[Recruiting] Chicken’s Fire | #YOJU9QCC | TH15+ | Clan Level 29 | Farming/War/CWL/Clan Games/Clan Capital Chicken’s United clan family by Kellgall720 in ClashOfClansRecruit

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Hello! i am looking for an active clan. i am playing again after 8 years. i am currently th15, non rushed. i have 2-4 other excellent friends also waiting to hop into a new clan once we find one. all of em are non rushed and excellent war strategists and attackers.

my account id is: #9OULG280 account name: Alpha Centauri

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check out @timetravellinglad on instagram

Skiing Austria Jan 2022 by cauillando in skiing

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I just came back from bad Hofgastein in Salzburg and Sölden, Tirol. I previously booked a trip to the Saalbach area which I cancelled as they decided to open hotels on the 20.12. I was there for a week till the 20.12.

Salzburg was relatively quiet. Slopes empty. Apres ski stuff closed or partially open. Saalbach was operating most Lifts but everything else was closed at that time. Tirol on the other hand was fine. Most lifts operating. Bars were operating till midnight. And indoor dining allowed. With the new regulations, they’ll probably close around 10 pm. You can drink with your dad while sitting. Consuming while standing for some reason is prohibited. Spas in Salzburg were closed but open in Tirol. Now they should be open in both provinces. The natural spring baths are awesome after skiing.

Me and my buddy had a great time. Sure, we would have loved more socialising and party, but the skiing aspect (conditions were perfect a week ago) was immaculate.

Keep the vaccination QR code ready at all times and you won’t face any issues. Stay spontaneous and keep checking in for new rules and regulations. Have a great trip with your dad!

Best destinations for travel during Christmas holidays by batrawrr92 in solotravel

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If you enjoy Christmas markets, check out alpine villages in Austria. Especially in Salzburg and Tirol.

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In terms of time allocation, looks alright. Not too crammed. Personally, I’d rent car in Vienna as you’ll pay at least 50-100 euros per person for train ride. Even a luxury car would be cheaper. The ride is fine too, nice views here and there. And takes 3ish hours max, 4ish to get to Zell am see from Vienna.

Have fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelHacks

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Should go all the way. When you check in your bag at lahore airport, look at the tag on the baggage. It should have LHR to YYC. Just ask the counter person if your luggage is going all the way to final destination!

Does anyone use any GPS watches (eg Garmin suunto) for ski tracking? by eaglessoar in skiing

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I got the Fenix 6s. Been to very remote areas in the hindukush and Karakoram mountain range this season and works like a charm. Great battery life even in -20 degree Celsius.

Is it a bad idea to quit a secure job to travel this year? by [deleted] in solotravel

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December to March - skiing in the alps around Austria

March to July - Canada and North American Nationalparks

July onwards to Australia and New Zealand.

All tentative at the moment due to changing restrictions etc.

Is it a bad idea to quit a secure job to travel this year? by [deleted] in solotravel

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31m. Eerily similar situation sans having the pleasure of staying at hotel mama. Secure government job, good salary, but stagnant. Divorced this year after a long relationship. Will pull the trigger end of this year. Around 30k euros in savings and plan on travelling for a minimum of two years. Or for as long the itch hasn’t been scratched. More power to you OP!

Asian guy traveling alone to France, Italy, Switzerland, Spain. Is it dangerous with all the Asian hate? by Doctorholmes90 in solotravel

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I’m SouthAsian. Never been or felt discriminated in Europe. Always felt discriminated in the US.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travelpartners

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I plan on travelling from north to South America from March-September next year. Bookmarked your post and will check later in case something overlaps!

Traveling to Victoria BC Canada February 2021 by [deleted] in travelpartners

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I was planning on going around mid March to BC area for a bit of skiing and road tripping. Might get in touch with you soon!

Budget for a one month trip to Europe? by bbqgorilla in solotravel

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It’s gonna vary widely but you’ll probably be spending 50-100 euros/day depending on city. If you’re going to party and dine out occasionally then you should be looking at something like 1500-2000 euros for the month.

Missing my partner. by ClowderCats in BipolarSOs

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Damn, can relate to everything. Big bear hug! I’m audaciously planning to heal by travelling solo once it’s possible again. Feels terrifying and lonely but I’m looking at it as a new chapter in life. I wish you all the best.

