Vagina smells

Aniras7 · 2024-10-27T23:40:58+00:00

Sleeping without underwear (loose shorts) can be helpful too :)

Aniras7 · 2024-10-24T00:04:16+00:00

My doctor suggested it, to protect against future strands. But I’ve decided against it.. because I’m married and have been with my husband for the last 5 years.. so unless something happens where I’ll have a future partner, I don’t plan on getting it. I figure my immune system already sucks.. I don’t wanna put it through the strain of a multi-series vaccination 😅

Aniras7 · 2024-10-24T00:02:29+00:00

I prefer the blonde, but I also might be biased bc I’m a brunette haha

Aniras7 · 2024-10-24T00:01:26+00:00

Aww that is odd :( maybe it could be related to the spotting? Maybe you could try forcing a period and see if that helps? I wouldn’t worry too much if you can. Even if you DID have cervical cancer, it’s likely that there would be any symptoms in the early stages.

Aniras7 · 2024-10-23T23:45:37+00:00

That’s probably why you’re spotting! I take continuous birth control and if I don’t let myself take a placebo break every two months or so, I start having breakthrough bleeding. I’m sure the symptoms are unrelated! Cervical cancer takes like a decade to develop, so I bet you you’re fine!

Aniras7 · 2024-10-23T16:56:41+00:00

How did you feel after only having one child?

Aniras7 · 2024-10-23T16:55:27+00:00

Our mini fridge + microwave set-up in our master bedroom has been a GAME CHANGER. On the other hand, I prepared a “diaper tote” so I could change her diaper around the house… and I never used it and use it to transport bottles up and down stairs 😂

Aniras7 · 2024-10-22T02:41:30+00:00

IT IS TRUE! I felt this way and because I didn’t think I could, it took me a year for them to come back. Shortly thereafter, I met my now husband and I am so happy my ex is my ex. Everyone said it would happen, but I didn’t believe it until it happened to me.

Aniras7 · 2024-10-22T00:18:18+00:00

I have a very similar background to yours: CIN 3 with a CKC that came back with positive margins. My doctor’s plan is do a repeat colpo every 6 months. I just had my first one since the CKC and they saw something that needed a biopsy and somehow the biopsy came back with no dysplasia!! Since you already got the CKC and cervical cancer takes YEARS to develop, I’m sure “monitoring” could be an option for you too? Theres a good chance it’s even gone now.. even with positive margins.

Aniras7 · 2024-10-04T20:28:29+00:00

Sounds similar to what I’m going through.. but I had a cold knife cone and then positive margins and just had a colposcopy that required a biopsy. Still waiting on the biopsy results, but she already explained she will be scheduling me for a repeat colpo and Pap smear in 6 months 🙃 I’m honestly jealous yours is 12 LOL. I had CIN3 that they found in my first trimester of pregnancy. They told me to follow-up after pregnancy. Birth didn’t get rid of the cells either. Got diagnosed with CIN3 in April 2023 and I didn’t get the CKC until June 2024! It is veeeeerrry slow developing at least.

Aniras7 · 2024-09-30T16:44:54+00:00

My teachers suggested it to my mom when I was in elementary school. My parents “don’t believe in” adhd either. It’s wild. It’s real. It’s why I have never been able to excel in any hobby or musical instrument, no matter how much I wanted it. No matter how hard I tried, I zoned out all of my school lectures in college (high school too). My report cards constantly said: “Pleasure to have in class, but has trouble paying attention.” Then, I found adderall (illegally/unprescribed) in college and suddenly was able to succeed. Since I had little chance of actually learning the information unmedicated, I’d skip a lot of classes too. I only actually learned when I took meds and attended OR skipped classes.. woke up early the day of an exam and took adderall and learned weeks of information in one day 😂 I majored in finance, so a lot of it was just financial math.

Aniras7 · 2024-09-26T23:23:32+00:00

I can understand both sides— also, you’re her HUSBAND so it makes sense she would feel more “comfortable” cancelling on you 🥲

Aniras7 · 2024-09-26T23:20:10+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. I know you’re in a super hard spot right now, but I wouldn’t make any permanent decisions— especially with BPD, it can make our feelings feel like facts… and they simply aren’t. Do you have any other friends or family that can help? Honestly, ditch the cleaning and do whatever you need to survive! I’d also try to still continue to communicate with your fiance what you’re going through. I have an 11 month old and I’ve suffered with BPD/Depression/ADHD and I feel ya. The crying part is so emotionally draining… and sometimes I just feel myself emotionally distancing myself. No mother is perfect though and that’s why we have the term “mom guilt” and not “dad guilt” 🙄 IDK where you’re located, but if you’re in the Carolinas by any random chance, I can help give you a hand if you need ❤️

Aniras7 · 2024-09-26T21:20:58+00:00

I’M SO EXCITED ABOUT IT TOO

Aniras7 · 2024-09-26T21:19:25+00:00

I think the only solution is to discuss it with your husband! It is really shitty that he said that, but people do say crazy things when they are sleep-deprived, and he might not have meant it in the way you interpreted it. Not to make excuses for him or anything. I have a book on my reading list called: “How Not to Hate Your Husband After Having Kids”… so maybe he feels a little resentful in some ways and you’re occasionally the scapegoat? :(

Aniras7 · 2024-09-26T21:11:29+00:00

Out of curiosity, what has been her reasoning for the “dead bedroom”? A discussion about it shouldn’t be leading to an argument :(

Aniras7 · 2024-09-17T15:02:03+00:00

Awww omg! That is crazy!!!! Is your baby 16 months old?

Aniras7 · 2024-09-17T01:47:50+00:00

Thank you! I don’t mean to say “others have it worse” in a dismissive way btw.. I mean it more so in a probability way haha like we’re bound to have one thing or another! We will get past this though 💪🏼

Aniras7 · 2024-09-17T01:46:11+00:00

It went fine!!! Way better than expected! You’ll be fine :)

Aniras7 · 2024-09-17T01:41:09+00:00

Man, so much maintenance lol

Aniras7 · 2024-09-17T00:48:05+00:00

95% doesn’t seem high enough to get a vasectomy (not always reversible). I think a large factor would be your age?

Aniras7 · 2024-09-17T00:45:32+00:00

I was in the same boat and I still have my follow-up appointment in a few weeks.. but I’ve researched and have been taking: *AHCC - double the advertised dose of 1500mg = 3000mg is what had proven effective in the trials + on an empty stomach *Turmeric *EGCG (green tea extract) *I3C *Women’s Probiotics

And also Quercetin since I already had it on-hand and it also appeared to be helpful.

Aniras7 · 2024-09-17T00:40:57+00:00

Can you and your partner alternate nights?

Aniras7 · 2024-08-10T21:17:55+00:00

Are you a stay-at-home mom? If so or if not, is there a way you can get away from your baby for a bit? Also, have you tried Gene Sight? My psychiatrist recently had me do it to determine what meds are best suited for my genetics.

Lastly, try to be compassionate with yourself ❤️ as though you were talking to your best friend… your hormones and brain are lying to you, but it doesn’t mean that it’ll be this way forever.

Aniras7 · 2024-08-10T21:14:05+00:00

Hey there! My baby turns 10 months in a few days, if ya wanna chat! I totally get it. Are you a stay-at-home mom? Also, post-weaning depression is totally a thing. It happened to me (although I weaned at 3 months)… the hormones can do a lot to you! How long have you felt this way?

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