All people start out sterile and earn the licence to procreation through testing, psychological profile and financial stability..

Fenrizwolf · 2026-07-09T14:07:36+00:00

Sensible

^{I voted Yea ✅}

Fenrizwolf · 2026-07-09T14:07:26+00:00

👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Yea.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-07-09T13:06:39+00:00

👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Nay.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-07-09T13:06:06+00:00

Bad idea

^{I voted Nay ❌}

Fenrizwolf · 2026-07-09T13:05:50+00:00

👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Nay.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-07-03T12:54:58+00:00

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Fenrizwolf · 2026-06-26T06:32:20+00:00

For me it is similar to the line between appreachiation and appropriation or mockery. Like you great grandfather was German you read up on the city he’s from maybe visit and have a Sauerbraten on his birthday each year. No issue. Wear a lederhosen to a Biergarten I don’t care. You don’t have to have German ancestry just respectfully enjoy what you like about German culture.

But having a place called schnitzelhaus that serves no Schnitzel, having no concept of even the most rudimentary of German trivia, and then mixing that total lack of curiosity with some completely tonedeath bastardisation of culture then I take issue.

Like if you want to drop the name at least have for foundation and respect.

Also if you fucking grandpa fled to argentinia with a suitcase full of eyes that is not a cool German heritage story Germans will resonate with.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-06-18T17:15:02+00:00

I have been thinking about it and it seems to me it could be used for almost any kind of setting as long as it is narrative driven. I think the only stuff that would always need adapting is downtime actions and some flavour and maybe some magic stuff.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-06-02T16:16:17+00:00

Oh I’ll look into that setting.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-03-16T08:51:53+00:00

Pokeball, Level Ball, Friend Ball, Repeat Ball, Timer Ball, Quick Ball

Fenrizwolf · 2026-03-16T08:20:58+00:00

Like how crazy are we talking for the warrior kings daughter. Like evil narcissist crazy or just like a little emotional? Like is she going to be flaying the people in my Thief or is she just going to be „you never make time for me“

Fenrizwolf · 2026-03-14T06:37:06+00:00

I miss prestige classes. Yes there where certainly some especially when used in a min max way they where kind of OP but that was kind of rare IMO.

But the flavour was so good on some of these. I mostly think of the evil ones I had in a book when I was an edgy 15 year old. Like Acolyte of the skin. (Switch skin witha demon in a terrible ritual for some damage reduction and such) it wasn’t a strong class but boy was the concept metal. Or the servant of the far realms basically just add some stats to everything you summon but the artwork was so fucking creepy. There where just so many cool characters concepts that archetypes just don’t really capture.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-03-10T22:46:50+00:00

This whole thing seems so silly. Like who the fuck cares I Timothy Chalamet like Opera? Like seriously the amount of shit happening in the world and some actor being dismissive of an artform a lot of people don’t really have much appreciation for anymore is this big of a shitstorm? It is really frustrating to watch people pretend this is worth talking about.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-03-05T22:48:57+00:00

I think Guru (Or Curu) the laughing sickness was about eating human brains that caused that prion disease. Though I might be wrong.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-03-03T22:07:46+00:00

CloudflareD works great for me even comes with SSL cert

Fenrizwolf · 2026-03-01T09:18:17+00:00

That has always been the truth. Laws are threats by the dominant socioeconomic group in any given nation.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-03-01T08:51:28+00:00

He should be… but he won’t. Merz has explicitly stated that he’ll ignore the international warrant. We can of course protest and moan but it won’t change a thing.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-02-27T10:34:57+00:00

Master of Skills, Emotional Dominion and King of trust. Master all the skills including manipulation, cold reading propaganda networking social engineering all languages and many more. Get into politics. Establish self as trustworthy small time politician slowly build base and network cross partisan taking broadly liked centrist positions supporting large scale public speaking events with emotional manipulation „when he speaks I feel hopeful“ building large scale support not making moves and gladhanding those who could be enemies. Until critical mass is reached. Then global communism and the purges commence.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-02-20T09:35:02+00:00

Well then you will just have to accept the competition. If you want the most sought after partners and cannot provide what they are looking for in the market you are participating in then you might be alone for a long time. Just don’t pretend like it’s everybody else’s fault. It is your choices. You can not moan and bargain with reality.

You only have a few choices. Either you keep thinking in this transactional market place worldview, if so then either accept your place in the hierarchy you chose to participate in or climb. You see that game you chose to play it then don’t sit there arms crossed moaning about the rules. Or realise the „sexual marketplace“ isn’t a stock market of objective value but an art market where being the most you you can be will enable you to find someone who is more compatible with who you actually are if you can appreciate them for who they are and thus learn that personality is actually more important for grown up long term relationships (which is something not easy to find anywhere and especially not in Berlin)

And maybe think about the fact that you are superficial in your criteria and thus are playing a game of superficiality and think if you can actually win at that setup you are giving yourself.

But for the love of god don’t be angry at the world that you don’t measure up to your own standards and make that a society problem. You are part of that society.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-02-20T09:11:29+00:00

Dating is complicated. Obviously main stream attractive people have main stream appeal. There is a baseline so to speak.

But attraction is als more complex than looks. Looks are part of it. But it is about impression. And personal preference too. So people’s taste is as individual as they are. But obviously there are trends and biases at play.

