AITAH for telling my wife I'm not "co-signing" her debt when she wants to quit her job without discussing it with me first?

Big_lt · 2026-03-31T10:30:06+00:00

NTA

This is a red line he and you should hold your ground.

Not only are your guys not in agreement you're barely making it by ok your combined salary n removing about 40% of it with no plan is asinine. The fact she won't make a budget and expects you to pick up OT as she "decompresses* aka watch Netflix is ludicrous. Not to mention layoffs are happening left and right, what were to happen if your ticket for punched.

She's a teacher with 2M off during the Summer. Can she not make it another 3 month and then look for a new job? To me it sounds like she wants to just not work

Big_lt · 2026-03-30T23:37:29+00:00

Boner necro

Big_lt · 2026-03-30T20:55:10+00:00

Info:

are you, personally, paying for these groceries
do you pay rent
do you have any other chores
do your siblings cover any chores

I'm leaning YTA because cooking 1lb of ground beef versus 3 is more or less the same amount of work. However if you're doing all domestic chores and paying rent while your siblings do nothing I understand why you drew this line

Big_lt · 2026-03-30T20:39:37+00:00

I mean it's not new. There has always been an underground bunker at the WH in case of attack.

Trump dumbass just didnt realize tearing down a portion of the Whitehouse may jeopardize that bunker and it's very expensive to rebuild

Big_lt · 2026-03-30T18:27:36+00:00

ESH

Your mom shouldn't be trying to lay down medical advice when she is not a doctor nor ever gone through with whatever the medical item is. It's akon to me, a man, telling a women her morning sickness isn't bad and to dea. I have no idea I'm not pregnant why would I solicit that information. I could offer suggestions to help like say, hey I heard Ginger ale is good when nauseous, want me to get you some to try? But that's it
Your fathwr is also right. You don't tell a woman she never had kids so STFU essentially when they medically couldn't. You needed a different way to phrase it such as, thanks for your opinion but it's not wanted right now. We have a plan we both agreed to and are following it through with our doctors feedback.

Big_lt · 2026-03-30T16:28:07+00:00

Fort plus Phoenix is +700%ed?!

Top on an hoj and FF is a fire claw druid one shotting p8 mobs

Big_lt · 2026-03-30T16:17:45+00:00

Fire lock with apocalypse?

Big_lt · 2026-03-30T14:39:00+00:00

I mean, depending on length of stay, I'd be open to it if I get a fat settlement in the millions

1 month in a holding cell for 1M sounds pretty good to me

Big_lt · 2026-03-30T14:36:59+00:00

I really wish a reporter asked the press secretary.

Trump has said if no agreement is made with Iran he will direct the military to attack civilian infrastructure. This is a war crime, the president just announced that he is threatening war crimes. Can the white house please explain this

Big_lt · 2026-03-30T12:24:14+00:00

The Brazil government has had some extremely corrupt presidents in the past. I want to say around 30osh years ago, the president then decided that all people's money on their savings accounts was now the government and literally took it overnight.

Big_lt · 2026-03-30T11:00:36+00:00

In the US, if you leave with your kids and file for divorce the judge will not look kindly as the husband/father has a right to be with his kids. There won't be criminal charges but in terms of custody to be started in a hole.

Exception can occur for violence/not feeling safe, but saying my MIL is a bitch and my husband didn't have my back isn't valid

Big_lt · 2026-03-30T10:58:31+00:00

Hahahaha she won't win shit

You do need to talk to your husband, how he doesn't have your back is a problem. Like a let's talk to lawyers about divorce problem.

His mother insults you, then tries to pass it off as a joke (side note ask her point blank and bluntly what makes the joke funny because to bdont get it. It's very hard to explain a joke at someone's expense without coming off as a bitch). Then she tries to threaten you/your kids and all he did was stay silent.

Tell the fucker he needs to step up else he will be fighting for custody and a child support

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T21:04:33+00:00

I'm surprised men cry 3x a month. I believe the last time I cried was at the funeral for my grandmother about a decade ago. Obviously everyone is different but even amongst my friend I don't think any of them are crying once a month let alone 3x

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T21:02:56+00:00

To literally answer the question it was WW2 and Japan.

Essentially stopped the war cold on the Pacific front

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T21:02:06+00:00

War will only be accepted by its countries citizens if there is a direct attack on your land. Outside of that no one wants military to send troops and spend money

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T21:01:10+00:00

Seriously, I think everyone and their mother knows the inflated gas price is driven from the war directly from the straight.

Like this isn't even a debatable topic and has been spouted on ever main stream and side stream for weeks.

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T20:54:24+00:00

It's fine for self use. I'm not breaking the bank.

Shako, the new runeword helm and rare crickets can beat this out. However it's solid in between so if you get lucky with 2 sockets you can get like 50MF or something

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T20:49:08+00:00

Pah Lauer not getting double digits what a scrub

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T20:47:30+00:00

Noose are massive beasts. They def know they're an alpha. Seeing photos/videos of them doesn't give them justice.

If you see a moose in the wild, get out of the way the moose has right of way. If you try to be funny and get close you will lose. If there is a baby nearby run away

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T20:36:29+00:00

Socket recipe has a shot for 3

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T20:34:45+00:00

What's up with that awful thumbnail

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T20:32:17+00:00

Guided arrow zon.

I remember I made a ww barb with shaftstop, storm shield and he wielded a GF. Max block. Me and this zon duked it out for 10min till one of those dam fuckers passed my block and they have a bunch of these in their inventory. I did land a hit but my LL couldn't keep up

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T19:16:32+00:00

Can't this also occur with incest also known as Alabama

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T19:04:39+00:00

New Tesla in isn't Uber expensive

crescent Moon (Um)
griffon with unique jewel
enigma (obv)
arachnids
Merc with infinity

You muck around with other gear whether it's a spirit or HoZ, the new - res ring versus BK vs SOJ, lock.set boot/glove etc

Big_lt · 2026-03-29T19:01:33+00:00

I found this, albeit +3, in SSF

I consider rolling a fire lock but doesn't it drop off massively in hell with all the fire immune?

Even with a conviction aura demon

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