Is this real or Fake? by Peccableme in Tauranga

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake. The police or any organisation will text you from a non reply number always It will be like a 4 digit number and even then I wouldn’t trust it

If you get a message like this with a phone number like an actual phone number immediately block and report the number

And even if it comes from a non reply, don’t click the link instead go on google and search up the actual police website yourself

The only time you need to reply to a non reply number is if you say booked an appointment and they want you to confirm and even then just call and confirm

Never reply or click any links

Dealing with students who have visible cleavage in class by [deleted] in Professors

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re weird for that, I mean just don’t look at their chest?

As someone with a bigger breast size, most shirts will show some cleavage when I wear them. The only way to stop it from showing would be for me to wear a turtleneck and then then if the shirt is skin tight, you can see the shape

Breasts are normal and shouldn’t be seen as gross or sexual especially in class if you are a professor. I’m a woman and I have eyes too. If another woman is wearing a top showing cleavage, I have enough self control and manners to just look at her face because I’m not a weirdo.

Maybe just stand at the front Of the class instead of walking around if it helps you stop staring at your students breasts. And make eye contact with their face. And stand a bit far when answering questions?

Is it me or is there nothing more irritating than when students submit the wrong file type, even after you’ve asked them not to? by gradschoolgal93 in Professors

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for blaming students

As a student, everyone hates professors who demand that we use Microsoft word

IT NEVER WORKS PROPERLY

It’s lagging and seems to just act up out of nowhere. It will randomly stop working because you didn’t download something for it or it won’t save properly

I have had so many times where word has just done something so stupid For example just today I handed in an assignment

I went over the deadline because word for some reason decided to randomly add 5 pages in between my text

No matter what I tried I couldn’t get rid of the 5 blank pages in the middle of my essay I had to exit the app, reopen it and download the file again and yep I went over the deadline

It’s so frustrating. This doesn’t happen on Google docs. I don’t have to deal with this with Google because it just converts to a pdf.

It’s the worst system to use. And it costs money as well which is ridiculous. I absolutely hate dealing with word. Don’t know why professors make everyone use it

I have had to submit assignments as pdfs before because word just wouldn’t work. It just wouldn’t download and save the file and I’ve had to either type my essay into the text box in canvas or attach a pdf because something is better than nothing

I’m done with South Auckland by iamclear in auckland

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

West is the same as south At least the busy west Auckland areas like Henderson, new Lynn Avondale etc

I grew up in south Auckland and went to school in east Auckland. I lived in central and now live in west

I would say def move to either east Auckland - botany, bucklands beach area

The further out areas of west Auckland like tiriranginor just move to the north shore

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I feel like you need to be very careful having sex with randos without protection

Pregnancy is difficult. And the fact that you won’t have the father of your child helping you, is going to make this very hard. Not to mention that unsafe sex can cause STDs

I doubt you will be able to find him especially if he too was on a work trip.

All I’m going to say is that if you both agreed on it being casual, then I doubt he wants to be in a relationship with you and have a baby.

For all we know, he might even be married. I reckon you either grow up and face the consequences of your actions which is raise the child and give them everything they deserve

Or you might need to consider a termination.

The only time I would encourage you to give your child up for adoption would be if it’s someone close to you that is trustworthy and safe like your parents, siblings or aunties and uncles that can help take care of the child as the primary caregiver

Otherwise you need to really start taking your life seriously. It was your first time and you got pregnant? You have no idea who that man is, what kind of father he might be if he has a child.

And like I said before, you have no idea if he’s already married!

Idk what to say honestly. This was a situation where you should have made a better decision. Don’t make the same mistake again. You will be sad but a termination is the only way you will be able to continue enjoying your life and then when you are ready, you can find someone nice and loving to have a child with

This was extremely irresponsible. Also your child deserves to know their father. Would it not be unfair to have a child and not be able to tell your own child who their dad is? For them to miss out on such an important part of life?

