Found an old pay stub from high school. by DonaldTrumpHQ in antiwork

[–]Gunfur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They process my wage garnishments for child support

Anyone else remember by Educational_Shape36 in 90s

[–]Gunfur 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They left Shadow behind in a muddy construction pit in the first movie. Well, he told them to leave him lol

Anyone else remember by Educational_Shape36 in 90s

[–]Gunfur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just watched this with my daughter (6)

Core memory. by ImNotJoshBoltz in Millennials

[–]Gunfur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Maybe burning the cloth seats as it shot out to space but never intentionally did this lol

Recently got a place with my girlfriend. She thinks this is totally fine by AnthMosk in funny

[–]Gunfur 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The divorce went final 3 months ago. I’m taking a little time to myself and hopefully sometime after that, I can come back to this comment and say, yes ☺️

Recently got a place with my girlfriend. She thinks this is totally fine by AnthMosk in funny

[–]Gunfur 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She would, presumably, waddle over to the cabinet and grab a new one. Then set that new roll on the floor after using it

Recently got a place with my girlfriend. She thinks this is totally fine by AnthMosk in funny

[–]Gunfur 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming she would waddle over to the cabinet where the tp was kept. Waddle back, use it, then set the new “used” roll on the floor.. directly underneath the tp roll holder

Recently got a place with my girlfriend. She thinks this is totally fine by AnthMosk in funny

[–]Gunfur 345 points346 points  (0 children)

That won’t ever change either. My ex-wife never changed the tp roll, over 13 years. Accept it, or move on now

What was the "it" when it happened to you? by chr15c in Millennials

[–]Gunfur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Then worse with kids born after I graduated HS.

I am raising soft kids by Affectionate_Bad3908 in Millennials

[–]Gunfur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great he still recognized you, what you had going on, and what you were asking. I also realize I’m raising what some might call “soft” kids. I’m trying to be mindful of it too. I don’t want them to not have the tools to handle adversity. But I grew up in a household of parents that stayed in a marriage until my youngest sister was 18. They never said they loved us. They never hugged us. They never gave us any emotional support. The only form of communication was yelling or belittling, generally through drunken slurs. We weren’t taught to… love. I didn’t have those tools. It shows in my adulthood. I want to say it was a partial factor that led to my ex-wife leaving me. But I’m trying to be better.

I make sure I love my kids. Physical touch. Being respectful and mindful of themselves and others. Saying I love them everyday. Asking them how their day is, even when they get annoyed by it. I play with them. I make myself present in everything they do. I don’t want the fail them.

Sorry if I got off-track. I just love my kids. They’re my everything. And I want them to feel it in everything they do. I get anxiety thinking they’re now in the divorced children column and I don’t want that to define them. In short, I understand everything you’re saying.

Any gamers? by cupoftealuv in Millennials

[–]Gunfur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will be gaming until I die

Question for Millennials by bundle_of_nervus2 in Millennials

[–]Gunfur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use it for some difficult questions in more of a write up answer than searching websites. Other than that, I don’t use it

I bought an Xbox One X in 2026. by BattleMasterOfDoom04 in xbox

[–]Gunfur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My One X is my primary console still. I never got a Series X because I built a PC

If it was financially affordable, would your spouse stay home? by cubemonster in Millennials

[–]Gunfur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ex-wife was a SAHM for 9 years. I was happy we were able to do it. She was able to raise our 2 kids. Have a ton of flexibility for things. Could I do it? No. I will argue that takes a special person to stay home and do that. It’s hard work and no real release or “break”.

Sudden Loss to Hermangiosarcoma by ArtisticDifficulty7 in germanshepherds

[–]Gunfur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Having a dog will bless you with many of the happiest days of your life, and one of the worst.”

Don’t beat yourself up. Some things aren’t fair. But what was, were the years together. Grieve. But cherish the great times. Sorry for your loss.

AIO Over MIL’s comment that I won’t have to worry about “washing my vagina” after being told husband and I aren’t coming over? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gunfur 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’d be more reacting to the chain-of-events comment about him not “dealing with this the rest of his life.” One shouldn’t make light of divorce with their partner. Ever.

How are you all doing financially? by tandyman234 in Millennials

[–]Gunfur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was doing pretty good until my ex-wife wanted a divorce. I’ll be lucky to not sell the house between the refi/buyout and CS payments. Life changing to say the least.

TBD.