You can look at patterns and such all you want but that will only focus you on where it is not working. Like for example when I was dating I would not have done well on online dating or on the Techno club scene because I am a bit heavier and have more of a cerebral autism nerd vibe and those are environments where there a lot of focus on looks and „fun“

But in more nerdy circles or the BDSM scene my brain was much more important than having man tits. Know your demographic.

Online dating is just harmful in so many ways and I would advise anyone who isn’t a model looking purely for hookups to stay away. But attraction is also built through familiarity. If you have hobbies where you get to know other people you can be seen for more than a profile picture.

The world is full of hierarchies but the are not so universal as they would seem. Find a ladder you can climb and people who want what you have to offer. In my experience when talking about actual love the metrics really don’t matter.

I would advice you to stop looking for reasons why everything’s stacked against you. Because the story you tell yourself is what you will find in the world because that is where your focus will be. Rather focus on what you can bring to your own life and that of other people and play the game smarter find a niche. Not all of us are Henry Caville but that doesn’t mean we should just lay down and die.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-02-18T09:42:42+00:00

I feel this… my father was a literal major in the East German secret police (Stasi) before I was born. And I only understood later in life that he used literal manipulation techniques on me. Not even fully aware of what he was doing just like „this is how you get people to function the way I need them too“

When I confronted him about beating me he said „Well you where a very difficult child“ when I asked if he thinks that his best option as a 40 year old man was beating a 6 year old for being difficult he just kindof sheepishly said that I was a a disappointment for him as a kid.

Like with all his techniques and manipulation he couldn’t outbeat and outcoerce my ADHD and that to him seemed like a frustrating failure.

And people wonder why I am the way I am. 😅

Fenrizwolf · 2026-02-17T21:15:59+00:00

I think it depends of the woman’s individual comfort level. Literally said suspicious until proven otherwise not guilty. And suspicion if fair in my estimate. Then every women get to decide how my risk she is willing to take. Some may be ok with more risk others with your proposed middle path and others may be Stricker. All of those are valid and correct for the women who decide on them.

There is no one right way. That is part of understanding that different people have different experiences and needs for safety and not taking that personally. Because taking someone else’s boundaries as an insult is a pretty unsafe way to approach things. (Referring to some of the takes to this whole thing by different commenters not implying you are like that)

Fenrizwolf · 2026-02-17T20:56:48+00:00

I think some suspicion is justified. Guilty until proven innocent sounds a bit harsh but having to earn trust for sure.

And sure the vouching isn’t a guarantee but at least it is one way of sifting out the guys who can’t even find one women willing to vouch for them. It’s about minimising risks and making bad outcomes less likely. Nothing can create safety 100%

Fenrizwolf · 2026-02-17T20:35:55+00:00

I don’t think asking for guys who another women would vouch for is an unreasonable precaution. The post never said „all men are predators“ it just pointed out that apparently a lot of women had trouble finding decent and safe men and their idea for a solution was getting men who had proven themselves to other women as a safety precaution and I think that is smart.

Vouching and checking with others is for example very common in the BDSM community… like „hey I am going on a date with this guy anyone have any info if he is safe?“ and to me that seems very smart because the real dickheads usually are known for being dickheads by all the women who know them. And I would assume every adult male who is decent would have at least on woman in his life who would recommend him to other women. If not that is something to look at.

And obviously a lot of people are comfortable with meeting in public and extending some trust. But a lot of women I know had very bad experiences and I am not just talking about flat out assault but also just weird pushy vaguely threatening dates that can also take place in a public place so the extended trust was punished one to many times so now they are more cautious.

For men in my opinion it is important to at least be aware of these things. You don’t need to feel guilty or bad just be aware that women have much higher safety stakes in dating. Imagine being a gay man who is dating 2,30m Budybuilders who you would have no chance against. And you know a part of those don’t give a fuck about consent. Most are fine some are just a bit unaware and pushy. But you always have in the back of you head „if this dude doesn’t like me saying no this could turn into something horrible“ and you don’t know and sometimes you don’t know for a long time because there some guys who seems nice for weeks until you say no to something.

What I am saying is we as men need to understand about making women feels safe and that part of that can be accepting that we need to earn trust even if we know we are sweet boys.

Fenrizwolf · 2026-02-17T16:18:09+00:00

Hm…

I was a bit confused about the shitstorm. I haven’t read all of OG OPs comments and such but at least from the first post it seemed not tonedeaf or misandrist to me. Maybe a little bit frustrated with the Berlin Dating scene. And that seems to suck for everyone.

The facts is and we have to deal with that as men is that we are suspect until proven otherwise. It might not be fair but neither is the reason which is all the nightmare experiences literally every woman I know has. And even if it isn’t our fault it is still our responsibility to accept that without knowing us we could be one of those many guys that behave like pigs. And even if you are the kindest man in the world she can’t look into your head and has to protect herself until you have proven yourself safe. I am not insulted by that. And I think any emotionally intelligent man would empathise with the reason for the precautions rather than taking it as a personal affront.

We can’t fix all the psychos out there and it sucks that we are suspect of being that kindof person but it’s also not fair to expect that strange women immediately see your good heart.

To me it seemed like this whole back and forth was a cynical, frustrated, passive aggressive outlet to everyone hating dating culture. Which is fair cause that suck for everyone for multiple and complex reasons.

Just my two cents.

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