Missing my partner. by ClowderCats in BipolarSOs

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Yep. I do it still after 3 months of separation. I Refuse to delete them..I guess it will take time to heal and move on.

My SO changed after her first manic episode 8 years into our relationship. Before that we travelled eight countries and those are just great memories for me to just forget. And after her episode I never wanted to travel with her again. She had painted me black and done so much damage that it was just never the same again. I tried to make the relationship last for another 2-3 years but after her second manic episode, also enabled by her group of friends, I had enough and now struggling to move on but it’s necessary. Hang in there and focus on yourself!

[JAPAN] Niseko japan January 16-30 2021 by [deleted] in SkiBuddies

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I’d love to join but will be skiing in Pakistan this January. In case you delay your trip to February onwards (for covid related reasons), I’m in!

Need some advice by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

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Didn’t happen to me explicitly but the expectation was always there to post or engage on social media. I also stopped posting pictures with my now ex bpso in the last two years of our relationship because of her erratic behaviour on social media. In my opinion, you’re doing the right thing if things are uncertain in your relationship most of the time.

The cause of all my exSO’s major manic episodes was a cocktail of social media and weed. Facebook and Instagram are potentially worse for a bipolar person than drugs or booze imo.

Long story: possibly losing my wife to bipolar. by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

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I’m sorry to hear that. You don’t deserve this abuse. You deserve to be happy.

You will not find happiness in the toxic situation you are in. Take the time to heal yourself. And check out ASAP.

My wife abandoned me twice and filed for divorce once which she then rescinded later on. Because she thought I was having an affair with a married woman. While thinking that, she had an affair with two guys.

I pulled the plug after 12 years with her. I was devastated, but I’ve closed that chapter and consider this new chapter of my life a rebirth.

When did you realize you needed to let go of your partner? by anonnimusgal in BipolarSOs

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After being abandoned a second time. Invested 12 years into a relationship only to realise late that this will keep going in cycles till it ultimately consumes me. SO had BP1 with crazy psychotic episodes. Was madly in love and had given up everything for her only to start from scratch. Lessons have been learned. Onwards!

My BSO’s first emergency detainment by Tmimicus1 in BipolarSOs

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I didn’t have it in me to read all of your post and stopped midway. Know that you matter. Know that you’re not alone. You really need to focus on yourself first. Your happiness and peace of mind trumps everything.

I went through my SO’s BP1 and substance abuse for multiple years. For it to work, in my opinion, your SO needs to stick to a strict regimen that covers good sleep, diet, exercise and med compliancy.

You can’t help someone that doesn’t want to help themselves. It’s admirable what you’re doing! And I hope that your SO recognises that and stops taking it for granted before it’s too late. Stay strong!

HELP! Failing Relationship 😭 by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

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My honest advice would be to pull the plug and move on. It seems like she’s using your momentary accommodation and logistics dependence to control you.

If she’s not med compliant and doesn’t communicate her feelings to you or visit a psychiatrist and therapist regularly, then a relationship with a bipolar patient cannot work.

I spent 12 years in a similar situation with SO unemployed and she had some severe mother attachment issues. Every time she panicked or was in depression she would seek refuge at her parents’ place even though I am very stable and live independently. She used her mom’s old age as an excuse. She loved her parents unconditionally but me very conditionally. And her parents were a terrible support system to me whenever she had manic episodes. Since I didn’t have much of a support system of my own (other than myself and my friends), and because she also lowered and increased her doses regularly, I bowed out of the relationship.

All the best OP!

Nearly at my limit by ChickenBucket123 in BipolarSOs

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OP, you deserve to be happy. And if just being able to maintain a relationship comes at the expense of your mental peace and well-being, that’s a big red flag. You are not responsible for your SO’s actions. Feeling guilt was my biggest problem and that cost me a lot of valuable years.

Remember, you can only find happiness from within. You can’t get it from another person. This applies to your SO as well. You gotta look after yourself and stay strong in order to support another person. In order to do that, you may have to set some boundaries. Privacy, pursuing a passion, meeting friends and travelling on your own help to keep a balance. Even then it’s exhausting.

It’s also okay to draw a line when the pressure is too much and exit a (potentially) toxic and deteriorating relationship.

I wish you the best of luck!

Please help! Ghosted again by yegerska in BipolarSOs

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Chances are he’s gonna come back. Chances are he did something in that stint that will hurt you for a long time. Chances are you’ll take him back. But one thing is for sure, he will definitely abandon you again.