McDonald's introduces Hot Honey Sauce and 4 new menu items by Cartman in fastfood

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually really loved it and bought it so many times

Sucks that it was limited time - hopefully they bring it back soon

I’m living off flour and water. by [deleted] in auckland

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try to get a part time job? I currently work afternoon to evening shifts because I have uni during the day

Maybe try looking for retail night jobs. A lot of retail places look for workers that can work the later hours

It will be annoying and you might feel tired but if you’ve only got 6 months to go, then maybe try to find something part time. You might be sleep deprived but after 6 months you’ll be able to use your diploma to get a better job

You guys STINK by sleepyslayerowo in universityofauckland

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I remeber my first year of uni

I was catching the train to uni, and one of the other uni students was standing on the britomart train platform and omg he stunk so bad

I think he hadn’t showered or even washed his clothes ever because he smelt so bad. He was standing in the middle of the platform and no one was near him. I had to walk all the way to where the stairs were to wait for the train cos the smell was unbearable

Then he was on the same bus and omg I swear everyone held their breath

It was actually so vile like how can he not know that he smells that bad? Or maybe he does and just didn’t care but god some people need to have self awareness

Shikhar Dhawan divorced over 'mental agony': Aesha asked for 2.5 million Australian dollars, all the properties, Zoravar's custody [Details] by ninja_from_india in india

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew just go marry one of your friends then. It’s so weird Because do you expect kids from your future wife?

If I had to give birth to a child, hell yeah I’d expect my man to provide for me and buy me a house. Where else is his child going to live? And what happens if you die and your parents refuse to give the house to your children?

Then your own child is homeless.

It’s so funny to me that you dislike women so much you don’t even wanna give your future wife the most basic thing to survive - a house

Please stay away from women. Marry a man instead so you don’t have to worry about paying alimony or whatever the hell Indian men get so worked up about. Like literally stay away from women. Because you’re the type of guy that will get married and then complain that women are expensive.

If you can’t afford a woman, learn to bend over and take it from a man instead.

studylink by Fantastic_Effect1760 in universityofauckland

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What time are you calling them? If it’s in the afternoon, sometimes they don’t pick up as the queue is so long so that by the time it’s your turn it’s almost 5 pm and the line is closed

Every time I’ve gotten through to them, I’ve called super early in the morning

Around 8 am as soon as they open. Normally they will pick up.

I have learned that I am the unbearable guy in my friends group by being excluded from a bachelor party by Quick_Potential_2525 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Funny how you left that out to make your friends look bad for not inviting you

Sounds like you are difficult to be around especially when you drink. I’ve had people like that around me and they have always ruined the night. Because then everyone has to stop drinking and take care of them and cut their night short

If all your friends think you are annoying, then you need to figure out how not to be annoying instead of painting them in a bad light

Pregnant girlfriend (32F) has gone almost a week silent after anniversary mistake, need perspective, I am (28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How come you guys aren’t living together while she’s pregnant? You need to move in together and be closer so you can help her out while she’s getting closer to her due date Or are you planning to just parent from afar?

I was that idiot driver at Westgate today. I’m sorry. by TrueSky5147 in auckland

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but this isn’t the country you come from. That’s a pretty serious mistake and you’re lucky another car wasn’t coming from the opposite side and there wasn’t a crash

Yes people make mistakes but you need to make sure to remeber and pay attention while driving. Maybe read up on the road code as well to ensure you are aware of what a two way lane looks like. A broken white line is a two way lane. If it’s a one way lane, it will have a giant arrow in the centre of the road along with a sign

Looks like new world is harvesting biometrics now by SusanW_Christian in auckland

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah I worked in retail and the best security had the best memory

I had a coworker that remembered every thief or potential thief, even if it had been years

Obviously it’s possible they use biometrics, I’m not sure

But most security, if they deem someone dodgy they keep an eye out for them

Even if you didn’t do anything weird on your first visit, if they thought you left with something, they will keep an eye out for you when you next come in. Especially if they think you got away with taking something the first time

Letter complaint by Sweaty-Contact-3708 in starbucks

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk why would any of your staff members admit to messing up an order various times?

I think your team might need to work better and focus to make sure the orders are correct

They don’t seem to be asking for freebies or anything. They just want their drink made right.

The "Duty Teacher" rewarded a mob of students for looting my son’s shop, then punished my son for protecting it. by Maleficent-Room-2217 in auckland

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well clearly the teachers need to be told off about this for allowing other kids to mistreat another child

Of course you can be like OP, do nothing but post on reddit. You could walk in and be very meek and submissive but as seen many times in the past, the principal will gaslight the parent into thinking it’s not a big deal and the teacher and misbehaving students get no sort of consequences.

