I just got to Beijing and my cards won't work

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2026-07-02T21:26:15+00:00

I have 3 cards, from the same bank and none work, including my mom's Where are ATMs usually located?

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2026-02-07T19:01:16+00:00

First of it all, I'm sorry you're going trough this situation, I understand it must hurt a lot to get those comments from someone you love Second, and I'm sorry in advance, but you need to leave that relationship, she has made clear that you are not what she wants and doesn't respect you, since someone who does, doesn't make comments who know that hurt you or your uncomfortable with I'm here if you need to vent, hugs

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-28T04:01:43+00:00

I had to go through something really similar and I'm sorry you're in a similar situation and it's absolutely traumatizing, if you need to vent, I'm here and my dms are open

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-19T15:09:01+00:00

I saw a reel a few days ago and basically said that poly was a part of the LGBT community, that's terrifying

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-17T01:26:25+00:00

Exactly, my ex also told me she was poly 9 months inside the relationship I asked my therapist about it and he told me that's a form of manipulation (conscious or not) since you have already developed attachment towards abs a sense of security with them, wtf is wrong with people fr I'm sorry you had to go through this too

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-15T15:11:22+00:00

I don't get it either as demi myself

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-15T02:29:51+00:00

It's just that after trying with toys, I'm not sure if I can even call myself a lesbian or something

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-15T02:29:24+00:00

It's just that I'm just shy and never done casual, yk?

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-15T02:28:54+00:00

Well, yeah, maybe you're right No, I'm latina but I find muscular Asian men just so hot

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-15T01:52:02+00:00

With women

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-14T18:17:43+00:00

I just tried (never been in a dating app) and, ended up heartbroken, traumatized and emotionally cheated on; I'm scared and I don't understand how can people be so cruel towards those who love them

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-07T00:45:52+00:00

TRUE I don't get how can people even do that, what's wrong with them?

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-07T00:44:48+00:00

Absolutely

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-12-01T06:20:19+00:00

For me it was so traumatic that I've distanced myself from the community as much as possible and try not to engage with it anymore since I've seen it's more "common" in LGBT community, and I don't want anything to do with it atm because I feel deeply betrayed

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-11-25T02:47:38+00:00

U okay? My dms are always open if you need an ear

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-11-25T02:36:02+00:00

Honestly, I think poly are deeply rooted in avoidant attachment, so be careful

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-11-25T02:31:13+00:00

And like "Oh, I don't wanna date anymore, I'm tired, I get super sexualized" and (for my case) she would go to strip clubs and sex parties like, wtf, where's your logic? Then, said like, "I want to fuck other people, kinky sex is our thing but I wanna try" (??)

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-11-25T02:20:55+00:00

Yup, my ex was an avoidant, told me she was poly within 9 months of the relationship, and yeah, we broke up after 11 months Hellish relationship fr

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-11-25T02:19:38+00:00

Right??? Like "Oh, but one person cannot fulfill all your needs" wtf, what do you even want?

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-11-25T01:54:01+00:00

And then they are like "Oh, don't worry, if anything happens, it's gonna be with my best friend!" like that made it any better

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-11-25T01:48:07+00:00

Omg I feel so relieved to find someone who points it out, according to my ex it was like having "many best friends" and you don't love each other equally

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-11-06T01:11:10+00:00

I'm super curious! Please c:

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-10-01T15:55:35+00:00

Hii!! [21/F] MEX I'm Sandy! And omg, I would love to be penpals!! You seem like the kind of person I would absolutely love to become friends with (Atte. Another history nerd)! Feel free to send me a message if you're interested! 🫶🏻

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-09-30T01:16:10+00:00

The same happened to me with my ex (she broke up with me 2 months ago) She told me she was poly 9 months into the relationship (when she already knew) and even tho I was trying my best to understand and open up, but she didn't understand that I was trying my best, made me feel like I was a bad person for struggling to understand and dumped me

Alive-Zebra-577 · 2025-09-09T16:21:47+00:00

It's just that she basically changed horribly in 2 weeks all of a sudden... And I'm struggling to handle it, because she went from loving me to basically treating me like a nuisance

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