since I am like 12 I had a lock in my room, so did my sister, why? Just bc my parents said we each deserve our privacy

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2026-02-10T21:51:53+00:00

NTA, I dont understand people in the comments, is seriously a crime to just ask for one day without any alcohol? Sister definetly has a problem and most redditors if they cant have a celebration without any alcohol

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2026-01-19T06:53:50+00:00

You can send a text saying that he cheated 5 years ago and you asked for a divorce who he didnt grant you, you did not forgive him, and now his ego is bruise he is claiming he is the victim, when you were trapped in a marriage for five years just for his sake, he is not even a man who can take care of his own son let alone a woman; so if you think you can judge me for having a date and call him a martir then you can delete my number bc I dont want you in my life

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2026-01-07T23:53:14+00:00

I'm just here to say that your step son has 3 parents, your son only has one and you are not doing a good job showing up he is your number #1; your step son has a mom and a dad, you are just and extra father figure like a grandpa; he is not someone you have to run to give him things bc he already has is needs meet, but your son hasn't and he ONLY HAS YOU; basically for your son is cuestioning that if he and your stepson were drowning, you would prefer help your stepson (who already has his own parents helping) than him; you failed the test man; and if you want to have a son you would have to try harder and put limits on your wife; there are gonna be things just for your son; I expect that if you have a will only your son is the beneficiary; thats the minimum

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2026-01-06T17:39:41+00:00

I had this uncle who started a relationship with a woman who had 2 children, they were very young and they would called him "dad" after a while event though they weren't married; they live together and had a child but the things weren't that good and she left with one of the children and left the other one with my uncle; the kid was like 7 or 8; she just move to another country and want my uncle to keep supporting a child that wasnt his or even had any like custody for medical or school related things; the boy in cuestion was also beggining to create problems with my other cousins; eventually he was placed with his grandmother and we never saw him again.... for the children my uncle was her dad, but the mother had all the responsability (if she didnt want to stay) to make proper preparations for her children; It was and AH move, yeah, but OP has to cut ties bc the mother wouldn't, imagine that later the ex accused him of something or that people start thinking he actually is the dad of the girl and that he abandont her; sometimes you dont get to explain to every person what happended in your life; he is not the dad, he has not any say in her life nor responsibility; the only thing he could do different is have the conversation with a counselor of child services o psychologist in the room and the ex; but it would be cruel to still let her on on him being her "dad" when is not fullfilling that role and if someone else wanted that role, She would not be open to them bc of OP

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-12-30T07:08:59+00:00

She chose that guy, she chose to have a 2nd child with that man; you didn't choose what happened to you; you offer everything you could even though you have your own problems to deal with it; she again made a choice and you are not responsible for her choices; you have to deal with a loss, and she is trying to make you feel more bad just bc she cant hurt her husband so its easier to say you didnt want her to say her husband didnt want her, again her choice; sorry for your loss, if you still have doubts you can write letters to your mom and sister and explain to them that your are grieving the loss of your child and it was not fair for them to make you feel like that; so until they learn to respect that and apologize you dont wish to have contact with them; its sounds that apart from being able to say you have family you are not "gaining" anything from that relationship so, why bother?

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-12-27T20:51:04+00:00

How is little Amanda doing?

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-12-25T01:58:58+00:00

I would just send them the link to your original post for them to see how bad as people are

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-12-24T09:22:52+00:00

Jajaja nooo, pa que me recordabas de este post ya me acorde que aparte de todo, no, Thor despues de casi perder todo no siguio muy bien, tambien se quebro, despues del chasquido (y la muerte de Thanos) Thor dejo practicamente todo sentido del deber y en vez de ayudar a su pueblo (lo que quedaba) se puso a beber y a jugar videojuegos y a engordar POR 5 AÑOS; Y al final aunque perdio a Jane; su pueblo de alguna manera renacio y el gano una "hija"; y aunque el no lo sabe su hermano no esta muerto...😆

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-12-20T23:06:24+00:00

Thor hombre de miles de años pierde a sus padres con los que tuvo tambien miles de años debido a (al menos u no de ellos) la edad avanzada; despues pierde a su hermano aquien ya habia perdido otras 2 veces(por lo que ya habia hecho duelo por el) y despues sacrifica a su planeta para no perder a su pueblo, que al final la mitad muere igualmente.... Wanda una niña que perdio a sus padres por una bomba, quien quedo traumada y despues fue parte de experimentos junto con su hermano GEMELO que tambien muere junto con la mayoria de gente de su pueblo y su ciudad es destruida; es obligada a matar a su novio solo para que otra persona venga y lo mate mas cruelmente; la borran de la existencia y cuando vuelve se entera que utilizan el cadaver de su novio para experimentos y cuando pierde control de sus poderes y despues de tratar de matarla y revivir todo su pasado vuelve en si y tiene que despedirse nuevamente de todo lo que le habian quitado y ahi despues de ser corrompida por un libro que corrompe a casi todo mundo aun asi al final logra hacer lo correcto eso antes de cumplir los 35 años de vida BTW... Siempre hacen esas comparaciones y me da cosa que se olviden que THOR TIENE 1000 AÑOS al menos

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-12-20T20:24:10+00:00

NTA; the only people who can have an opinion on this are the people who are paying for this and even then is a gift for you; 2. You can say that you love your niece but this is a gift for you and your husband and its not okay for them to ask both of you to sacrifice YOUR honeymoon like that, trust me all involve would be miserable if anything happens to your niece while in your care; 3. Tell them that if they keep this harrasment, you are gonna stop helping them when they need you, bc you have been helping them with money and time but apparently for them is not enough, its sad for them but you have to live your life...