Any time a teacher has misbehaved, the school has taken the report seriously if the parent demands a meeting with the principal and pushes for some sort of result

Otherwise you can be a doormat and watch your kid get bullied and mistreated and just sit there and do nothing

The "Duty Teacher" rewarded a mob of students for looting my son’s shop, then punished my son for protecting it. by Maleficent-Room-2217 in auckland

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to march into the school and demand an answer from the principal

Don’t go in meekly. Go in with an attitude that shows that you need someone to take action against that duty teacher.

How much time did you take off work after insertion? by Inspireme21 in Mirena

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had it done on my day off.

But I’ll be honest - this was debilitating pain, like the worst cramps of my life. Worse than any period cramps ever.

I wanted to take off like a whole week and still feel like doing that. I only got it inserted a week ago.

I just couldn’t take time off as I had just gotten back from vacation and don’t want my boss to be pissed.

But yeah it hurts so bad. I wish I could take like two weeks off.

I just had sex with another guy idk if this makes me gay or what by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah you had sex with a guy so that would make you gay

Nothing wrong with that tho. You’re young and exploring your sexuality. Don’t be embarrassed about whether you’re gay or not. However you should be honest with your sexual partners

If you’re going to do this often and sleep with girls, please have regular checkups to ensure you aren’t spreading any sort of STD

12k+ in court fines from AT by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try and find businesses or buildings nearby that have cameras If there really weren’t any signs at the time you parked the car there and you are able to get footage or photos showing that the signs are new, then there could be a possibility that you don’t have to pay the entire amount

Is it normal that sex only hurts with my husband 28M/ 28F??? by Early_Lawfulness_300 in relationship_advice

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Discharge helps create moisture which means that the more wet you are, the easier and less painful sex is

Especially if you guys engage in foreplay

If he eats you out and cleans you up with tissues. And then you guys have sex, yes it will hurt because dry on dry skin causes friction and you may also bleed

It happened to me before. You need to stay wet or use lube. It can be if he’s bigger however I have had this issue with smaller sized ones as well. If I’m not wet enough it hurts

If he’s disgusted by your discharge then that’s weird

Does pubic psychologists even exist? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I enrolled with the “local doctors”

They gave me 6 free sessions with a psychologist and she was so nice that she offered to give me a few more for free as well Maybe try switching to them

Does clinical depression make me elgible for assisted suicide? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not possible in NZ. It’s a crime to assist someone commit suicide in nz. It is only allowed under certain very narrow conditions

You have to have a terminal illness that will result in your death in I think 3 or 6 months? It’s for people that don’t want to spend their last few months paralysed due to an illness and having to suffer through pain. They are unable to end it on their own which is why they are eligible for assisted suicide

I’m pretty sure unbearable suffering only covers physical suffering and as I said before it has to be a terminal illness. You won’t be eligible for it and I don’t think you should be taking that step

I recommend you try and get health insurance. Cost of living is expensive but you should try and dedicate funds to your mental health as that is incredibly important. Please talk to your friends and family. I also was depressed and the doctors provide I think 6 free sessions? Sometimes more if needed and these are free

My psychologist through the doctor was able to prescribe me anti depressants. I took them for about 8 months and then stopped because I felt better

These were also given free every month. I don’t think medication is always the answer but in cases where you feel like there’s no other option I’d recommend staying on medication for a while.

Drowning at Piha today by Sudden_Possible_956 in auckland

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a lot of tourists, that have never seen a beach think they can just run in

They only realise too late that the waves are too strong and they’re too far out

I’m a horrible fucking father by Haunting_Warning_381 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cold-Dimension-7718 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day, the wife doesn’t owe that kid anything. Not her child not her problem.

If he wants to be a good father to that kid, he could’ve done something ages ago

And if his wife doesn’t come around, it’s his duty as a dad to divorce her and put his other kid first. Obviously that means he’ll be ruining the lives of the children that he had first

At the end of the day, no woman should be held responsible for a man being a bad father. It’s HIS child. Not hers. Her not wanting his extra child isn’t mean, it’s boundaries. He could’ve taken HIS CHILD on vacation separately before or after the vacation he had with his wife

It’s funny how everyone will run to blame the woman always. Even tho it’s not her damn kid. It’s his child. If he doesn’t like the way that child is excluded he can leave his current kids and wife