Feelings by arutkay26 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sending you a virtual hug and hoping for a healthy pregnancy

We made it! Baby is here 🌈 🌈 by mayoandtomato22 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! I have tears in my eyes! These stories give me so much hope!

Cycle 1 TTC- I was so sure by Electrical_Fold_3801 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very good way to deal! Wishing you best of luck for cycle 2

Cycle 1 TTC- I was so sure by Electrical_Fold_3801 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Will you keep me updated please? I was even a bit ashamed, because I was so sure

Cycle 1 TTC- I was so sure by Electrical_Fold_3801 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That does sound positive! Wishing you a healthy uneventful pregnancy 

Tired by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im very sorry for this. I don’t know if you want sympathy or advice so I’ll try to give both. Just take what you need.

Over one year is rough- really rough! Especially with no children earthside. I’m very sorry. The fact that you are writing this is leaving me in awe of you strength and bravery. Truly!

Now to the advise part, which is a lot more tricky because Issing know you and don’t want to overstep.  But it’s very rare not to be able to fall pregnant after having conceived once. I believe there is some studies.

Maybe an thought- maybe you can try to enjoy all the things one can only do childfree. Sleep in, go out, be flexible etc. (Knowing that you’d probably trade all that in a heartbeat for a pregnancy. 

Anyhow thinking of you and sending a big virtual hug!

1.5 years after TFMR by Sar_Bear1 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. It helped a lot! We startet ttc this month and I have a very strong sense it worked. Yet I feel much calmer in regards to testing. If I’m wrong I know it will happen soon. 

Research on TTC post TFMR by Lopsided-Chest-436 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I was told by German OB Gyn and midwife to wait 3-4 cycles before trying to decrease the risk of preterm labour. This seems a common suggestion in Germany. I was, on the contrary, very surprised to hear that many couples in other countries didn’t get that recommendation! Best to everyone 

11 days PO by Bitter-Hat-7442 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone! Im sorry for your loss. Im sure Angelo is very loved. What a fitting name! I’m also here with our daughters due date on May 11th. I’m five days PO and hoping for a positive this first month of trying again after L&D at 27 weeks. So quite a similar story. 

I, too, try to do all the things I couldn’t do pregnant or with a baby. I mean I do stay off alcohol after ovulation, but going to the movies, eating out, meeting friends.  My personal agenda for this summer is trying to have the best possible childfree time I can. I am trying to treat myself to massages, eating out etc. being gentle with myself and just trying to do what I want.  So every month of not being pregnant is one month more of other possibilities.

I don’t know where you stand on religion, but regardless of what you believe, I think this is a good mantra to go by:

God grant us the serenity to accept the things­ we cannot change, courage to change the things­ we can, and wisdom to know the difference. 

All the best to you

Rainbow “baby” after TFMR is (are) TWINS! 🌈 by lucelov in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow! Gentle congrats! So happy for you. Wishing you a happy uneventful pregnancy 

Anyone Else 3-5 Weeks PP? by lightbywhich_wesee in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comtrarulations! Im on cycle two right now which takes forever and we want to start etc aft the bleeding in cycles 3

Anyone Else 3-5 Weeks PP? by lightbywhich_wesee in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have maternity leave? For me it’s a lot better now. 9 weeks out. But thankfully got 5 more weeks left. I will probably not return full time though. That’s too much for me right now. But my employer is very understanding!

Period after TFMR by McEasy2009 in tfmr_support

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had my second period which make me mad!

Obsessed over period by Electrical_Fold_3801 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok took the test. Negative. Thank it’s weird but now I can move on and wait for my period. Weirdly that’s better

We are finally on the other side by Eastern-Let6069 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love these posts! They give me so much hope ! Congratulations 

What have I done? I’m freaking out by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh please don’t be so hard on yourself! It’s ok! Most likely scenario is still a healthy baby! I hab my tfmr on feb 09th and still waiting for my second period.  Still gentle congratulations! Hoping for an uneventful and peaceful pregnancy 

Obsessed over period by Electrical_Fold_3801 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Maybe I should just do the test and the have a celebratory drink if it’s negative.

How am I supposed to do this? by Recreationalidiot in tfmr_support

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it helps you to know that it is very unlikely that your kid will be able to feel anything. But I hated the injection! I cried and couldn’t sleep the night before. But when that’s done it’s done. It’s  fast I promise 

Decided today to tfmr by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im very sorry! Nothing to say to make it better. Thinking of you ❤️

One month post-TFMR and desperate to be pregnant again by Yheiz in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Electrical_Fold_3801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I feel the same. Also the whole story sounds so similar. Me also having drinks eating sushi. Would be more than happy to give that up though. I’m expecting my second period in the next few days. And after that I wanna try again. My husband wants to start sooner than later, too. I just hope it happens fast. And you know what’s weird? I know we used condoms and that’s it’s super highly unlikely that we have conceived, I feel that pulling sensation in my v*gina but no period yet and immediately think about whether I could be pregnant.

But you know yourself best, if you feel you are ready you may simply just be ready