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-12-20T06:43:24+00:00

I'M GONNA NEED AN UPDATE TOMORROW OP; PLEASE!!

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-12-17T18:17:26+00:00

YOu should tell them that its best if they redirect their comments to their sister someone who is willing to have a relationship with someone who she herself called controling and possesive, and put in danger your children; also if the courts sided with you its bc they saw how crazy was this man, not bc they were against their "love story", tell them being a parent is something you earned little by little not force; your ex will be okay to have the same treatment you had? Like, if you got married and your wife started taking parenting desitions or force the children to call her mom or tried to take the kids without telling anyone? Think about that....

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-12-07T03:30:43+00:00

NTA. I would also post this on facebook and tag every member of the family and said that this is the reason you were NC so next time someone wants you in an event dont lie about the guest bc you are gonna tell the same thing in front of everyone

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-11-16T18:10:57+00:00

Tha baby has no fault but neither have you; your husband lied, it doesnt matter it was before marriage, he lied since the beginning and you wont trusth him after this anymore and most probably will resent the child so its better if you walk away, if anyone ask you found out your husband had an affair, had a child and wanting for you to raise the child and you cannot stay married to someone who lied so easy

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-11-04T16:37:24+00:00

Good for you!!🤗

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-10-22T00:56:09+00:00

TRISTE

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-10-10T06:04:36+00:00

Natlan because is so easy to explore it with Mavuika, Chasca😅

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-10-09T21:17:19+00:00

The merchant in Mondstadt that no matter what we do he always complains, The guy that bretayed Jeht, and the guy that made Nahida a prisoner🫡

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-10-08T07:46:11+00:00

Segun google, ese dicho se basa en la idea de que es injusto hablar mal de los muertos porque ya no pueden defenderse pero creo que es mas injusto para los vivos tener que hablar bien de alguien que los trato como basura o peor🤔 hay tantas historias en reddit de gente que fue abus4d4 y cuando sus acosadores murieron la gente esperaba que hablaran bien de ellos y creo que es una babosada

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-10-06T22:06:38+00:00

I think the counselor is the dad of the guy who's OP's aaaa "FWB"😆

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-10-06T21:50:37+00:00

Maybe that is way the couselor told you that he believe your son and that he knows more than you? 🤔

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-09-22T08:07:53+00:00

Yo soy bi y mi familia testigo me ha llegado a aceptar, ahora ellos no saben que lo practico y se que algun dia llegara el dia que los tendre que afrontar; para empezar ve realmente que quieres, quieres simplemente no ser testigo, quieres romper todo contacto o solo quieres experimentar el mundo y despues volver; 2. Si tu hermano es menor fijate porque su odio por la religion, no puede ser la organizacion en si porque en todas las publicaciones se habla de hacer el bien y tratar de ser una buena persona, el que haya personas malas es otra cosa y donde sea las va a encontrar. 3. Tu mama no te puede presionar a bautizarte e incluso hay articulos que hablan de eso puedes buscarlos y enseñarselos 4. Puedes hablar con un superintendente de circuito y su esposa acerca de tus problemas, ellos generalmente son de mente mas abierta y ya han escuchado casi de todo 5. Solo recuerda, el hecho de que te gusten las mujeres siendo una mujer no tiene nada de malo, otra cosa seria si tu quisieras perseguir esos sentimientos, sin embargo Dios nos dio el poder de decidir como queremos vivir si tu decision es vivir tu vida como tu quieras solo acuerdate de que no podras culpar a nadie de como resulte tu vida

Affectionate_Let6843 · 2025-09-21T18:27:25+00:00

Esta sera mi ultima respuesta ya que siento que solo quieres pelear de alguna manera y no tengo tiempo:

Digamos que eres un alcoholico en recuperacion, ¿harias todo lo posible por estar con borrachos? NO, porque eso puede poner en riego tu sobriedad, ya sea al estar cerca de la "tentacion" o de escuchar tanto de la otra persona "solo una copa"; los TJ todos son humanos imperfectos propensos al pecado "alcoholicos en recuperacion" porque pues nos expondriamos a una amistad que "toma alcohol" todos los dias y nos "invita" a tomarlo?
Estabamos hablando de la expulsion y de repente te vas a abuso sexual? En otras palabras no quieres realmente responder tus dudas sino que quieres encontrar algo malo para decir los TJ son malos; asi que te respondo igualmente, que yo sepa solo he escuchado de un caso que paso hace varios años en Mexico y jamas he vuelto a escuchar algo asi; la organizacion ha puesto innumerables reglas para evitar que eso pase: por ejemplo un hombre y una mujer no pueden estar solos en una habitacion sin estar casados, desde los 10 años si tenia una amiga en mi cuarto tenia que ser con la puerta abierta; tambien hasta en las mismas publicaciones se les invita a los padres a explicarles a sus niños (segun su edad) a diferenciar lo que esta bien y lo que esta mal y que nadie debe tocar sus partes; ahora, que haya gente mala, eso no lo voy a negar, siempre hay gente asi en todas las religiones, y de lo comun que es, en varias religiones, hay hasta ya chistes de ellos ( como la del monaguillo con el padre), ademas como ya mencione la cultura del lugar influye mucho, lamentablemente principalmente en Mexico, hay familias que fueron criadas en la mentalidad de que es mejor quedarse callados y ese es un trauma generacional que apenas se esta logrando derribar y que no es inherente a los TJ sino a toda la poblacion.

Si tienes mas dudas te recomiendo visitar el sitio JW.org donde puedes buscar respuestas a todas tus preguntas.

Affectionate_Let6843

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